Call off the Wedding? *UPDATED*

I may need to call off my wedding.

Not the marriage. FH and I want to get married and plan to do it regardless...

HOWEVER, FH has serious social anxiety and the more he thinks about being in a large group of people and being the focus of their attention - the more nervous he gets.

It didn't bother him initially - but he has recently decided to stop drinking altogether - so without that 'safety belt' the idea is making him sick to his stomach.

I feel really bad for him and I want to help. But we spent SO MUCH MONEY already! We paid $10.000 to the hall, $5000 to the photographer, $700 on the dress... you get the picture.

I don't know what to do!

He wants to go to town hall and get married - as in TODAY if we could. But he is not so sure he can do the whole WEDDING thing.

Guys... my wedding is in 64 days!

I really need some prayers from you guys while we work through this.

Thank you.

Well FH and I had a very long discussion. He saw a therapist last week and although he isn't positive he wants to be bothered going back - he has decided that he does want to go through with the wedding.

I told him that I don't care about the money and I don't care about the party - but that I need him to be okay. And that if he was NOT okay - I would call all the vendors immediately and ask them to cancel.

He wants to get married and he really wants the wedding - he just feels like it has been extra tough this last week.

It's still a ways to go... but at least he is willing to make the effort.

Thanks SO MUCH for your prayers. You guys are the BEST!