bachelor party & strippers...please help

sorry to piss you all off... but ease up on the fu**ing leash! you cant walk around and know wha t your husband does, talks to, flirts with for the rest of your life. get over it and let him dohis thing. he can make his own choice - if he thinks its 'respectful or not' . he should dictate his respect for you- NOT YOU!!!

get a life

OK there is TOO much everytime someone asks this question...

TRUST has nothng to do with this question, Everyone has a different mind about this...

I think We should leave it at

EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT OPINIONS/THOUGHTS... EVERYONE'S RELATIONSHIP IS DIFFERENT!!!!

If anyone thinks is ok for their partner (either man or woman) to go out to see strippers, THEN BE IT...

If anyone doesnt think is ok to to go see strippers, THEN BE IT TOO...


IF I think Seeing a strippers is disresptecful then OH WELL THIS IS MY SH!T this is M Y LIFE... and THIS IS THE WAY I AM! SO LET ME BE IT!



If U want Ur FH to have strippers all over him, get lap dances & get tits and pussssy all over him THEN Oh Well That is You!
If you like to have dcks all oer ur face then that is YOU!


Like Many of you say rit 'As long as he/she comes bakc home to you...' It dont matter If he/she fkc the stripper or strippers as long as after he/she does EVERYTHING they wanted to do with the strppers they are home back to ur arms, THEN that is all it matters to u then let it be it

So If you are Ok with Your partner seeing/being with strippers then it is Ok because that is your relationship

But if you are Not ok with ur partner seeing/being with strippers then its Ok too bc this is your relationship

and Im done now

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clearly this goes against what you just said- you make it seedy bc someone trusts their man looking at another girl. you make it sound wrong. if you really thought it was ok you wouldnt put seedy ness around it. a guy can look at a girl and a girl can look at a guy - naked or not and it not be seedy. it only becomes seedy of one of those people cant control themselves- and that issue will appear in marriage anyway. done - end of story.

As I stated before If yall cool with what you do its fine...
I have my OWN ways and this is how I am and I am in no way or shape xpecting You or anyone else to get it, as long as FH and I are on the same page that is all I care.

So if I think strippers are disgusting n fked up then let it be it! If you think they are cool n awesome then its ok


Like U said
Done,
End of Story

POST CLOSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is finished!

Love you girls

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Posted by Colcas2011

sorry to piss you all off... but ease up on the fu**ing leash! you cant walk around and know wha t your husband does, talks to, flirts with for the rest of your life. get over it and let him dohis thing. he can make his own choice - if he thinks its 'respectful or not' . he should dictate his respect for you- NOT YOU!!!

get a life

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'get a life'

not nice

All.this stripper talk is,making me want.to.take pole dancing classea. We can atleast thank the strippers for that. Lol

On a side note I ve gone to many.strip clubs and am ok with them but I dont like male strippers. always so sweaty.

sorry i got so worked up- i was just fighting with someone the other day about this so the emotions were still fresh.

i know and know of alot of women who have been cheated on and its terrible to see a family be broken up. in the end strippers are not who you have to worry about- its every day women. thats all - thats why i dont get worked up about men and strip clubs. thats not the girls you have to worry about.

sorry for the first obnoxious posts-

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Posted by Colcas2011

sorry i got so worked up- i was just fighting with someone the other day about this so the emotions were still fresh.

i know and know of alot of women who have been cheated on and its terrible to see a family be broken up. in the end strippers are not who you have to worry about- its every day women. thats all - thats why i dont get worked up about men and strip clubs. thats not the girls you have to worry about.

sorry for the first obnoxious posts-

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This post stinks

always gets us worked up lol

There are things people should never discuss Politics, Religion and Strippers!

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Posted by GlitterBox24

All.this stripper talk is,making me want.to.take pole dancing classea. We can atleast thank the strippers for that. Lol

On a side note I ve gone to many.strip clubs and am ok with them but I dont like male strippers. always so sweaty.

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i would rather go to a girls stripp club then thunder down under..... male strippers are gross...so are girls.... ewwwiee


whatevs....

I know my FH doesn't want to go to strip club because he thinks its gross. BUT if he wanted to I'd trust him completly... I think I love him more because he thinks they are disgusting.
It's up to your personal preference..its just best to talk about it.

what great timimg!

FH is going on his bach party this weekend. I know, just like other bach parties he has been at that these girls will be coming to the room. It is what it is. Nothing about it personally bothers me bc I know that the 'imaginary' line we have drawn would be up. We have been to strip clubs before and I love it. I want him to have fun. I remember the first time he ever went and came home to me, I was disgusted that after he was there he was so horny, but the more I think about it and he explains, he thinks of me. When we go together, he loves watching a lap dance to me. I really think it is one's preference, not about trust. More so the person you are with would just not violate you in a disturbing way. That being said..I think I need to have a 'talk' about what is acceptable..LOL.

I don't mind either.

If you are secure in your relationship than you should trust your partner to not do something wrong. Its a trust issue. And if there is no trust than thats not good for the marriage in the long run.

Let him have his fun. The women he sees on stage are not the ones he would marry anyway. So why care if he goes. I say trust him.