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By far the craziest thing MIL has done...I don't get it.

R&J0806 Posted:

By far the craziest thing MIL has done...I don't get it.

I picked up my proofs! Yay! But...

MIL was debating about getting her own set of proofs. I was told she went to the photographer and decided against it. She didn't want to spend the $$$. Instead she asked me if I would go with her to color copy every single one of my 1200 proofs. Sure. No problem.

Then yesterday she calls DH THREE times to tell him that the photographer called to tell her that 'Robyn has not returned the proofs and if she doesn't give them back in 30 days then we charge 1 1/2 percent interest.'

Something didn't make sense to me because (1) I bought a package that included the proofs (2) It doesn't seem reasonable for a photographer to think that someone can go thru all their pictures in less than 30 days, including parents for their albums and (3) the photographer HATES MIL for all of the sh_t she's given him and I can't believe he'd initiate a conversation with her.

So I called the photographer today. And here's the end result:

1. I do indeed own my proofs
2. I can take my time sorting through pictures - there is no interest charge
3. THEY NEVER CALLED MY MIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
4. She ordered her own set of proofs

Can you just tell me why MIL would even care how long I'm taking if she ordered her own proofs? But more importantly, Why would she lie like this to me? What is the point? I don't get it.

I told DH quickly and then said to just drop it, there's no need to discuss this further. We have our pictures, we own them and that is all that matters. I don't need him to tell me his mother is nuts because I already know that HE knows it.

I just really, really don't get it....
sarahradio5 Posted:

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that's a special kind of psycho.
nbc188 Posted:

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YIKES!! She has too much time on her hands!
GabrielleandJohn Posted:

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Holy psycho behavior batman.

NY031978 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5



that's a special kind of psycho.





ali120206 Posted:

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Maybe she thinks if you return them, she'll get your copy so she can have them sooner!

libby2595 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5



that's a special kind of psycho.




ditto
CLMon7906 Posted:

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OMG...i am so sorry that she's nutso! glad the photographer realizes who owns them....so did you go pay off the balance? i was a little worried about you and that situation.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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wow, she's really nutso!! I am glad you have those proofs!! What would she have gained if you really believed her?

mycrayon1 Posted:

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That sounds like something my FMIL would do!!!!

ETA: I can def. understand the crazyness
MnM52607 Posted:

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Wow!!!!!!!!!

nycgirl79 Posted:

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sugarkube4 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5



that's a special kind of psycho.




wow
nycgirl79 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5



that's a special kind of psycho.



I was going to say the same exact thing!!!!!! I'm so sorry you have to deal with such a nut, but believe me, there are a lot of us that understand what you're going through....
dancinmyazoff Posted:

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Posted by GabrielleandJohn

Holy psycho behavior batman.



I couldn't have said it better myself
kimnsteve Posted:

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sorry to hear..that is nuts though!!
DandS Posted:

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I'm sorry!
staceylacey Posted:

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WOAH.... be strong...be strong

neener1211 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5



that's a special kind of psycho.



greenfreak Posted:

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Can I ask you something? Is your MIL an older woman? I ask this because my brother in law's father once saw me in my car dealership and said something very mean to me. I found out just a few days ago that he has taken a severe turn for the worst and he's been senile for quite some time. They're talking Alzheimer's too.

I'm just shocked at that kind of action by her, that is so wacky! How do you do something like that, knowing that you're going to find out about it? I can't fathom it. The only way I'd see is if she has a problem 'up there'...???

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