Lots of luck to you, and always remember he has feelings too. Trust is an issue for us women, and it's also a big issue with the men we love. I hope all works out.
Posted by kdecamp
Well Mike and I are doing our best still!! We start our counselor tonight. I am so scared!!!! This is totally what is best for us, I simply cannot bare not being with him for the rest of my life. For those who dont know the situation, I kissed another guy, when Mike came home he knew there was a problem, he said whatever the issue is we can work it out, told him and that did not happen! He told the entire family. He was so upset thats just what he had to do! I cant judge him for how he deals with this tradgedy.
But the fact that he wants me to win his heart back and agreeing to go to a couples counselor is a MIRACLE!! He is a great man.
Think what you want of me, all opinions are welcome, good and bad. It has been a very slow day for me at work, I cant eat because I am so looking forward/scared of what this counselor may or maynot do for us. I know we all make mistakes but this has been UNBEARABLE for the both of us.
Thanks for listening, I had to check out my 07 ladies, miss you all!!!![]()
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Love-Kristen
UPDATE*** She was horrible!!! Totally not what we needed, but it brought us closer b/c she ripped me a new one so bad Mike was like shut up beotch! You know us 50 minutes! I felt so bad for the couple going after us she was a QUACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We laughed all night about what she said![]()
I sincerely hope this work out.Find a new counselor. But stood up for you that's a good sign right?
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
ok! alright!! That is great that it brought you guys closer together but that counselor, gees! you should have b*tch slapped her! She is not supposed to make you feel worse about the whole thing- she is supposed to help you guys move past it!
but , maybe that was her plan all along-![]()
but still, that is horrible!!!
i am very happy for you guys!!! I like how Mike got protective over you!!
Posted by kdecamp
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
ok! alright!! That is great that it brought you guys closer together but that counselor, gees! you should have b*tch slapped her! She is not supposed to make you feel worse about the whole thing- she is supposed to help you guys move past it!
but , maybe that was her plan all along-![]()
but still, that is horrible!!!
i am very happy for you guys!!! I like how Mike got protective over you!!![]()
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We decided totake some time apart because we saw each other every day this week. But he thinks we need a Christian counselor
Its just bringing us closer, in a sick way.
Thanks so ladies for the support!!!
I am soo excited for yours!!!! You are a doll!!!!
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
Posted by kdecamp
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
ok! alright!! That is great that it brought you guys closer together but that counselor, gees! you should have b*tch slapped her! She is not supposed to make you feel worse about the whole thing- she is supposed to help you guys move past it!
but , maybe that was her plan all along-![]()
but still, that is horrible!!!
i am very happy for you guys!!! I like how Mike got protective over you!!![]()
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We decided totake some time apart because we saw each other every day this week. But he thinks we need a Christian counselor
Its just bringing us closer, in a sick way.
Thanks so ladies for the support!!!
Christian Counselor all the way! I am not that devout to christianity but i know the wonderful and spiritual things it can do!! It can def. deepen your faith and love for eachother! def. do it!
and i am goign to be sooooooooo excited for your wedding day! I cant wait!
Posted by JIFFY
I'm glad things are working out for the both of you. You are a very lucky woman to have the kind of man you do. I know that if I ever found out FH kissed another girl he would be out the door faster than he could say sorry. That is one thing I don't tolerate. That is in my relationship. I know that people deal with this situation all the time and people think and do things differently. What is OK for me may not be for you and vice versa.
But I have to ask you this....if you are so in love with your FH then why would you kiss another man?
Just something to think about. Again, not judging you or your relationship. I don't judge people until i'm perfect and that's not a possibility.
Good Luck to you and keep us posted. I hope everything will work out between the both of you!![]()
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
Posted by JIFFY
I'm glad things are working out for the both of you. You are a very lucky woman to have the kind of man you do. I know that if I ever found out FH kissed another girl he would be out the door faster than he could say sorry. That is one thing I don't tolerate. That is in my relationship. I know that people deal with this situation all the time and people think and do things differently. What is OK for me may not be for you and vice versa.
But I have to ask you this....if you are so in love with your FH then why would you kiss another man?
Just something to think about. Again, not judging you or your relationship. I don't judge people until i'm perfect and that's not a possibility.
Good Luck to you and keep us posted. I hope everything will work out between the both of you!![]()
Great, lets kick her while she is down!
In my opinion, I dont think its anyone's business to question Kristen's motives or if her love for her fi is valid. I know she welcomed opinions but still, i think it was unnecessary to say that. And i am sure after going through what she and her fi are going through, it will make their relationship stand the test of time and prob. stronger than one would think.
again, just my opinion...
Kristen, I am glad that even though you and Mike are getting closer. Things like this happen for a reason and if your love can pull thru this now, it just shows that your love can surpass anything if you guys stick together and try to work it out, because that is what a marriage is. Good Luck!
Posted by ik1
Kristen, I am glad that even though you and Mike are getting closer. Things like this happen for a reason and if your love can pull thru this now, it just shows that your love can surpass anything if you guys stick together and try to work it out, because that is what a marriage is. Good Luck!
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
Posted by kdecamp
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
ok! alright!! That is great that it brought you guys closer together but that counselor, gees! you should have b*tch slapped her! She is not supposed to make you feel worse about the whole thing- she is supposed to help you guys move past it!
but , maybe that was her plan all along-![]()
but still, that is horrible!!!
i am very happy for you guys!!! I like how Mike got protective over you!!![]()
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We decided totake some time apart because we saw each other every day this week. But he thinks we need a Christian counselor
Its just bringing us closer, in a sick way.
Thanks so ladies for the support!!!
Christian Counselor all the way! I am not that devout to christianity but i know the wonderful and spiritual things it can do!! It can def. deepen your faith and love for eachother! def. do it!
and i am goign to be sooooooooo excited for your wedding day! I cant wait!
