So as you all know FBIL married a girl he knew for 6 months this past June.... and I can't stand either of them... WELLLLLL they called FH yesterday to tell him that they are expecting, she is 5 weeks which meanssssssss she will be 3 months at our wedding, just in enought time to make our wedding about them.
So FBIL called back today to tell FH again (I'm not sure why he needed a second phone call but whatever) andFH congratulated him again and expressed how happy he was for them and asked when he was going to start telling people and he said the first week of October. So FH asked him just not to announce it during the wedding or his best man speech or anything and FBIL said he'll tell people when and where he wants. FABULOUS.
TessMike621
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lol just telllll every1 like a month b4 the wedding so its old news lolol
lol mad funny...I agree!
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Bex and I can beat him the fcuk up for you...ill bring a golf club
Seriously ill come to the wedding and spill my drink on him and then smack him while I'm 'apologizing'
Please do this.
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Absolutely tell EVERYONE before hand, like few weeks before. What does fils say?
BTW, she barely missed her period, why are they starting to tell people already?
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Absolutely tell EVERYONE before hand, like few weeks before. What does fils say?
BTW, she barely missed her period, why are they starting to tell people already?
They went to the doctor and confirmed it... I don't know I just thought you weren't supposed tosay anything until the 3 month because it's so uncertain especially for someone at her age who has never been pregnant before. I think they're just telling immediate family about it now, they'll save everyone else for our wedding day I'm sure.
FILs are over the moon about it of course.
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Can't you tell him you changed the location and time of the wedding so he doesn't come?
HAHA! My thoughts EXACTLY!
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If I was you i would let it slip about 3 weeks before the wedding so everyone will know by your wedding day and no one will care.
Tough s**t if they are annoyed. At least it is them that will be annoyed and not you!!!!!!!!
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Posted by MerSaysEh
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you could tell everyone ahead of time that she's prego, spoil their fun and ensure that it doesn't get announced for the first time at your wedding.
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you could tell everyone at the wedding that YOU'RE pregnant. then when they say it they're just being copycats
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push her down the stairs.....
....and frame him.
Totally!!! Tell everyone before the wedding date! Then it's not so special and you stole their thunder first!!!!!!!!!!!! Do it! I only suggest this because wedding dresses may not look that great in mug shots if 'framing him' doesn't work.
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Posted by MerSaysEh
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you could tell everyone ahead of time that she's prego, spoil their fun and ensure that it doesn't get announced for the first time at your wedding.
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you could tell everyone at the wedding that YOU'RE pregnant. then when they say it they're just being copycats
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push her down the stairs.....
....and frame him.
These are all excellent ideas.
I'll make an insert for the programs:
'Steve and whatsherface are preggers. Who didn't see this one coming?? '
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Wow, I am really not a fan of announcements at weddings whether it be babies, engagements, or birthdays. If they want to announce it should be in private or at a different time but not at your wedding. They had their big day & should let you have yours. If I were you I'd tell the DJ no special announcements, or requests, and maybe you should just skip FBIL when it comes to the toast to avoid this.
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'he'll tell people when and where he wants. '
uhhh...nice
MrsC2010
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gina i seriously think u should leak it. 'accidentally' make a comment on fb about it so everyone sees and then its old news by your wedding.
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I would call FIL's and freak out! I would tell your FMIL that she needs to put her son in check! That is so messed up. What a douche bag
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gina i seriously think u should leak it. 'accidentally' make a comment on fb about it so everyone sees and then its old news by your wedding.
ooooooOOOOooooo I like this idea... DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!
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Ugh I hope they have enough class not to make a huge deal about it at your wedding!
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I would call FIL's and freak out! I would tell your FMIL that she needs to put her son in check! That is so messed up. What a douche bag
I thought about it but they're so excited to finally be grandparents and as their track record goes they really don't care much about FH or I so I just imagine them telling us we're over reacting by not wanting him to say anything at out wedding.
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I would call FIL's and freak out! I would tell your FMIL that she needs to put her son in check! That is so messed up. What a douche bag
I thought about it but they're so excited to finally be grandparents and as their track record goes they really don't care much about FH or I so I just imagine them telling us we're over reacting by not wanting him to say anything at out wedding.
then let it slip... there is no other way to avoid it. Want me to do it for you? I'll post on your FB wall Congrats Auntie! What a wonderful blessing a wedding and a baby all within the same year....
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i didnt have to open this to know what you were going to say...
regardless of when they announce it, its not going to take away from your day...
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Posted by MerSaysEh
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you could tell everyone ahead of time that she's prego, spoil their fun and ensure that it doesn't get announced for the first time at your wedding.
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you could tell everyone at the wedding that YOU'RE pregnant. then when they say it they're just being copycats
OR
push her down the stairs.....
....and frame him.
Im impressed Meredith... this post is GOLD!
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Sorry that you're going through this
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I would call FIL's and freak out! I would tell your FMIL that she needs to put her son in check! That is so messed up. What a douche bag
I thought about it but they're so excited to finally be grandparents and as their track record goes they really don't care much about FH or I so I just imagine them telling us we're over reacting by not wanting him to say anything at out wedding.
then let it slip... there is no other way to avoid it. Want me to do it for you? I'll post on your FB wall Congrats Auntie! What a wonderful blessing a wedding and a baby all within the same year....
I think about 2 weeks before the wedding this would be perfect!!!!!!!!!!!
