Can I fire my Coordinator?
She is a friend of a friend, that knows my mom and me. So, far she acts like she is a General/Captin or a Superintendant......and I am a cadet!!!!
She is so bossy, and she behaved so weird at my bridal shower. She wanted me to annouce to everyone, that she is my wedding coordinator, at my bridal shower. She did not have nothing to do with the planning of the bridal shower. But, she is so strong...she kept repeating over and over to my mom, and to my friend, that when...the bridal shower does happen, I am to let all the guest know that she is the wedding coordintor. Which, to me does not make sense, if anyone needs to know...who the coordinator is , it will be when we are doing our rehersal dinner. I don't want to make an enemy before my wedding, and I do need her help for structural organizations...and such. She knows how to help people arrive to the church on time, taking pics, line up of the bridal party marching in and out of the church, setting up fun games to play at the reception...and so forth. She can keep a schedule moving. My mom and me are notorious for being late. But, the coordinator/she can be very manipulative.
She kinda forced herself on me, to let me help her with the planning. She, said, you have to make sure this, and this is done...and it was a whole big list of overwhelming things to do, and I was so shocked, ...that I just asked, her would she mind..helping me out. The good thing, out of this is she told me, I could pay her whatever I wanted meaning it could be $100.00 dollars for the day. But, now I want to get rid of her a$$. Thanks for listening!!!!!! Any comments feel free
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She is so bossy, and she behaved so weird at my bridal shower. She wanted me to annouce to everyone, that she is my wedding coordinator, at my bridal shower. She did not have nothing to do with the planning of the bridal shower. But, she is so strong...she kept repeating over and over to my mom, and to my friend, that when...the bridal shower does happen, I am to let all the guest know that she is the wedding coordintor. Which, to me does not make sense, if anyone needs to know...who the coordinator is , it will be when we are doing our rehersal dinner. I don't want to make an enemy before my wedding, and I do need her help for structural organizations...and such. She knows how to help people arrive to the church on time, taking pics, line up of the bridal party marching in and out of the church, setting up fun games to play at the reception...and so forth. She can keep a schedule moving. My mom and me are notorious for being late. But, the coordinator/she can be very manipulative.
She kinda forced herself on me, to let me help her with the planning. She, said, you have to make sure this, and this is done...and it was a whole big list of overwhelming things to do, and I was so shocked, ...that I just asked, her would she mind..helping me out. The good thing, out of this is she told me, I could pay her whatever I wanted meaning it could be $100.00 dollars for the day. But, now I want to get rid of her a$$. Thanks for listening!!!!!! Any comments feel free