Confused. Help. Read before poll

Original post by confusedandconfused

Nov 06, 2003 08:16 AM

Thank you girls! Ill keep you posted!

joeslauren Posted: Nov 06, 2003 01:35 PM

Re: Confused. Help. Read before poll

good point kel.
well anyhow - good luck with whatever you decide.

Sassyz75 Posted: Nov 06, 2003 01:35 PM

Re: Confused. Help. Read before poll

you have FM...

jennbaby Posted: Nov 06, 2003 01:36 PM

Re: Confused. Help. Read before poll

Very good point:

Not for nothing, but this guy can't be that much a prize--why is he agreeing to see you when he knows you are engaged. how respectful is that

Robeymuse Posted: Nov 06, 2003 01:47 PM

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It is normal to find other people attractive. When people flirt with you and give you attention, it is normal to feel flattered. JMO, but I don't think it is normal to make a 'date' with this other person.
I think there is a 'sign' here. This whole situation is a sign that you are not completely happy, again JMO.
Sure guys flirt with you. I had guys flirt with me when my FI was living 1000 miles away from me for two years. But I would never entertain that. I love him and respect him (and myself) not to want to hurt him. He is the best thing that happened to me and I would be crazy to mess that up.
I am not trying to be judgemental. I think the 'sign' points to the fact that you need to talk to your FH. Either to work through how you feel or walk away. Marriage is a partnership.