So I feel like a lot of us have become close and some are even now friends outside the boards.. Bottom Line we are all here for each other and I love that I have a place to share my excitement, happiness, anger, stress, ect... and I know I will always get feedback from you ladies... Since a lot of us are stressed out with wedding stuff and other things... I have decided to post a VENT topic...
Post anything wedding or NWR that may be making you sad, pissed off or annoyed... Let it out ladies!!!
VCanizalez
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Lindsey & Christi..... Its a long story... =-( But short version...
X MOH #1= Best friend for 10yrs... gave her the MOH tittle... she was thrilled... then after i got engaged and gave her the tittle.... she started talkin to me less n less... then out of nowhere she TEXT ME it was better if i gave the tittle to someone else who had time for me and that she did not had time for our FRIENDSHIP either... and stopped talkin to me....
X MOH #2= I had another BFF who i was friends with for like 7yrs... (this one doesn know the other MOH ok?) She had the MOH tittle too since they were so close to me so i did NOT wanted to leave them out... Once she had the tittle she started talkin BS how Brides are fked up, How Bridezilaa show was showin the true colors of all brides.. x x x xx x tons of shi! she was making all aobout herself.... so when i comfort her to find out was up.. she flipeed out n got mad.. said she didnt cared if she was on the BP... and 'resing' her tittle... then she wanted her tittle again.... me being so stupid thinkin we were friends i gave it to her.. then she said she didnt had time to b my MOH.. and no talk...
My 'actual' MOH = DONT CARE ANYMORE =-) ...
=-(
DCgirl82
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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill
i hate my fsil.
thanks for making this topic!
LOL!! you wanna elaborate a little? hahaha
DCgirl82
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Don't have much to share, but I do want to say, Michelle you are sooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet.
Awww thank you lovie!
VCanizalez
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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill
i hate my fsil.
thanks for making this topic!
LOL!! you wanna elaborate a little? hahaha
Yes plisss
VCanizalez
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FMIL
OMG OMG OMG I knwo I AM NOT THE ONLY who DOESNT get along so well with her FMIL!!!!
OMG my FMIL...... *&%$@*%$&*%*($&%^%*&^(#%*&*(#$&%*(&%$^*(%*()&*()$#&%*$@^%&*$^%&*(@#$^%*(&@$^*%^@#$(*&@&%()@$*%_@$*%(*@$&%
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So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
Unfortunatly FH has been hunting since he was like 14 years old... its like one of the few things FH still loves to do with his dad and bro... i absolutly HATE it!!! i always tell him he is going out and killing Bambi.. Since i cant change something he has been doing for years i have told him I WILL NEVER go up with him when he is going to hunt, and i WILL NEVER have any of his 'trophys' on the wall in my house... i dont condone his actions but I have to accept its something he loves to do... Ahhh gotta love the compromise of marriage....
fdnybride163
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the fact that i have $7.58 in my checking account until I get paid on friday (and even then the check doesnt clear until 3 days later )
AND my car is broken
AND i still have to go xmas shopping
AND i have to work both jobs this week for a total of 60 hours
AND i dont have my ring yet
AND i hate the new girl at work
AND im fat
AND im hungry (but i cant eat cause i dont have money)
DCgirl82
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Posted by DCgirl82
So last night the topic of hunting came up which I am 100% against! FH was saying that he will be going hunting and bring home what he shoots and I flipped! I told him knowing how I feel about it he better not bring a poor dead animal to our home.. I would be sooo upset and would def VOMIT! Then he proceeds to tell me he wants to put a head (yes an animal head) in our house or in his 'man room'. I was like whattt??? I dont want that in my house! GROSS!!!!!
Anyone else feel like I do about this topic?
Unfortunatly FH has been hunting since he was like 14 years old... its like one of the few things FH still loves to do with his dad and bro... i absolutly HATE it!!! i always tell him he is going out and killing Bambi.. Since i cant change something he has been doing for years i have told him I WILL NEVER go up with him when he is going to hunt, and i WILL NEVER have any of his 'trophys' on the wall in my house... i dont condone his actions but I have to accept its something he loves to do... Ahhh gotta love the compromise of marriage....
ITA... FH can do what he wants but he needs to respect the fact that I CAN NOT live in a house with animal heads on the wall!!! I will vomit daily!
VCanizalez
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Posted by fdnybride163
the fact that i have $7.58 in my checking account until I get paid on friday (and even then the check doesnt clear until 3 days later )
AND my car is broken
AND i still have to go xmas shopping
AND i have to work both jobs this week for a total of 60 hours
AND i dont have my ring yet
AND i hate the new girl at work
AND im fat
AND im hungry (but i cant eat cause i dont have money)
=( Im sorry chica.... Ur not fat!!
