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EFFING MAD NOW.... BABIES at our Wedding!

Original post by VCanizalez

OMG OMG i could SCREAM and YELL at Luis if I have him right nexct to me!

Thank God we are just texting....

So I THOUGHT we had BOTH come to the conclusion of NO KIDS/BABIES to our WEDDING unless BRIDAL PARTY....

We have keep up that rule GOOD... TILL We recevied an RSVP from a lady that I DONT EVEN EFFIN KNOW.. and He knows her bc that is where Luis used to live in NJ (So i guess Luis' x landlord?).....

She just gave birth to a baby coule of Months ago.. and she has a girl for likr 4 yrs...

So she responed
'MR. & MRS HERNANDEZ AND MY LIL GIRLS'

I freaked and Last nit Luis told me 'WOW i cant believe this ppl blha blha blha'...

So apparently Luis spoke to X last nite, X knows Mr n Mrs Hernandez.... and X was trying to 'soften' luis into bringing Kids to our weddin.

SO luis now is telling me 'We have to think when we have kids... we want to bring kids wiht us... they wanna come but they dont know how to leave their kids with...Maybe they shoul come'...

WHAT?????
We had already AGREE (well i thought we did) on NO KIDSSSSSS unless BP....
PLUS Im sorry but We gave 9months in advancement to look for babysitter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Plus We WILL not go to a weddiong with KIDS... I WILL NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!!


I AM SO MAD NOW.......
I CANT BELIEVE THIS NOWWWWWW


NOW I AM GOING TO HAVE AT THE WEDDING A BABY (FEW MONTHS OLD) and a 4Yrs old Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





I CANT BELIEVE LUIS NOW....

I THOUGHT WE WERE ON THE SAME FKING PAGE..... I guess no...

pixietina Posted:

Re: EFFING MAD NOW.... BABIES at our Wedding!

That really sucks. I went to a wedding with kids in it. And all they did was run around in circles the whole time like the place was a circus. It really can go both ways with either the kid being well behaved or not. I agree that you two shouldn't fight each other about it. He should definitely talk to the woman and tell her you guys can't afford to have her kids there.

Colcas2011 Posted:

Re: EFFING MAD NOW.... BABIES at our Wedding!


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Posted by Moonmist09

i had children at my wedding at no one even noticed them because they were all really well behaved. some people really don't have anyone to leave their children and if you are all alone in this country (never say never, b/c until i met DH and he became my family, my family was the only family i had in this country) i would never leave my children with a stranger either

however, i am sad that you are going to have children at yours when you obviously did not want them. If it has already been understood that these two girls will be coming to the wedding, don't worry about it. you can't stress over every little thing and you can't control everything. no one will notice these two children and it will be so loud that honestly, you won't hear them even if they do scream, which they probably won't if they are the only two children there. However, in all fairness, even i wouldn't bring a 4 month old baby to a wedding just because of the loud music alone.




I agree with this. I had kids on my wedding and we never saw them. I didn't even see my lil ones because they were busy having fun. I have kids so I understand..sometimes you really have no options but to bring your kids along.



im sorry but 'not having someone to watch your kids' is not the bride and grooms problem. heres an idea... leave your husband at home with the kids if you want to go to the wedding so bad! V- the same thing happend to us. one of dh's friends replied 'Mr. and Mrs. X and james jr'. i had dh text him and say no kids allowed. they ended up not coming.
and just a side note- im sure you know we have kids already. i hired a sitter to watch them at the reception and made her leave with them after 2 hours. they were running around like nuts! a wedding is not fun for kids... why put them or you through that.
if i was you i would have fh or you call her and say- sorry but children are not invited to the wedding. they arent even close friends or family... i wouldnt sweat it! if they dont come... oh well!
VCanizalez Posted:

Re: EFFING MAD NOW.... BABIES at our Wedding!

Thank u Chica. Yes that's what I thought. It ain't my fault. Plus they r not family.
We will call them and let them know. If not then oh well.

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