AHHHHHH why can't people (OOT BP) be pleased at what you're trying to do for them instead of complain. I finally booked my last hotel room block. I booked the inn at fox hollow first, but apparently it's sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo effin expensive (granted it's high, but the inn can set its own prices and I have no say....also july wedding in LI...nuff said) and no one wants to stay on site. Instead of complaining to me, they complain to my MOH (sister) who then tells me. I was beyond pissed, not about what they said, but the fact that I never asked them for anything and they complained about everything: the dress is too much (I wanted a shorter less expensive dress, but no one liked those options and went for long (high cost), shoes are too expensive (I wanted a plain silver strappy shoe that they can wear again, now we're doing dyeables)....ahhhhhh. 'No' will be my new answer soon...
I love my OOT BP but I need them to be supportive, not opposing...
IrishAli
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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali
I am frustrated that not everyone who received a save the date has acknowledged it with a text, a call to my mom or me, or signing our guestbook...
Like do you not care that you got a card that basically says you're invited??! it took me forever to address those envelopes
Yup- my dad's cousin was the only one that signed the guestbook on our website!!!! None of FH's family, basically none of mine! And I am the first cousin to get married!!!!!!!!
My friends in DC all acknowledged it (my friend even sent me a text of it hanging on her fridge)
Leia1920
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I actually got teary abotu this on Saturday I asked my BFF to be my MOH, she agreed. Then decided to stop talking to me!!!!!!!!!!!!! Would speak to me like once every few weeks and only if I initiated contact. Came to our Eparty and didn't bring a gift! not even a DAMN CARD!GRanted she did sent us a card when we first got engaged but soo did a lot of people that came to the party with another card! Then she got engaged and planned her wedding for a month before mine!!!! 9 month engagement!!!! THEN mid summer tells me she can't be my MOH b/c she's going to be to busy planning her own wedding and can't afford to be in my wedding party. Though EMAIL no less! I asked if she wanted to still be a BM and she told me she can't afford it. THEN she goes to Europe over Thanksgiving and posts it all over Facebook!!!!! AND other weekend trips since! you can't pay 200 for a dress? PLEASE! your flight to Europe you booked two months before that cost a fraction of the dress price! Plus she makes at least double what I make year as does her FH and they are both well into 6 figure salaries! AND she has yet to contact me since the emails over teh summer. She's done and I have a much better MOH that actually cares. It sucks though b/c it's sad to see a friendship that I held in a very special light end this way.
DCgirl82
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Posted by Leia1920
I actually got teary abotu this on Saturday I asked my BFF to be my MOH, she agreed. Then decided to stop talking to me!!!!!!!!!!!!! Would speak to me like once every few weeks and only if I initiated contact. Came to our Eparty and didn't bring a gift! not even a DAMN CARD!GRanted she did sent us a card when we first got engaged but soo did a lot of people that came to the party with another card! Then she got engaged and planned her wedding for a month before mine!!!! 9 month engagement!!!! THEN mid summer tells me she can't be my MOH b/c she's going to be to busy planning her own wedding and can't afford to be in my wedding party. Though EMAIL no less! I asked if she wanted to still be a BM and she told me she can't afford it. THEN she goes to Europe over Thanksgiving and posts it all over Facebook!!!!! AND other weekend trips since! you can't pay 200 for a dress? PLEASE! your flight to Europe you booked two months before that cost a fraction of the dress price! Plus she makes at least double what I make year as does her FH and they are both well into 6 figure salaries! AND she has yet to contact me since the emails over teh summer. She's done and I have a much better MOH that actually cares. It sucks though b/c it's sad to see a friendship that I held in a very special light end this way.
Im so sorry you have to deal with this.. She showed u her true colors thought and u dont want someone like her in your wedding party as hard as that may be right now
MrsG2011
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i hate how weddings turns everyone into evil eyed monsters... Everyone is either jealous, says hurtful comments or stops talking to you because you found happiness and they didnt... Its sooo stupid... This engagement taught me soo much about me myself and i!
YOUR A NUT, i dated you for a day, get over the fact that i used you as a rebound, to make my FH crazy when we broke up.
i will NEEEEEEEVVVVERRRRRRR talk to you again,
and no you are NOT invited to the wedding
chreesta
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Posted by DCgirl82
Posted by Leia1920
I actually got teary abotu this on Saturday I asked my BFF to be my MOH, she agreed. Then decided to stop talking to me!!!!!!!!!!!!! Would speak to me like once every few weeks and only if I initiated contact. Came to our Eparty and didn't bring a gift! not even a DAMN CARD!GRanted she did sent us a card when we first got engaged but soo did a lot of people that came to the party with another card! Then she got engaged and planned her wedding for a month before mine!!!! 9 month engagement!!!! THEN mid summer tells me she can't be my MOH b/c she's going to be to busy planning her own wedding and can't afford to be in my wedding party. Though EMAIL no less! I asked if she wanted to still be a BM and she told me she can't afford it. THEN she goes to Europe over Thanksgiving and posts it all over Facebook!!!!! AND other weekend trips since! you can't pay 200 for a dress? PLEASE! your flight to Europe you booked two months before that cost a fraction of the dress price! Plus she makes at least double what I make year as does her FH and they are both well into 6 figure salaries! AND she has yet to contact me since the emails over teh summer. She's done and I have a much better MOH that actually cares. It sucks though b/c it's sad to see a friendship that I held in a very special light end this way.
Im so sorry you have to deal with this.. She showed u her true colors thought and u dont want someone like her in your wedding party as hard as that may be right now