Where u work? U wanna eat with me? I can get us lunch =-)
meya1084
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My six year old son!!!!
Since school began in September has gone through 3 pair of shoes lost 2 sweaters and gone through 2 pairs of gym pants. Hello!!! money does not grow on trees its bad enough I have to pay tuition and for lunch these uniforms are not cheap!
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Posted by allornil
yeah theres a reason theres a hunting season. to thin out the herds. Its just sad and hard to rationalize for some of us even if it is necessary.
but i cant even understand why someone wants to go out and shoot a penned animal. like w t f is that? or a protected one...or hell, an animal you have no need to shoot like wolves etc.
I'm not flaming ya. i'm just a sucker for those Bambi eyes.
I completely agree about the sport or trophy hunting. That is crazy and heartless, but to each their own.
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My latest vent!
My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.
I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.
What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??
AHHHHHHH
ourwedding9510
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Bridal Party!!! I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!! Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!! I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!
I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!
just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(
Im so sorry V I know its nice to have friend up there with you on your special day.. but those people dont deserve to stand next to you guys ya know?
I know DC but just hurts u know... I always thought i was going to marry my One & Only and be surrounded with like 5BM... cuz I think Im sweet.. but they ALL flipped out when i got engageD!
I know EXACTLY what you're going through with the bridal party. It hurts beyond words. I wish I could have gotten rid of someone before the wedding though but I was being too nice thinking 'O! Well she paid for her bridesmaid dress' even though she did NOTHING for my wedding with helping and I helped with everything she asked me too for hers. Now I wish I didn't have her in my pictures! She barely smiled in my proofs!!!
FM me if you would like to talk me, we can share stories!
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I put my SIL in the BP and she really PMO b/c she insisted that i ordered one size for her but the store wouldn't let me based on the measurements she gave me (she's OOS). So 3 weeks AFTER i told her that i placed the order through with a different size, she says she wants the smaller size and wants me to change it and cancel. being the nice SIL, i tried and they wouldn't since the dresses were in production. UGHHHHHH i had to go through this big thing with her saying that they WON'T let me order a smaller size for her b/c of her measurement. OMG my poor brother was in the middle of this all. WHO CARESSSSSSSSSSS if it's one size bigger. OMGGGGGGG
that's probably my biggest drama right now
SoonToBeMrsCali
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Posted by allinik
My latest vent!
My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.
I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.
What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??
AHHHHHHH
I'm sorry about that... That really sucks.. Can you tell your mom that you cannot afford to invite them?? maybe she will understand if you sit and talk with her..
allornil
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Posted by allinik
My latest vent!
My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.
I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.
What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??
AHHHHHHH
this is what you say. NO. I am the biggest biatch. I love the word no. look.. no no no no!
It took me a long time to realize in the end, this is my life and i have to do what makes ME happy. Your mom already had a wedding. these people make you uncomfortable. hells no. NO NO NO!
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Posted by fdnybride163
the fact that i have $7.58 in my checking account until I get paid on friday (and even then the check doesnt clear until 3 days later )
AND my car is broken
AND i still have to go xmas shopping
AND i have to work both jobs this week for a total of 60 hours
AND i dont have my ring yet
AND i hate the new girl at work
AND im fat
AND im hungry (but i cant eat cause i dont have money)
In the EXACT same boat! I feel so broke and I literally lay in bed at night thinking about everything that we have to pay for!! Not to mention soooooo much Xmas shopping left to do!
VCanizalez
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Bridal Party!!! I thought I was going to have my FRIENDS in my Bridal party... EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONG WITH MY SO CALL FRIENDS since I got engaged!!! Now I am down to like NOOO BRIDAL PARTY!!!! I just want FRIEDNS for my FH and myself standing NEXT TO US in our SPECIAL DAY!!!
I know i know 'all it matters that Fh is next to me' and its true, BUT I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE REAL FRIENDS who can stand next to me and be my real friends!!!!
just sucks!!! I was sad yesterday! and cried too!!!! I will let go tomorro of 2 of the members of the BP... =-(
Im so sorry V I know its nice to have friend up there with you on your special day.. but those people dont deserve to stand next to you guys ya know?
I know DC but just hurts u know... I always thought i was going to marry my One & Only and be surrounded with like 5BM... cuz I think Im sweet.. but they ALL flipped out when i got engageD!
I know EXACTLY what you're going through with the bridal party. It hurts beyond words. I wish I could have gotten rid of someone before the wedding though but I was being too nice thinking 'O! Well she paid for her bridesmaid dress' even though she did NOTHING for my wedding with helping and I helped with everything she asked me too for hers. Now I wish I didn't have her in my pictures! She barely smiled in my proofs!!!
FM me if you would like to talk me, we can share stories!
Thank u chica.. See i dont want to regret.. but i guess its better than i see that now than later!!!!
