my fh told me in the beginning he doesnt like strip clubs. he went to his friends bachelor party and went to a strip club which i didnt care because it wasnt his party he went to the city with a group. Now he is insisting on one for his bachelor party and I should not ask questions because that is what a bachelor party is.
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Keeping my opinion to myself on this one. Don't wanna start any
As long as we can all agree to disagree.. lol
but yeah everyone is diff. so you have to do what feels right to you.. What we all think int he end doesnt matter, its what you think... Becuase as you can see we all feel differently about the subject and neither side is 'right' becuase there is no right or wrong, just what is right and wrong for 'YOU and YOUR relationship'
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I am reserving my opinion on this one too. I don't think there would be enough for what I would like to say!
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Wouldnt you rather know than him hide something like this from you???
When FH has a bach party with strippers i tell him to get a lap dance on me!
I guess im crazy though...
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I think it really depends on your relationship and the type of guy he has been as long as you've known him, if your FH wants to go to a strip club it should not be a surprise to you, its up to you if you want to take a stand depending on how much you really care about it
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Wouldnt you rather know than him hide something like this from you???
When FH has a bach party with strippers i tell him to get a lap dance on me!
I guess im crazy though...
Sounds like me!!!!
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I agree with what was said about doing what is right for you and your relationship. You and fh should def be on the same page. Imo, I think it is disrespectful...why is it ok for him to look at naked women and have boobs in his face just because he's getting married? Not to mention what they do in the champagne room...
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It wouldnt bother me at all, but you have to go with how you feel
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I'm a firm believer that if a man is gonna cheat on you, he's not gonna wait till his 'last night of freedom' to do so. If you feel he's gonna do it, then perhaps its already been done.
I won't worry about strippers.
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Both FH and I agreed......No Strippers!!
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I reminded my Fh that he cannot see any herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, HPV, crabs, etc. on these girls. If indeed they are girls. EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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Posted by PhyllisNJoe
Keeping my opinion to myself on this one. Don't wanna start any
As long as we can all agree to disagree.. lol
but yeah everyone is diff. so you have to do what feels right to you.. What we all think int he end doesnt matter, its what you think... Becuase as you can see we all feel differently about the subject and neither side is 'right' becuase there is no right or wrong, just what is right and wrong for 'YOU and YOUR relationship'
well said!!!
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I agree with what was said about doing what is right for you and your relationship. You and fh should def be on the same page. Imo, I think it is disrespectful...why is it ok for him to look at naked women and have boobs in his face just because he's getting married? Not to mention what they do in the champagne room...
ok, i'll bite, whats done in a champagne room?
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I'm a firm believer that if a man is gonna cheat on you, he's not gonna wait till his 'last night of freedom' to do so. If you feel he's gonna do it, then perhaps its already been done.
I won't worry about strippers.
totally agree!!
sometimes i say i would rather him go to the strip club, because he cant bang the stripper.... going out to a bar with a bunch of chicken heads running around drunk throwing themselves at him is more dangerous! (and i know its all about how much he can control the situation but its still more of a threat to me... esp since he is FDNY and we ALLL now how stupid girls can get around a man in uniform
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I have no issues with it ... as long as they're not the dirty strippers, if you know what I mean ...
ITA
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I think more than lapdance, but i dont know if its all the whole nine yards, ive never been in there. But i do know its a lot of $$$$ to go in there.
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Posted by FutureMrsTlasek
I agree with what was said about doing what is right for you and your relationship. You and fh should def be on the same page. Imo, I think it is disrespectful...why is it ok for him to look at naked women and have boobs in his face just because he's getting married? Not to mention what they do in the champagne room...
ok, i'll bite, whats done in a champagne room?
I google that and IT DOESNT LOOK GOOD...
Apparently ANYTHING can be done..
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Personally, a strip club wouldn't bother me. I know FH has been to one once before, and I'm fine with it. I also happen to know that FH doesn't want that for his bach party and has been clear about that with his brothers. If that is what he wanted though, I would rather him tell me that was the case instead of lying about it. JMO, though.
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Wouldnt you rather know than him hide something like this from you???
When FH has a bach party with strippers i tell him to get a lap dance on me!
I guess im crazy though...
No Liz you aren't crazy!! Like a few other people said, I feel like wayyy more harm can be done out at a bar then at a strip club. Some people feel its disrespectful, I get it, and that is totally fine.
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This totally doesn't bother me. Fh only goes for bachelor parties. If he was going all the time then it would be a different story. For mine were going to hunk-o-mania. When I told fh he goes what's that. After I told him, all he did was laugh. We even had a stripper at my MOHs bachelorette party.
If u trust each other, than that's all that matters. I know at the end of the day Fhs coming home to me not the chicks that just want $.
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Im sorry I dont mean to add any more t this but I believe u are taking what i said the wrong way I do TRUST my Fh 100% and He trust me 100% too....
This is the way we were both raised... Keep in mind we were raised in our Country not in USA culture, no offense but Our Cultures are very different...
This has nothing to do with the 'Trust' issue... We do have trust we just think its disgustin n disrespectful to have other ppl shaking their things all over us!!!!
And I will feel disgusted if Fh comes to me after touching another woman... That is so disgusting...
I know many of u are ok with that and in fact many of u too have visited strip clubs but Im sorry this is My Opinion and as stated before, We all have different opinions...
