Don't Hold It In....

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by allinik

My latest vent!

My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.

I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.

What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??

AHHHHHHH

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this is what you say. NO. I am the biggest biatch. I love the word no. look.. no no no no!

It took me a long time to realize in the end, this is my life and i have to do what makes ME happy. Your mom already had a wedding. these people make you uncomfortable. hells no. NO NO NO!

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NO NO NO NO NO MOM. I AM NOT INVITING THOSE PEOPLE TO MY WEDDING BECAUSE THEY SUCK.

THE END.


Lol thanks for the practice

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill

i hate my fsil.


thanks for making this topic!

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LOL!! you wanna elaborate a little? hahaha

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Yes plisss

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Are you sure? Okay

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OMG!! FOR REAL?!!!

WOW

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Yup - just like I said... shes' a nut nut

Flame me if you want here girls, but I am just so annoyed with this entire wedding!!!

I know I've said it before, but I never wanted a big wedding, I haven't been planning my wedding since I was 5 and all I really want is to go to the JOP then out to a nice dinner with our immediate family and closest friends. But that can't happen because 'What will our friends think?' or 'what would so and so say?' Who the F cares, its MY frigging wedding. If you want to throw a party to impress your friends, go right ahead but leave me out of it. This day is clearly not about me and fh, but about keeping up with the joneses.

If I didn't think that my mother would 100% never speak to me again, I'd already be married.

aah, that felt good.

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Posted by allinik

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by allinik

My latest vent!

My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.

I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.

What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??

AHHHHHHH

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this is what you say. NO. I am the biggest biatch. I love the word no. look.. no no no no!

It took me a long time to realize in the end, this is my life and i have to do what makes ME happy. Your mom already had a wedding. these people make you uncomfortable. hells no. NO NO NO!

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NO NO NO NO NO MOM. I AM NOT INVITING THOSE PEOPLE TO MY WEDDING BECAUSE THEY SUCK.

THE END.


Lol thanks for the practice

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I love how Amy is empowering us all to be flaming biatches

Oh I can play...

FMIL left a cryptic message on FH's cell phone on her way to Mexico for THANKSGIVING that she wants to see him around Christmas. She lives in San Diego, we live in AZ. This means that the crazy bat wants to come and STAY with us around or on Christmas.

Has she called us since to see what we are doing? No.
Has she called at all to tell us when or how long? No!
Has FH CALLED...NO! UGH!

Just call the damn woman and find out! I don't want her coming and neither does he so that's why he isn't calling and I'm in agony!!!!

Doesnt it feel great to vent ladies?

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by allinik

My latest vent!

My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.

I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.

What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??

AHHHHHHH

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this is what you say. NO. I am the biggest biatch. I love the word no. look.. no no no no!

It took me a long time to realize in the end, this is my life and i have to do what makes ME happy. Your mom already had a wedding. these people make you uncomfortable. hells no. NO NO NO!

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I tell my mom ne all the time when she wants to add ppl...i tell i dont like them so they can not eat food that i am paying for and thats it...

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Posted by Chanwich

Flame me if you want here girls, but I am just so annoyed with this entire wedding!!!

I know I've said it before, but I never wanted a big wedding, I haven't been planning my wedding since I was 5 and all I really want is to go to the JOP then out to a nice dinner with our immediate family and closest friends. But that can't happen because 'What will our friends think?' or 'what would so and so say?' Who the F cares, its MY frigging wedding. If you want to throw a party to impress your friends, go right ahead but leave me out of it. This day is clearly not about me and fh, but about keeping up with the joneses.

If I didn't think that my mother would 100% never speak to me again, I'd already be married.

aah, that felt good.

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Awww Im sorry love Glad you got to let that out!

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by Chanwich

Flame me if you want here girls, but I am just so annoyed with this entire wedding!!!

I know I've said it before, but I never wanted a big wedding, I haven't been planning my wedding since I was 5 and all I really want is to go to the JOP then out to a nice dinner with our immediate family and closest friends. But that can't happen because 'What will our friends think?' or 'what would so and so say?' Who the F cares, its MY frigging wedding. If you want to throw a party to impress your friends, go right ahead but leave me out of it. This day is clearly not about me and fh, but about keeping up with the joneses.

If I didn't think that my mother would 100% never speak to me again, I'd already be married.

aah, that felt good.

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Awww Im sorry love Glad you got to let that out!

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honestly do what YOU want! its your life. see my dream is to get married in a Scottish castle and then tour europe then go relax somewhere warm and end up at disney and univ and go home...or get married at universal during Halloween then follow the above steps in reverse. no guests. :)

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Posted by Chanwich

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Posted by allinik

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by allinik

My latest vent!

My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.

I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.

What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??

AHHHHHHH

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this is what you say. NO. I am the biggest biatch. I love the word no. look.. no no no no!

It took me a long time to realize in the end, this is my life and i have to do what makes ME happy. Your mom already had a wedding. these people make you uncomfortable. hells no. NO NO NO!

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NO NO NO NO NO MOM. I AM NOT INVITING THOSE PEOPLE TO MY WEDDING BECAUSE THEY SUCK.

THE END.


Lol thanks for the practice

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I love how Amy is empowering us all to be flaming biatches

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Flame on! lol

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Posted by VCanizalez

Wedding Guest....
NOT Family members!!! =-( I dont have FAMILY members here.. Exepct for Mom, dad & Brother!!! NO ONE IS HERE!!!! =-(
His family is Mom, 3aunts/uncles.... and DAS IT!!!
Everyone else we are inviting are Coworkers and some ppl from CHurch... I feel sometimes we are speding over 10,000 and REAL FRIENDS or Fmily members will NOT even be with Us...

