Well Mike and I are doing our best still!! We start our counselor tonight. I am so scared!!!! This is totally what is best for us, I simply cannot bare not being with him for the rest of my life. For those who dont know the situation, I kissed another guy, when Mike came home he knew there was a problem, he said whatever the issue is we can work it out, told him and that did not happen! He told the entire family. He was so upset thats just what he had to do! I cant judge him for how he deals with this tradgedy. But the fact that he wants me to win his heart back and agreeing to go to a couples counselor is a MIRACLE!! He is a great man. Think what you want of me, all opinions are welcome, good and bad. It has been a very slow day for me at work, I cant eat because I am so looking forward/scared of what this counselor may or maynot do for us. I know we all make mistakes but this has been UNBEARABLE for the both of us. Thanks for listening, I had to check out my 07 ladies, miss you all!!!
Love-Kristen
UPDATE*** She was horrible!!! Totally not what we needed, but it brought us closer b/c she ripped me a new one so bad Mike was like shut up beotch! You know us 50 minutes! I felt so bad for the couple going after us she was a QUACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We laughed all night about what she said
Udated again*** Hello Beautiful,
That was very nice of you say about me thank you very much. Have great weekend too.
MWAH BACK!!
- He sent this e-mail, he hasent been so kind in a while, I am sooo happy!! Maybe psyco counselor did help????
I'm glad things are working out for the both of you. You are a very lucky woman to have the kind of man you do. I know that if I ever found out FH kissed another girl he would be out the door faster than he could say sorry. That is one thing I don't tolerate. That is in my relationship. I know that people deal with this situation all the time and people think and do things differently. What is OK for me may not be for you and vice versa.
But I have to ask you this....if you are so in love with your FH then why would you kiss another man?
Just something to think about. Again, not judging you or your relationship. I don't judge people until i'm perfect and that's not a possibility.
Good Luck to you and keep us posted. I hope everything will work out between the both of you!
Great, lets kick her while she is down!
In my opinion, I dont think its anyone's business to question Kristen's motives or if her love for her fi is valid. I know she welcomed opinions but still, i think it was unnecessary to say that. And i am sure after going through what she and her fi are going through, it will make their relationship stand the test of time and prob. stronger than one would think. again, just my opinion...
Ahhh, its okay its an to good and bad. I kissed another man because I am an Ahole, and was out drinking and didnt realize this persons intentions, so know I dont go out and kiss other men, but anyway thanks for the well wishes
I didn't kick anyone while they were down! Too bad you feel that way. Like I said in the ENTIRE post that's just me and I don't judge anyone else! People go throught this all the time but the circumstances are usually much worse. I'm happy that you are going to counseling. I didn't question your motives or your devotion. I simply just put it out there. I do know of a really good councelor. If you want any info on her just FM me and i'll be happy to give it to you. You know that I have posted to you before and have never said anything negative to you or anyone else on this board. I try to help as much as I can. Have a great weekend and hope it all works out.
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Wow that woman sounds awful. The fact that you are going to conseling shows you want to make things work and she should not be so judgmental. I hope you find a conselor who will really help you talk things through and figure out what needs to be fixed.
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Yes that woman does sound like a qwak..maybe shes the one that needs therapy lol. In any case, I am glad everything is working out for you guys and I am sure you learned from your mistake, and it shows that your FH is willing to forgive and forget, which is always good to have in a healthy relationship. Good luck with everything
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Wishing you & Mike all the best!!!!! Things happen for a reason & if it meant to be it will be! It seems like you are starting out in the right direction (except for the psycho counselor) Stay strong & keep working things out! Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-Kris
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Yes that woman does sound like a qwak..maybe shes the one that needs therapy lol. In any case, I am glad everything is working out for you guys and I am sure you learned from your mistake, and it shows that your FH is willing to forgive and forget, which is always good to have in a healthy relationship. Good luck with everything
