So I feel like a lot of us have become close and some are even now friends outside the boards.. Bottom Line we are all here for each other and I love that I have a place to share my excitement, happiness, anger, stress, ect... and I know I will always get feedback from you ladies... Since a lot of us are stressed out with wedding stuff and other things... I have decided to post a VENT topic...
Post anything wedding or NWR that may be making you sad, pissed off or annoyed... Let it out ladies!!!
chris1082
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
I am so with you on this one. I do not like hunting at all, and I def. would not want a 'trophy' of a dead animal where I live.
I agree 100% Michelle! NOO HUNTING!
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Bridal Party!!! I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!! Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!! I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!
I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!
just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(
CRASHING ...
Im sorry this happened.. Same thing happened with me. Not only did I lose friends but some family members were uninvited and will never see me again.
You really learn a lot about your 'friends' during this time. Just keep focusing on you and your FH and dont let the selfish people stand in the way of what you want
Oh Wow!!!! So sorry for what happened to u... =-( Thanks chica!
DCgirl82
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Bridal Party!!! I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!! Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!! I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!
I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!
just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(
Im so sorry V I know its nice to have friend up there with you on your special day.. but those people dont deserve to stand next to you guys ya know?
I know DC but just hurts u know... I always thought i was going to marry my One & Only and be surrounded with like 5BM... cuz I think Im sweet.. but they ALL flipped out when i got engageD!
Vero it will all work out. Weddings bring out the worst in people. I never get why people aren't happy for others. I always am.
I agree! Some people get so jealous and really if they are TRUE friends they will be happy for you!! I am always happy for everyone!!! <3
Jealousy is ugly and unfortunatley people let it bring out the worst in them!
suzie411
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This is what I want to tell people:
KEEP YOUR OPINIONS TO YOURSELF!!
Thanks!
chris1082
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It pisses me off that there is a limit of people I can take to Kleinfeld's for my first dress shopping experience (Saturday)!
I actually understand, but it sucks.....I know I hurt feelings even though everyone was more than super nice about it....I hate dissapointing people
Thats crappy and Im sure a lot of people are upset they cant see ur Hot a$$ trying on dresses but there is nothing u can do ya know?
Thanks Luckily, all my BM's totally understood!
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
ITA!!!!!!!
chris1082
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It pisses me off that there is a limit of people I can take to Kleinfeld's for my first dress shopping experience (Saturday)!
I actually understand, but it sucks.....I know I hurt feelings even though everyone was more than super nice about it....I hate dissapointing people
Awww.. Sorry chica... But maybe its better so u can keep ur dress in SURPRISE FOR EVERYONE ELSEEE =-)
This is very true! Thanks
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
My FH is a big hunter, and we have a deer head in our living room. I know that lots of people hate it and are against it, and I was too before I met him. Once we actually started dating and he explained to me about it, and he eats the meat, I am not against it anymore. I wont go into the reasons why hunting is not bad, because I don't want to be flamed or start a war about bambi. There are quite a few girls on here whose FH's are hunters... I think its perfectly ok, if you are hunting legally and the way it should be. Not trophy hunting, or jacking deer like some people do. What did cavemen do before we all became civilized? They had to hunt to survive. Granted, times are different but like I said, if you do it the right way, It's ok with me. Actually FH is making deer steaks as we speak.
DCgirl82
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
My FH is a big hunter, and we have a deer head in our living room. I know that lots of people hate it and are against it, and I was too before I met him. Once we actually started dating and he explained to me about it, and he eats the meat, I am not against it anymore. I wont go into the reasons why hunting is not bad, because I don't want to be flamed or start a war about bambi. There are quite a few girls on here whose FH's are hunters... I think its perfectly ok, if you are hunting legally and the way it should be. Not trophy hunting, or jacking deer like some people do. What did cavemen do before we all became civilized? They had to hunt to survive. Granted, times are different but like I said, if you do it the right way, It's ok with me. Actually FH is making deer steaks as we speak.
I hear ya... I know hunting for food is one thing but sport hunting is another and it makes me sick! FH would def use the meat and eat it but me myself I absolutley refuse to have a dead animal by my home.. I will stare at it and cry lol... I also dont want the head in my house because my uncle has one and I cant eat when I go there everytime I look at it I feel like throwing up lol
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Bridal Party!!! I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!! Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!! I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!
I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!
just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(
ITA!!!!!!! cannot agree more!!!!!!!!!!