True, i have invitited some ppl that are very close to me but STILL we have even thought of just 'inviting ppl' just so our wedding doesnt look so EMPTY

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i had said this before but i will say it again. its not worth spending a ton of money on having a larger wedding just because you have a vision of what your wedding should be. if some of these people are not that close to you or FH and your families and you are only using them as fillers, then consider having a smaller wedding party! at least it will bring the price down if nothing else!
At this point, with all the trouble you have been having with your BP, i would invite your brother to be the Best Man and your mother to be your matron of honor - instead of calling her the Matron/Maid of Honor, you can call her something like 'Mother of Honor'to distinguish her.
what happened that you are letting go of two more people from your BP?

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by Chanwich

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Posted by allinik

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by allinik

My latest vent!

My mom is insisting on inviting all of her cousins children to the wedding!! This doesn't sound so bad except that our invite list is already maxed out, and I have ALWAYS tried to have a relationship with these people and they do not reciprocate. They are extremely clicky and make me and my sister feel uncomfortable at every family gathering. They all showed up to my uncles funeral before Thanksgiving they all, except for one, said nothing to me. I told my mom I would invite the ones I was closest with and that actually try to talk to me - but that wasn't good enough.

I've also been stressing about cost, and my mom is paying half with FH's parents for the wedding. I think about it ALL the time- it even keeps me up at night, and my grandmother has the nerve to say that bc my mom is paying so much she has every right to invite whoever she wants, and that I don't realize that my mom is contributing so much. IT GOES THROUGH MY HEAD AT LEAST 10x A DAY and I ALWAYS say how thankful I am.

What more am I supposed to do?! How do I make everyone happy when this is supposed to my MY WEDDING??

AHHHHHHH

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this is what you say. NO. I am the biggest biatch. I love the word no. look.. no no no no!

It took me a long time to realize in the end, this is my life and i have to do what makes ME happy. Your mom already had a wedding. these people make you uncomfortable. hells no. NO NO NO!

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NO NO NO NO NO MOM. I AM NOT INVITING THOSE PEOPLE TO MY WEDDING BECAUSE THEY SUCK.

THE END.


Lol thanks for the practice

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I love how Amy is empowering us all to be flaming biatches

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Flame on! lol

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Love it!

my vent send me your freaking RSVPs people!!! the due date is tomm

It bothers me that I feel like my mom doesn't really care if I do or don't get marry. In her eyes, I'm already living with him and have kids so why spend the money. She didn't even offer to buy my dress but bought my sister a $5000 gown (mine was about $1000). It's not about the money but I feel that it should be every mother's joy to buy that dress for their daughter. I try to explain my feeling towards it but she got upset so now she's not talking to me.

It also sucks that my little one is going to be turning 1 next week and I won't be able to give her that big party like I did with my other two. She's too young to understand but I feel guilty. Instead I'm having a party at my house and bringing a clown. And although she doesn't understand me I do tell her that I will make it up to her next year.

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Posted by sujeire

It bothers me that I feel like my mom doesn't really care if I do or don't get marry. In her eyes, I'm already living with him and have kids so why spend the money. She didn't even offer to buy my dress but bought my sister a $5000 gown (mine was about $1000). It's not about the money but I feel that it should be every mother's joy to buy that dress for their daughter. I try to explain my feeling towards it but she got upset so now she's not talking to me.

It also sucks that my little one is going to be turning 1 next week and I won't be able to give her that big party like I did with my other two. She's too young to understand but I feel guilty. Instead I'm having a party at my house and bringing a clown. And although she doesn't understand me I do tell her that I will make it up to her next year.

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my moms like that too and i dont have kids.

and you do what you can. the important thing is that the people who love her are there to see her turn 1!

i hate my e-pics and i'm really torn on what to do about them. it

and while i know they aren't the greatest - i really don't need to keep hearing about how bad they are. my bff feels 'so bad for me' and is 'so sorry' b/c they are so awful and i have a contract. i mean i might not like them, but i don't need to be reminded about it all the time. besides, i knew i didn't want portraits and i like the wedding pictures and kinda' knew i was gonna' get more artsy e-pics.

seriously, her photographer was drunk the whole time and she STILL doesn't have an album 2 years later. i'm trying really hard not to say that though.

end rant.

So angry that my dad ruined my engagement by being so selfish, immature and and *ss and not being excited and happy for me.

I am frustrated that FH doesnt understand or appreciate how much of myself i am putting into the wedding.

I just want to scream and cry when i think of the amount of money that is going into this one day but i want to scream and cry more when i think of not being able to have the a little bit of the day i always dreamed of.

OHHH and i am pissed that i have to lose 30 lbs in the next 6 months.

ok thank you for listening :):)

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Posted by sujeire

It bothers me that I feel like my mom doesn't really care if I do or don't get marry. In her eyes, I'm already living with him and have kids so why spend the money. She didn't even offer to buy my dress but bought my sister a $5000 gown (mine was about $1000). It's not about the money but I feel that it should be every mother's joy to buy that dress for their daughter. I try to explain my feeling towards it but she got upset so now she's not talking to me.

It also sucks that my little one is going to be turning 1 next week and I won't be able to give her that big party like I did with my other two. She's too young to understand but I feel guilty. Instead I'm having a party at my house and bringing a clown. And although she doesn't understand me I do tell her that I will make it up to her next year.

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I'm sorry that your mom is being so unfair! Just because you didn't do the things the same way as your sister doesn't mean you should be treated like that!!

Im sure your little one will love her party no matter what. As long as the people that are important to you and her are there, it will be wonderful!!