Someone started a thread like this months ago to just go off on anybody or anything you want. I feel it's time to start again!
*&^$***^#&|$(*(JH}VUF#^%$@&%*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bridal Party: HELP ME OUT!!!!! I can't do this alone! How the heck did I end up doing the invitations for my own bridal shower?!?!?! I keep having nightmares that none of you are even helping me on the wedding day. And if one more of you drops out this close I might have to hurt you!! You've had over a year to plan for this!
Doctors: How difficult is it to figure out what's wrong with me? I'm tired of spending my days off at the hospital or the specialist. The co-pays are enough to kill me.
My bosses: BRAINS ARE TO BE UTILIZED!!!!!
I feel a bit better. More to come, I'm sure.
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And how about a leave me alone to all the vendors (that I didn't even request information from) that keep filling up my voicemail and wasting my minutes!!
Oh God, I hear you on that one!!! Stop calling me and sending me junk mail!! I have all of my vendors already!! The funniest one was someone called from my travel agency asking if I booked my HM yet! (I'm guessing she was new). I said hello, I booked my HM through you guys!!!
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I hate my freaking co worker that keeps picking up her mouse to get the screen to come out of the screen saver.
And the freaking sighs! Enough already.
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I'll participate.. My sister - i am supposed to have her as MOH but torn between my sister and my BEST friend who i am very close to... sister never comes to dress appointments to help me pick out a dress.. always has something else to do.. last 2 times it was watch football or golf.. GOLF!!! com'on and football when her team isn't even on!!! Hello your little sister is getting married!!! and once she had to clean.. couldn't do it in the afternoon!!!! I have not asked girls to be BM's yet, but how do I pick my sister when my SIL (SO CLOSE TO ALSO) has gone to almost all dress shoppings, BF has been to most.. and sister went to one, which she was LATE to (showed up as we were leaving!) - and why, because she had to stay out late the night before when she knew she was going into work the next day EARLY, so because she stayed out late, she went in later and stayed later she was Late to dress shopping.. I feel like i can not count on her!... but how do I not make my only sister my MOH...
It annoys me to put my best friend 'down' to Matron of Honor when she deserves MOH and SIL deserves Matron of honor instead of just a BM.. ( i know it is not a demotion or anything, but I feel kinda like it is) UGGGG...
Matron of honor is not a demotion. It simply means that the woman is married. Maid of honor means that the woman is not married. They are the same.
itslaurie.
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why isn't common sense a pre-req before you get your MD license?
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Is my NEW last name that difficult?
Ok last week I switched to DH's dentist and filled out paperwork Jean Maiden Name Married Name since that IS my legal last name now. They were calling me Jean Married Name and that was fine.
I had to go back today for some more work and signed in Jean Maiden Married ---well they didn't realized I was there they said since they didn't know that Jean Maiden Married was the same person as Jean Married---HUH? Are you that stupid?
After over an hour of drilling in my tiny mouth I get home and DH looks at the bill- it says Jean Married- Maiden on it!!! After I already had to write out how my name should be for then.
I call them back and they say we know we fixed it, and I tell them and they realized no they were wrong again.
UGH...Maybe I should have just changed my name BUT I am so happy with what I did until stupid people piss me off.
THanks for letting me vent if you read this far!
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I'll participate.. My sister - i am supposed to have her as MOH but torn between my sister and my BEST friend who i am very close to... sister never comes to dress appointments to help me pick out a dress.. always has something else to do.. last 2 times it was watch football or golf.. GOLF!!! com'on and football when her team isn't even on!!! Hello your little sister is getting married!!! and once she had to clean.. couldn't do it in the afternoon!!!! I have not asked girls to be BM's yet, but how do I pick my sister when my SIL (SO CLOSE TO ALSO) has gone to almost all dress shoppings, BF has been to most.. and sister went to one, which she was LATE to (showed up as we were leaving!) - and why, because she had to stay out late the night before when she knew she was going into work the next day EARLY, so because she stayed out late, she went in later and stayed later she was Late to dress shopping.. I feel like i can not count on her!... but how do I not make my only sister my MOH...