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that happened to me too! i invited my whole bridal party (5), my mom, and my two aunts and then get an email from kleinfeld's confirming my appointment the DAY BEFORE saying that there can only be 5 of us total, including the bride.. fortunately, 3 of the bridesmaids and one of my aunts couldn't make it so i didn't have to un-invite anyone, but i would have felt terrible. you'll actually be happy that there's only a few people though when you're trying on the dresses.. my mom and aunt were set on having me try on every dress in the store, and styles i knew would look terrible on me lol, if there were more people i probably would've been encouraged to try on even more. you'll have to let us know how it goes!
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
My FH is a big hunter, and we have a deer head in our living room. I know that lots of people hate it and are against it, and I was too before I met him. Once we actually started dating and he explained to me about it, and he eats the meat, I am not against it anymore. I wont go into the reasons why hunting is not bad, because I don't want to be flamed or start a war about bambi. There are quite a few girls on here whose FH's are hunters... I think its perfectly ok, if you are hunting legally and the way it should be. Not trophy hunting, or jacking deer like some people do. What did cavemen do before we all became civilized? They had to hunt to survive. Granted, times are different but like I said, if you do it the right way, It's ok with me. Actually FH is making deer steaks as we speak.
I hear ya... I know hunting for food is one thing but sport hunting is another and it makes me sick! FH would def use the meat and eat it but me myself I absolutley refuse to have a dead animal by my home.. I will stare at it and cry lol... I also dont want the head in my house because my uncle has one and I cant eat when I go there everytime I look at it I feel like throwing up lol
yeah theres a reason theres a hunting season. to thin out the herds. Its just sad and hard to rationalize for some of us even if it is necessary.
but i cant even understand why someone wants to go out and shoot a penned animal. like w t f is that? or a protected one...or hell, an animal you have no need to shoot like wolves etc.
I'm not flaming ya. i'm just a sucker for those Bambi eyes.
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I'm sorry to hear that V This is when you find out who your real friends are. Why would they flip out on you? They should be happy for you!
chris1082
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that happened to me too! i invited my whole bridal party (5), my mom, and my two aunts and then get an email from kleinfeld's confirming my appointment the DAY BEFORE saying that there can only be 5 of us total, including the bride.. fortunately, 3 of the bridesmaids and one of my aunts couldn't make it so i didn't have to un-invite anyone, but i would have felt terrible. you'll actually be happy that there's only a few people though when you're trying on the dresses.. my mom and aunt were set on having me try on every dress in the store, and styles i knew would look terrible on me lol, if there were more people i probably would've been encouraged to try on even more. you'll have to let us know how it goes!
Thanks! I def will I actually am bringing 1 extra person....I am going to play dumb when they tell me that the 5 includes the bride.....I had to have the 3 BM's that are coming there! Plus I have 2 MOH and my mom and FMIL.....hope it's not an issue.
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I'm sorry to hear that V This is when you find out who your real friends are. Why would they flip out on you? They should be happy for you!
Yeah I don't understand this either! V, I feel so bad that all this went down What happened with them exactly if you don't mind sharing? (Or if you do, totally ok?) It pisses me off for you
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
My FH is a big hunter, and we have a deer head in our living room. I know that lots of people hate it and are against it, and I was too before I met him. Once we actually started dating and he explained to me about it, and he eats the meat, I am not against it anymore. I wont go into the reasons why hunting is not bad, because I don't want to be flamed or start a war about bambi. There are quite a few girls on here whose FH's are hunters... I think its perfectly ok, if you are hunting legally and the way it should be. Not trophy hunting, or jacking deer like some people do. What did cavemen do before we all became civilized? They had to hunt to survive. Granted, times are different but like I said, if you do it the right way, It's ok with me. Actually FH is making deer steaks as we speak.
I hear ya... I know hunting for food is one thing but sport hunting is another and it makes me sick! FH would def use the meat and eat it but me myself I absolutley refuse to have a dead animal by my home.. I will stare at it and cry lol... I also dont want the head in my house because my uncle has one and I cant eat when I go there everytime I look at it I feel like throwing up lol
I gotcha. I'm totally into the ski lodge feel for my house...LOL I'm kidding. I don't love it, but it's FH's first buck. He always jokes around that when the deer head is off the wall, then I will know hes gone for good.
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
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Feel the same! Thank god FH does not hunt nor does he want to. My close friend's husband likes to hunt and try not to let it bother me..but it does!
chelle2386
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i'm sure you'll be fine what are they going to do, make someone stand outside and wait? haha, the receptionist was pretty nice when i went
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i hate my fsil.
thanks for making this topic!
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Don't have much to share, but I do want to say, Michelle you are sooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet.