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Bachelorette Party Q

Original post by Toucan311

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?

yelley77 Posted:

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Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?
stlmn2u Posted:

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Posted by stlmn2u

I do NOT want one either.....I may just go to a nice restaurant with some family and friends for dinner....But that's it....Nothing crazy....



Maybe wine tasting.




I'm not really a wine drinker....Actually, I'm not a drinker at all....LOL But we'll see....
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!
AndRecKy Posted:

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for heather

im feeling the exact same way this week...i'd love to go out for some drinks with you!!!
queenbean Posted:

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I have a VERY small group of friends. At first when all the wedding plans started coming along in full gear I felt crappy that I didn't have a larger group of friends....... but as it turned out, I realized how amazing my small group of wonderful girls really are! I would plan something fun with them for sure! I'm sure the cake would be good but a night out with the girls is most definitely better!

yelley77 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!



I'm good for Wednesday. Do we have a date?
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by AndRecKy

for heather

im feeling the exact same way this week...i'd love to go out for some drinks with you!!!



I guess we all have those weeks sometimes!
MrsD71208 Posted:

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I think that you should go out with your two friends and have a girly day. Get your nails done, get a massage if you like that. Go get lunch somewhere after and maybe go shopping (even if you don't have money to spend, go and look). I think that you can have fun doing that too. Maybe bring them to help you choose some outfits for your HM or even a bathing suit.

If you are into it, why don't you consider a Jack and Jill BP? I know that is what I want to do and so does FH. Our friends are all mutual...I mean, at one point some of the friendships were seperate but of course after being together for a while, his friends became mine and vice versa. I think that we will have so much more fun going out in a group of 16 than two smaller groups.

I'm very lucky that FH isn't into wasting money on dirty strippers and he's happy that I feel the same way. I personally think that some people use BP's as excuses to do these dirty things that they wouldn't regularly do (note that I said SOME)....don't get caught up in trying to have a 'typical' BP...do something different and you'll have so much more fun!!!!!!!!!!

I'll totally get my nails done with you and get lunch!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!



I'm good for Wednesday. Do we have a date?



Its a date!! I have my hair trial on Thursday, so it will be an exciting week!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

I think that you should go out with your two friends and have a girly day. Get your nails done, get a massage if you like that. Go get lunch somewhere after and maybe go shopping (even if you don't have money to spend, go and look). I think that you can have fun doing that too. Maybe bring them to help you choose some outfits for your HM or even a bathing suit.

If you are into it, why don't you consider a Jack and Jill BP? I know that is what I want to do and so does FH. Our friends are all mutual...I mean, at one point some of the friendships were seperate but of course after being together for a while, his friends became mine and vice versa. I think that we will have so much more fun going out in a group of 16 than two smaller groups.

I'm very lucky that FH isn't into wasting money on dirty strippers and he's happy that I feel the same way. I personally think that some people use BP's as excuses to do these dirty things that they wouldn't regularly do (note that I said SOME)....don't get caught up in trying to have a 'typical' BP...do something different and you'll have so much more fun!!!!!!!!!!

I'll totally get my nails done with you and get lunch!



FH isnt into that stuff either, however, is best man is a dirty man wh*re. Thankfully, FH does NOT want strippers, adn they're going to AC instead to gamble. So, although FH wont be looking at dirty women, we'll probably be poorer after his Bach party!
heathermatt Posted:

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As the years are coming on...I cannot hang either...Since I will be 32 a week after my bach. All i am asking for is dinner....and mani and pedis...I do nto care who shows up...If there is three then it is more the merry

yelley77 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!



I'm good for Wednesday. Do we have a date?



Its a date!! I have my hair trial on Thursday, so it will be an exciting week!



yay. white or red?
Kerin2804 Posted:

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I am definitely having one - I am past the party/frinking stage but we'll do something. When one of my best friends got married in Nov. , just the two of us went out to dinner then shopping so she could buy lingerie for her honeymoon. Ot was what she wanted.

SugaBeans Posted:

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oh come on!! you know your fellow slu nts will take you out!!!

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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im going to invite myself to your bparty so just let me know when and where
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!



I'm good for Wednesday. Do we have a date?



Its a date!! I have my hair trial on Thursday, so it will be an exciting week!



yay. white or red?



White. I just can't get into red. What can I bring?
MikeandJess Posted:

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I honestly don't want one, I HATE the bar scene and also have a very small group of close friends. I told my sister that if she is planning one we can do a spa or something like that and that's it! You can go with your girls and get a nice massage and pedicure or something, you don't have to have the typical bachelorette party.

Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

im going to invite myself to your bparty so just let me know when and where



Jenise, I know that if scuba steve isn't at the party you'll totally be a no-show
yelley77 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat


Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!



I'm good for Wednesday. Do we have a date?



Its a date!! I have my hair trial on Thursday, so it will be an exciting week!



yay. white or red?



White. I just can't get into red. What can I bring?



fabulous, I'm going to pick up some Voga... it's delish. just bring yourself.. 7:30?
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by yelley77


Posted by Mimacat

Is/did anyone NOT have one? I have like 2 friends, I feel like it will look pathetic, and I'd rather not have one at all. I'm old anyway!! Anyone else NOT want one or not have one for any particular reason?



um, I'll come to your BP!!! :) (unless i was one of the two you mentioned, lol)

My MOH should be contacting you soon for mine, actually.



I think I just feel pathetic b/c I used to have a huge group of friends, however, they turned out to be b*tches, and now I have 2 girls in my BP, plus Toms sister, and then you girls... Plus, like I said, I'm feeling pathetic this week b/c I'm all alone everynight with my cats, and they dont respond when I ask them questions.



wanna come by for wine one night this week?



Sure I'm all for wine! Toms days off are Mon/Tue now (uck) so Wed & Thursdays work!!



I'm good for Wednesday. Do we have a date?



Its a date!! I have my hair trial on Thursday, so it will be an exciting week!



yay. white or red?



White. I just can't get into red. What can I bring?



fabulous, I'm going to pick up some Voga... it's delish. just bring yourself.. 7:30?



Its a date!

ps - you KNOW i'm not coming empty handed. I'll think of something.

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