Don't Hold It In....

So I feel like a lot of us have become close and some are even now friends outside the boards.. Bottom Line we are all here for each other and I love that I have a place to share my excitement, happiness, anger, stress, ect... and I know I will always get feedback from you ladies... Since a lot of us are stressed out with wedding stuff and other things... I have decided to post a VENT topic...

Post anything wedding or NWR that may be making you sad, pissed off or annoyed... Let it out ladies!!!

Bridal Party!!!
I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!!
Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!!
I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!

I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!

just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(

So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!

Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?

It pisses me off that there is a limit of people I can take to Kleinfeld's for my first dress shopping experience (Saturday)!

I actually understand, but it sucks.....I know I hurt feelings even though everyone was more than super nice about it....I hate dissapointing people

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Posted by DCgirl82

So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!

Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?

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I am so with you on this one. I do not like hunting at all, and I def. would not want a 'trophy' of a dead animal where I live.

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Posted by Melissa1012

My current vent!!!!!!!! FH and I decided we are going to get uplighting through our DJ for the wedding. Stupidly enough of me I decided to write about it on FB and one of my family member saw it. So family member says 'what is uplighting?' I show pictures and family member says .. 'what a waste of money, nobody will even notice it' all while making a face .. then I say well I like it and Family member says this ' It is like looking out an open window and watching your money fly out of it' Seriously?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?! Its my effin wedding day, and I like it!!!!!!!!

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UGH!!! really? keep your opinions to yourself!! and just for the record.. I always NOTICE the lighting!!!!!!!!!

Wedding Guest....
NOT Family members!!! =-( I dont have FAMILY members here.. Exepct for Mom, dad & Brother!!! NO ONE IS HERE!!!! =-(
His family is Mom, 3aunts/uncles.... and DAS IT!!!
Everyone else we are inviting are Coworkers and some ppl from CHurch... I feel sometimes we are speding over 10,000 and REAL FRIENDS or Fmily members will NOT even be with Us...

True, i have invitited some ppl that are very close to me but STILL we have even thought of just 'inviting ppl' just so our wedding doesnt look so EMPTY

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Posted by VCanizalez

Bridal Party!!!
I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!!
Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!!
I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!

I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!

just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(

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Im so sorry V I know its nice to have friend up there with you on your special day.. but those people dont deserve to stand next to you guys ya know?

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Posted by DCgirl82

So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!

Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?

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OMG he did that?!!!!!
Noo he cant do that!!!1 no killin anymals and then haginin them in ur HOUSE!!!!

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Posted by DCgirl82

So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!

Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?

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im insanely against it..hello...rescue girl here.

luckily ant isnt into it but his friend is and always asks him to go. I told him I'm leaving him if he does. he knows I mean it.

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by Melissa1012

My current vent!!!!!!!! FH and I decided we are going to get uplighting through our DJ for the wedding. Stupidly enough of me I decided to write about it on FB and one of my family member saw it. So family member says 'what is uplighting?' I show pictures and family member says .. 'what a waste of money, nobody will even notice it' all while making a face .. then I say well I like it and Family member says this ' It is like looking out an open window and watching your money fly out of it' Seriously?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?! Its my effin wedding day, and I like it!!!!!!!!

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UGH!!! really? keep your opinions to yourself!! and just for the record.. I always NOTICE the lighting!!!!!!!!!

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Seriously, what is with people giving their opinion when you NEVER ask for it. Unless you are paying the bill keep your stupid comments to yourself!

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Posted by chris1082

It pisses me off that there is a limit of people I can take to Kleinfeld's for my first dress shopping experience (Saturday)!

I actually understand, but it sucks.....I know I hurt feelings even though everyone was more than super nice about it....I hate dissapointing people

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Awww.. Sorry chica... But maybe its better so u can keep ur dress in SURPRISE FOR EVERYONE ELSEEE =-)

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Posted by chris1082

It pisses me off that there is a limit of people I can take to Kleinfeld's for my first dress shopping experience (Saturday)!

I actually understand, but it sucks.....I know I hurt feelings even though everyone was more than super nice about it....I hate dissapointing people

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Thats crappy and Im sure a lot of people are upset they cant see ur Hot a$$ trying on dresses but there is nothing u can do ya know?

it's cold, I'm tired and I wanna go home to my little bunny! lol

and I;d like to have extra money to spare. I mean, is that a lot to ask? really?

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by VCanizalez

Bridal Party!!!
I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!!
Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!!
I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!

I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!

just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(

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Im so sorry V I know its nice to have friend up there with you on your special day.. but those people dont deserve to stand next to you guys ya know?

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I know DC but just hurts u know... I always thought i was going to marry my One & Only and be surrounded with like 5BM... cuz I think Im sweet.. but they ALL flipped out when i got engageD!

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Posted by allornil

it's cold, I'm tired and I wanna go home to my little bunny! lol

and I;d like to have extra money to spare. I mean, is that a lot to ask? really?

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LOL... its not too much but i think its impossible =-(

Sorry ur tired,,, me too...

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by VCanizalez

Bridal Party!!!
I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!!
Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!!
I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!

I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!

just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(

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Im so sorry V I know its nice to have friend up there with you on your special day.. but those people dont deserve to stand next to you guys ya know?

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I know DC but just hurts u know... I always thought i was going to marry my One & Only and be surrounded with like 5BM... cuz I think Im sweet.. but they ALL flipped out when i got engageD!

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Vero it will all work out. Weddings bring out the worst in people. I never get why people aren't happy for others. I always am.

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Posted by VCanizalez

Bridal Party!!!
I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!!
Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!!
I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!

I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!

just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(

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CRASHING ...

Im sorry this happened.. Same thing happened with me. Not only did I lose friends but some family members were uninvited and will never see me again.

You really learn a lot about your 'friends' during this time. Just keep focusing on you and your FH and dont let the selfish people stand in the way of what you want

I am frustrated that not everyone who received a save the date has acknowledged it with a text, a call to my mom or me, or signing our guestbook...

Like do you not care that you got a card that basically says you're invited??! it took me forever to address those envelopes