It annoys me to put my best friend 'down' to Matron of Honor when she deserves MOH and SIL deserves Matron of honor instead of just a BM.. ( i know it is not a demotion or anything, but I feel kinda like it is) UGGGG...
Matron of honor is not a demotion. It simply means that the woman is married. Maid of honor means that the woman is not married. They are the same.
I know, but the Maid of Honor tends to still be seen as #1 over Matron of Honor.. I have spoken to my friend about it and she knows she is NOT #2, it's just me and the expectation of having my sister MOH when she pretty much ignors my getting married.. My best friend should be MOH and my SIL be Matron of Honor. I am just closer to them... anyway...
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FH needs to be more involved.
Why doesnt there seem like there is enough time
I hate having these dreams that my dress is not what i bought, its and ugly green XMAS tree looking dress in my dreams. Ahhhhhhhhh i hate it its a nightmare
Where am i gonna get the money to pay for all this s%i*
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FH STILL consults his dumb accountant for his small business (I'm also an accountant but I know better .... I CAN'T STAND IT!! Meanwhile...I'm trying to get him up to date on his business records and she still has him doing things by hand, like recording cash and crap like that....all by hand when he could be entering it into the computer and not having to waste hours trying to manually add **** up!!!
AHHHHH I feel muuuch better
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Ok I hate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!my FMIL she refuses to acknowledge our engagement and begged FH not to marry me. I know it's bad but I wish bad things on her!!!!!!!! She is so nasty she didn't even come up to me at my fathers funeral and has never called my mom to congratulate her on our engagement
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I have the same MOH problem - I had to make my only sister MOH even though she lives in anotehr state and we can't stand each other, but my grandmother (who is paying for most of the wedding) would probably not pay for anything if I didnt. but my best friend (she will be called Maid of honor bc she is not married and my sister will be matron) knows that she is really #1!!
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I want to vent to:
The Dressmaker: who told me my dress would be in at the end of Novemeber and here I am two weeks into January with still no dress.
Coworkers: Or anyone for that matter that overhears you talking about the wedding and automatically invites themselves. Then keeps reminding you they can make it, when you never even intended on inviting them in the first place...
also, I think pink and green are a great combo too!
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I'll participate.. My sister - i am supposed to have her as MOH but torn between my sister and my BEST friend who i am very close to... sister never comes to dress appointments to help me pick out a dress.. always has something else to do.. last 2 times it was watch football or golf.. GOLF!!! com'on and football when her team isn't even on!!! Hello your little sister is getting married!!! and once she had to clean.. couldn't do it in the afternoon!!!! I have not asked girls to be BM's yet, but how do I pick my sister when my SIL (SO CLOSE TO ALSO) has gone to almost all dress shoppings, BF has been to most.. and sister went to one, which she was LATE to (showed up as we were leaving!) - and why, because she had to stay out late the night before when she knew she was going into work the next day EARLY, so because she stayed out late, she went in later and stayed later she was Late to dress shopping.. I feel like i can not count on her!... but how do I not make my only sister my MOH...
It annoys me to put my best friend 'down' to Matron of Honor when she deserves MOH and SIL deserves Matron of honor instead of just a BM.. ( i know it is not a demotion or anything, but I feel kinda like it is) UGGGG...
Matron of honor is not a demotion. It simply means that the woman is married. Maid of honor means that the woman is not married. They are the same.
I know, but the Maid of Honor tends to still be seen as #1 over Matron of Honor.. I have spoken to my friend about it and she knows she is NOT #2, it's just me and the expectation of having my sister MOH when she pretty much ignors my getting married.. My best friend should be MOH and my SIL be Matron of Honor. I am just closer to them... anyway...
Are both married? They can be both MOH if not or both Matron of Honors if they are.
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ok I hate that money doesn't grow on trees. Everyday it's something else closing on the condo and all the extra fees, car, wedding. it never ends. I hate when Iam working hard all day and I stop and say hello to someone they look at me like iam a piece of crap just because iam a police officer. We are humans to.
