Bachelor Party

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Posted by soon2bmrsammo

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Posted by BklynBabe1624

We aren't having a bachelor or a bachelorette party. We discussed this and agreed its not something either of us wanted to do.

However, if we decided to have one. I definately would not want there to be strippers. There is no need for either him or I to be grouped, touched or danced on by anyone.

But I do believe whether you two fight about his bachelor party. I still feel that you need to express your concerns but also allow him to express his. Listen to one another. As someone else suggested, maybe its easier for you to plan your bachelorette party when he has his to help with the thoughts of what he might be doing and live it up with your party. Remember, you two are here to share in a lifetime commitment.

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I agree! FH and I are not labeling it a bachelor/bachelorette party. We are just doing a together get together with friends and family. The way I think of it is.. you should of done that stuff before you got engaged. I've heard some horrible stories of what goes on at bachelor parties. It not worth the arguments and aggravation.

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