Months ago, my MOH told me that she wanted to do a toast at the wedding. I was fine with it -- I've seen it done at other weddings, and I think it's nice...
My plan was to have the BM toast us first, then the MOH...
Well, the BM found out about the MOH's toast, and is all like 'That's unheard of...' and he's annoyed... He's kinda half joking about it, but I think part of him is ****ed...
Should I make the MOH go first? I think his issue is he's going to be 'upstaged'... Should she do her toast later in the night?
Or should I ignore him?
FH thinks it's hilarious that BM is annoyed, and wants to keep it as is, because he thinks BM is being a big ol' baby (which is true)... But my mom was all 'the BM does the toast -- it's not right for the MOH to go after him....' But she's stuck in a time warp...
Opinions please? What have you guys seen at weddings? What are you doing?
V&S03
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Re: Drama re: MOH/BM toast! Advice please!
You got that right Evenedan- you were definitely a tough act to follow
Boop2704
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Re: Drama re: MOH/BM toast! Advice please!
Tell him it is better if he goes first, because then she has to try not to repeat everything he said and people will listen to his more because he is going first!!