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I'll participate.. My sister - i am supposed to have her as MOH but torn between my sister and my BEST friend who i am very close to... sister never comes to dress appointments to help me pick out a dress.. always has something else to do.. last 2 times it was watch football or golf.. GOLF!!! com'on and football when her team isn't even on!!! Hello your little sister is getting married!!! and once she had to clean.. couldn't do it in the afternoon!!!! I have not asked girls to be BM's yet, but how do I pick my sister when my SIL (SO CLOSE TO ALSO) has gone to almost all dress shoppings, BF has been to most.. and sister went to one, which she was LATE to (showed up as we were leaving!) - and why, because she had to stay out late the night before when she knew she was going into work the next day EARLY, so because she stayed out late, she went in later and stayed later she was Late to dress shopping.. I feel like i can not count on her!... but how do I not make my only sister my MOH...
It annoys me to put my best friend 'down' to Matron of Honor when she deserves MOH and SIL deserves Matron of honor instead of just a BM.. ( i know it is not a demotion or anything, but I feel kinda like it is) UGGGG...
Matron of honor is not a demotion. It simply means that the woman is married. Maid of honor means that the woman is not married. They are the same.
That's my thought, Maid of Honor is the same as Matron of Honor, except for Matron of Honor is married. And you can have to MOH's. My FH is having two best men. In fact, my brother, who has two brothers of his own, picked his best friend to be your best man. In the end, do you what is right for YOU, it's YOUR DAY.
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I wanna say 'give me a freakin break' to all the family and friends who have said to me:
'we do not think your husband is cute'
'we think you can do better'
'we think you should not have a big wedding'
'we want you to change your dates, b/c we're going here and there and can't make it'
'we dont like how you and your FH look together'
can you biatches just shut the F up!!!!!!
isnt love and beauty supposed to be in the eyes of the beholder...
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I wanna say 'give me a freakin break' to all the family and friends who have said to me:
'we do not think your husband is cute'
'we think you can do better'
'we think you should not have a big wedding'
'we want you to change your dates, b/c we're going here and there and can't make it'
'we dont like how you and your FH look together'
can you biatches just shut the F up!!!!!!
isnt love and beauty supposed to be in the eyes of the beholder...
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ok so when I first got engaged I had 5 bridesmaids. Now I only have 3!!!!! They weren't kidding when they said weddings bring out true colors in people! You really do find out who your REAL friends are. Everybody's nuts! SHEESH!!
I absolutely can not stand people who HOVER around your office at work!! When I have the phone to my face, my mouth is moving and you hear my voice it means I am on the PHONE!!!! At least 3 times a day I get people who hover around waiting for me to get off the phone..and these aren't personal calls I am talking about either! And even if they WERE personal calls it's still rude to stand there and motion to me especially when it is VERY apparent I am on the phone with a client! I do SEE you...I am just choosing to IGNORE you since I am very obviously in the middle of a phone call and I am trying to concentrate! All the hand signals, whispering and ODD faces are DISTRACTING!
And to take this one step further! If it is not bad enough you distracted me through the entire phone call and listened in on what i was talking about...but to then ask me QUESTIONS about what i was talking about it enought to drive me MENTAL!! Why let me know that you not only stood there the entire time but you listened to every single word I had to say!!! *** IS THAT ABOUT!!
WOW! THANKS! I feel SO MUCH better!! Until it happens again tomorrow...then I may need to copy,paste and re-post this!! This was a great idea! hehehe
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I have two vents one is WR the other is not
(1) I have a cousin that keeps telling everyone that if she is not in my bridal party she is going to be really hurt and offended. I like her and everything, but she was not one my choices for BM and I don't plan to alter my BP just to calm her down.
(2) I hate it when I am trying to read my book on the subway and a subway preacher comes into the car and starts yelling about we should all repent if we want to be saved. There is a time and place for everything. If you wanted to hear what you had to say I'd be sitting in a house of worship!!!!
