bachelor party & strippers...please help

spdy540 Posted: May 25, 2011 10:59 PM

bachelor party & strippers...please help

thoughts?

my fh told me in the beginning he doesnt like strip clubs. he went to his friends bachelor party and went to a strip club which i didnt care because it wasnt his party he went to the city with a group. Now he is insisting on one for his bachelor party and I should not ask questions because that is what a bachelor party is.

jovigirl414 Posted: May 25, 2011 11:01 PM

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I have no issues with it ... as long as they're not the dirty strippers, if you know what I mean ...

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 25, 2011 11:21 PM

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Same.... It doesnt bother me... never has!!! He still comes home to you!

spdy540 Posted: May 25, 2011 11:24 PM

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Fh bestman was in a shady line of work a while ago he has since cleaned up his act still shady though

kshea23 Posted: May 25, 2011 11:25 PM

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Posted by jovigirl414

I have no issues with it ... as long as they're not the dirty strippers, if you know what I mean ...

I totally agree, my DH did a pit stop at a strip bar during his bachelor party and he told me the girls were pretty gross so it wasn't exciting for him. They left after 20 minutes lol.

but if your FH knows his boundaries, then I wouldn't worry

VCanizalez Posted: May 25, 2011 11:42 PM

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Im sorry I guess I am going 'againtst' my LIW Brides.... but to me that is DISGUSTING & DISRESPECTFUL!

My FH and I hate strippers...
Thank God we are in the same pag that if we have a Bparty we Dont want any of those becuse we believe it is completely disrespectful to ur partner to have Strippers all over U...
I cant imagine a d!ck dancing all over me... Eck disgusting... I can get my Fh to do da for me
& if he was to see some t!ts dancing all over him he has me...

We are both in the same page and this is what we think.

So I will tell u the opposite I guess, I would be annoyed as hell and would be having a huge argument if he 'changed' his mind out of nowhere!

MrsDtoB Posted: May 25, 2011 11:52 PM

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I don't see anything wrong with it and never have.
However, if your man spends more time at the strip club than with you, then it should be an issue, kwim?
It's for a bachelor party, I don't think its a big deal.

CroatianBride Posted: May 26, 2011 01:15 AM

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I'm not crazy about the idea but boys will be boys. I told FH and a few of the Groomsmen that I only have two requests...one - no strippers or any other kind of women in the hotel room....and two - although a strip club is ok, a lap dance is not....even if its bought/paid for or free. So honestly after FH agreed, I have no problem with his BP.

ImgonnabeMrsC Posted: May 26, 2011 06:30 AM

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Ugh. I hate them!!! Fh says he hates them n he has left strip clubs before when he was at a Bach party, he's just too shy lol. But his friends keep talking bout crazy ones for his Bach party n I cannot even tell u how much anxiety I'm gna have!

Kelli218 Posted: May 26, 2011 07:00 AM

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It doesn't bother me... I completely trust FH!

Chanwich Posted: May 26, 2011 07:23 AM

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Preface: This is not directly aimed at you, but a general statement.

I've been so quiet on this topic in the past, but I strongly feel that if you can't trust your own FH, you probably shouldn't be marrying him!

Yes strippers are skanky, but in the end you have to trust that he is marrying YOU and that its all just fun for him and his boys.We are going to be their wives, not their mothers, they are big boys,and it should be their decision what to do for their bachelor party, not ours.

jettahot Posted: May 26, 2011 08:34 AM

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I trust my FH and know he wouldnt do anything to hurt me! Strippers dont bother me, it is what it is...

This reminds me of a line from the funniest movie EVER, The Hangover...
Just remind your FH's.... ' That little girl up there, grinding and dry humping the f*cking stage... Thats somebody's daughter.....'

Sorry to make light of this with humor, but it poppedinto my mind and I had to share...

evita2781 Posted: May 26, 2011 08:37 AM

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ehh, i'm not so crazy over them but FH has gone to them for bach parties and in the past. as long as he's faithful that's all that mattters

rosatemp Posted: May 26, 2011 08:40 AM

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Posted by jovigirl414

I have no issues with it ... as long as they're not the dirty strippers, if you know what I mean ...

ITA

fdnybride163 Posted: May 26, 2011 09:11 AM

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FH doesnt like strip clubs, i think in the 10 yrs we have been together he has gone, maybe 4 times....

it doesnt really bother me about he strip club, what would bother me MORE is that all of a sudden he is changing him opinion on them....

chris1082 Posted: May 26, 2011 09:22 AM

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Posted by rosatemp

Posted by jovigirl414

I have no issues with it ... as long as they're not the dirty strippers, if you know what I mean ...

ITA

I agree

GlitterBox24 Posted: May 26, 2011 09:29 AM

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Doesnt bother me one bit...

We are both having seperate destination bach parties, but doing a big joint one here at a strip club.

As someone said, if hes spending all hs time in a strip then there is a problem, but for a bach party, i really dont see the big deal.

I actually had a convo regarding this with some guys at my job who are married, and their wives have no problem with it, one actually made a good point. He said girls should be more worried about their men at a club where they can meet a girl that actually likes them and not at a strip club where these chicks really only want $.

Moonmist09 Posted: May 26, 2011 10:01 AM

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it looks like i will be the only other bride to side with Veronica.
This is a very touchy subject and everyone feels differently about it.
Let me preface it by saying tht i truist FH completely and know he would never do anything to hurt me.
HOWEVER, we both feel that having other men/women drool, fondle, straddle and gyrate all over you is completely disrespectful to your partner. Like V said, if i wanted this, I can go home to FH and ask for it and he feels the same.
With that said, many women don't let it bother them.
So it comes down to what you , personally feel about the situation.