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I think this is the biggest argument between FH and I right now. No one in my family is really religious except for my 2 grandmas. In his family, they are no that religious either but some will receive communion. I barely go to church and FH goes every Sunday. I really do not want a full mass because I feel like I will be too uncomfortable. This is something he really wants. I don't know what to do!
i'm not..and my family is really religious
We are not having a full mass but if your fh is really religious, I would do it for him
nooooooooooooo 30 min in and out lol if that!
Yeah we are not that religious either but we are doing a mass. FH family is a little more religious but it was important to FH. I wanted a ceremony but whats an extra 15 or so mins...
Posted by jteach711
We are not having a full mass but if your fh is really religious, I would do it for him
Posted by Bride 2 Be
i'm not..and my family is really religious
Posted by jessamyn78
Posted by jteach711
We are not having a full mass but if your fh is really religious, I would do it for him
I want to, but I don't even know the order of mass. Plus my MOH is half Jewish and she will feel awkward too standing up there.
I'm absolutely having a full mass. As a Catholic, I believe that marriage is one of the most important of the sacraments, and like First Communion and Confirmation I believe that it should be celebrated in conjunction with the Eucharist. It would feel odd to me to be IN church and not recieve communion. Maybe its just b/c I attend church every week, but I can't imagine not having a mass.
we are having a ceremony bc FH didnt make communion. its fine with me. it leaves more time for pics b4 the CH
Posted by jteach711
Posted by jessamyn78
Posted by jteach711
We are not having a full mass but if your fh is really religious, I would do it for him
I want to, but I don't even know the order of mass. Plus my MOH is half Jewish and she will feel awkward too standing up there.
I think you will be fine. Remember, you are going to have a rehearsal
Posted by jessamyn78
Posted by jteach711
We are not having a full mass but if your fh is really religious, I would do it for him
I want to, but I don't even know the order of mass. Plus my MOH is half Jewish and she will feel awkward too standing up there.
I'm not because FH is Baptist.
Posted by jessamyn78
Posted by jteach711
Posted by jessamyn78
Posted by jteach711
We are not having a full mass but if your fh is really religious, I would do it for him
I want to, but I don't even know the order of mass. Plus my MOH is half Jewish and she will feel awkward too standing up there.
I think you will be fine. Remember, you are going to have a rehearsal
Yes, but I guess I really mean I do not know all of the responses. It's really terrible.
Posted by Mimacat
I'm absolutely having a full mass. As a Catholic, I believe that marriage is one of the most important of the sacraments, and like First Communion and Confirmation I believe that it should be celebrated in conjunction with the Eucharist. It would feel odd to me to be IN church and not recieve communion. Maybe its just b/c I attend church every week, but I can't imagine not having a mass.
Posted by I Love my bear
Posted by Mimacat
I'm absolutely having a full mass. As a Catholic, I believe that marriage is one of the most important of the sacraments, and like First Communion and Confirmation I believe that it should be celebrated in conjunction with the Eucharist. It would feel odd to me to be IN church and not recieve communion. Maybe its just b/c I attend church every week, but I can't imagine not having a mass.
I agree, I can't imagine being at church and not receiving communion.
We are, its just something i wanted. it really wasnt a discussion. its really up to u, i alsways saw a full mass, to me its a sacrament, but there is nothing wrong with a ceremony. i do think that if it is that important to ur FH then do it. think about it im sure u had most of the say in every aspect of ur wedding, colors, decor etc... give him this. its just another 20-30 min longer. or go to precana and decide. whatever u decide--Good Luck
I am having a full mass but it is something FH and I really want. well ur in a tough position because FH really wants it and when it comes to religion especially if he goes to church every sunday it's tough. Don't consider ur families in this one though....its YOUR WEDDING so really its more about you and FH your family will be happy to watch even if they aren't religious.
Posted by Mimacat
Posted by I Love my bear
Posted by Mimacat
I'm absolutely having a full mass. As a Catholic, I believe that marriage is one of the most important of the sacraments, and like First Communion and Confirmation I believe that it should be celebrated in conjunction with the Eucharist. It would feel odd to me to be IN church and not recieve communion. Maybe its just b/c I attend church every week, but I can't imagine not having a mass.
I agree, I can't imagine being at church and not receiving communion.
Honestly, I think thats the whole purpose of getting married in a church! That's the most important part of the day! If you just want to be in and out, don't use the Catholic church as a pit stop!! Its so much MORE than that.
