FH Take Charge.....

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Posted by jesslangen

So, what is your FH planning for the wedding....wht have you trusted him to book? I haven't given FH any tasks yet...but please share yours!

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i said he can do the honeymoon
to me that is the least thing i care about lol
so i will let him do that

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Posted by soon2bmrsp06

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Posted by jesslangen

So, what is your FH planning for the wedding....wht have you trusted him to book? I haven't given FH any tasks yet...but please share yours!

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i said he can do the honeymoon
to me that is the least thing i care about lol
so i will let him do that

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exact same thing here, he's in charge of the HM and i could care less about it.

He was in charge of where we will stay the night of the wedding and the limos

Honeymoon...he's all about it. I'm also going to let him take the lead on DJ/Band, limos, groomsmen gifts.

He's actually been really pretty good about things. When we looked at halls it was the baseball playoffs. We must have looked at a million photo/video people. I'm the first one I know getting married so I feel the need to investigate and get pricing from everyone!

Fh is in charge of nothing. I just expect for him to be there for any appointments and bookings. He is just way busier than I am so, I dont mind. I took charge!

We've done everything together thus far, but he's soley in charge of all out of towner arrangements, as they are all his people and I want nothing to do with it. He is also in charge of all transportation. Plus he's a great researcher, so when I don't have time to hunt down info on something, I ask him to do it.

It's a curse, he doesn't really get involved in the planning and I complain about it sometimes, but I think it's better this way because his opinions almost always clashes with mine! And we end up fighting!

So, for me, it's better that he stays out of it. Of course he goes with me to visit vendors - you know, the biggies - hall, photo, florist, etc. But I make all the calls, I do all the research, all the creativity is me.

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Posted by MCDO15

give the men (like me) some credit... i planned more then half of our wedding. While we did everything together like vendors, etc.. i have taken a lead in making calls, find out prices, following up and doing our favors.

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I was offering and taking away credit. I just know some FH's aren't into the wedding planning necessarrily. Like mine! I love him to death and he comes to all vendor meetings and etc. But for the most part I have done everything. I just wanted input as to what other LI Brides have done with FH

I give FH's like you LOTS of credit!

Absolutely NOTHING! LOL
He works two jobs and doesn't have the time to research and call - so he's in charge of bringing in the money.

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Posted by jesslangen

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Posted by MCDO15

give the men (like me) some credit... i planned more then half of our wedding. While we did everything together like vendors, etc.. i have taken a lead in making calls, find out prices, following up and doing our favors.

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I was offering and taking away credit. I just know some FH's aren't into the wedding planning necessarrily. Like mine! I love him to death and he comes to all vendor meetings and etc. But for the most part I have done everything. I just wanted input as to what other LI Brides have done with FH

I give FH's like you LOTS of credit!

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Yeah, I'm a bit envious..... I guess all I want from my FH is him agreeing with me and being excited about about my decisions, hahah.

I wish he would do alll the nitty gritty stuff like making phone calls though, at least help.

MCDO15 - I give you mad props, men like you are RARE!

I do most of the research and contact work, but he is designing everythng and helping me do everything along the way. He comes to every vendor appointment and is half of the decision on whether we should book them.

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Posted by babybliss

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Posted by jesslangen

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Posted by MCDO15

give the men (like me) some credit... i planned more then half of our wedding. While we did everything together like vendors, etc.. i have taken a lead in making calls, find out prices, following up and doing our favors.

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I was offering and taking away credit. I just know some FH's aren't into the wedding planning necessarrily. Like mine! I love him to death and he comes to all vendor meetings and etc. But for the most part I have done everything. I just wanted input as to what other LI Brides have done with FH

I give FH's like you LOTS of credit!

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Yeah, I'm a bit envious..... I guess all I want from my FH is him agreeing with me and being excited about about my decisions, hahah.

I wish he would do alll the nitty gritty stuff like making phone calls though, at least help.

MCDO15 - I give you mad props, men like you are RARE!

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why thank you
yeah...all our vendors came from LIW from my many many post. i like hanging here finding information and helping others

We are in the process of buying a house so while I am in charge of wedding details he is in charge of house details. I think I lucked out on that one! He makes tons of phone calls and sets up lots of appt's. I am busy ordering flowers while he is negotiating rates and prices

Michael is also in charge of the HM.....and he is doing a great job.

He is very helpful, actually!