OK.. I asked about the dream Bachelorette party and you all gave great answers.. didn't know (but kinda suspected) that going to a spa would be probably the most popular choice... very interesting.
Let's kinda flip the coin.. shall we....
OK.. your FH is going to his Bachelor party.. you dont' know anything about it.. only the date of when it is. Maybe your Bachelorette party is the same exact night. Whatever....
He seems mum about the details.. maybe he truly just doesn't know.. but you're not sure...
Do you....
A.) Pry information little by little from him to know where it is.. exactly who's going. But go no further than that.
B.) Pry some info from him but not a lot.. but tell him that you would like it if he specifically avoids any Adult behavior.
C.) Say nothing except 'Have fun'... You KNOW he's not gonna stray.
D.) Tell him that whatever he does is his business.. as long as he remembers that whatever you do is YOUR business!
E.) A combo of two of the above.
Remember there are no worng or stupid answers.. Just laughs to be had over them!
oakslady
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
i pick C basically cause he knows better -
Valentinegirl
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
I dont think FI wouldnt know what he was doing and I would think he would want to tell me and not hide anything, so none of the above.
nferrandi
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
My FH is going to Vegas for a long weekend. I will ask him some questions and whatever he's willing to share I'll know. I know that there will be stuff going on that I will never know about (not any cheating, I don't have to worry about that). I told my FH to have a great time and just not to do anything he wouldn't want me doing.
halloweenbride04
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
Not that I don't trust HIM, but I would put a very sweet phone call into his BM and say 'Look dude, where are you taking my fiance??'
I'm lucky, my fiance is not into the 'typical' bachelor party thing, bars, drinking, strippers, etc...he'll be perfectly content with hitting a steak place for dinner and then a casino to play poker into the wee hours.
tourist
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
If yuo don't tell me, don't call me for bail. . .
but seriosuly, if I cared, I would ask the friends. BM won't plan anything nuts, but the friends might. Mostly I don't care, but I don't want the taking him somewhere he doesn't wanna go. (Like a strip club in Canada, which almost happend for a friend of ours!)
1017Bride
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
C. I know my FH does not like all that stuff with strip clubs. He says its silly. He also said he would never do anything against me like that anyhow.
kel2004
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
I choose a combination of A and C. I would be curious what his plans were, but if he didn't know, I would just say 'Have fun!'
darly
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
I think I'm C&D combined I know he is going to Vegas and I do know that his ONE friend had 3 bachelor parties 2 which were in Vegas one in Puerto Rico... And the friend is still married (ha ha) so that's a good sign! But I have been told more or less what he would like to do - more or less an outline...
Marcela1654
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
I'd ask his BM not b/c I don't trust FH but b/c I'd be really curious to know
BTW, FH and 16 of his friends/cousins are going to New Orleans during Mardi Gras and I really don't mind. I know he won't stray. I want him to have a great time.
Maribelle7777
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
Basically I said 'please no touching' if a stripper is hired or they go to a strip joint, and I'm going to ask his best friends' fiances to 'gently remind' them not to get anything other than a stripper, if they feel they HAVE to get one.
I have a feeling that they'll just take him out and get him drunk. Both of them are getting married this year too and one of them might be going overseas to work for awhile until our wedding so I don't think they will going crazy over it. Oh well
OctGroom
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
Typical guy stuff -- drunkness and strippers.. LOL I posted the other thing about the dream bachelorette party.. and they ideas are just so much more original.. haha
It's a male rite of passage.. all in good fun as long as it doesn't go to far.
Let me answer the question now myself.. if I ask I should answer, don't you think?..
I'm a combo of A + C.
I know she'll ask if I know what's going on, etc. Then she'll be like.. 'Have fun!'
We have two rules to follow with this-- 1.) Don't do anything degrading or that would take away your self-respect. 2.) Don't do anything you couldn't tell you partner about the next morning.
We're both looking forward to two great parties and that's how it should be.
EvenEdan
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
I say C, except I would add, 'Please be careful' to the end of it. I am a worrier and I will be really concerned about drinking to oblivion or someone driving.
kdelace
Posted:
Member since
Re: Bachelor Party multiple choice... haha
My fiance is leaving friday for new orleans with 10 guys. I told him to have fun, come home in one piece and leave the hotel name in case of emergency... my bachelorette party is next weekend.. I have so many little wedding things to do like SHOP for honeymoon clothes that I will be busy this weekend!!
