Fights w/ FH

FH and I got into a fight and haven't really spoken in 2 days. We have the same arguement every so often but we don't break up or anything. It just stinks.

How often do you fight w/ FH? Big ones, little ones...whatever...

I know normal is different for everyone but I'm curious anyway.

girl.. we ain't talking over here either.. :lol.. it happens.. i love him to death but he has his ways.. and last night his ways got to me.... BIG TIME....


oh and how often do we argue? hmm.. well we get in one good one at least once a month.. usually tuned to my time of the month.. he got my ovulation cycle down in his pda but won't schedule in my 'don't bother her she's a b*tch' days...

this is JMO .. but .. you should really talk to him. it might be just a misunderstanding .. you guys are getting married ... being cold to each other isn't teh answer...

oh .. we argue from time to time .. but it's mainly me being stupid and well it's usually around that time of the month .. plus we both have issues we need to work on. but talking is always key... (oh and now i warn him when my TOM is coming so he could be prepared )

once every two weeks.

mostly little fights but he thinks every fight is horrible so it ends up being a big one sometimes. I hate when that happens. It's like 'guy, we're just arguing, let it go. i'm not apologizing, you're not, let's just agree to disagree and be friends again.'

so annoying.

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Posted by Madorie

FH and I got into a fight and haven't really spoken in 2 days. We have the same arguement every so often but we don't break up or anything. It just *****.

How often do you fight w/ FH? Big ones, little ones...whatever...

I know normal is different for everyone but I'm curious anyway.

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do you live together?

Sometimes we bicker a lot and its usually about the same things. We have big blowouts rarely but we had one two days ago and my throat is still sore! But he apologized millions of times for being stupid cause hes stupid sometimes and its never my fault. He never lets us go without talking. One of you guys should break the silence. Since you fight about the same thing frequently why dont you try having a serious discussion about it.

I'm sorry that you got in a fight

FH and I don't really fihgt - don't get me wrong i get annoyed with him and say why cant you just - or something... but we talk it out. We don't let it get that far and we both always end up saying we are sorry to the other no matter who's fault it was.

I think its really important to communicate and talk it out. But it also helps that FH and I dont mind talking about our feelings - FH is also a psychologist, so that def makes it harder to actually get into an argument with him (and believe me sometimes I try )

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Posted by iwannabmrsD

girl.. we ain't talking over here either.. :lol.. it happens.. i love him to death but he has his ways.. and last night his ways got to me.... BIG TIME....


oh and how often do we argue? hmm.. well we get in one good one at least once a month.. usually tuned to my time of the month.. he got my ovulation cycle down in his pda but won't schedule in my 'don't bother her she's a b*tch' days...

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At least your FH has it down! Mine thinks I use PMS as an excuse to abuse him. He says women make it up to be mean and thats when I BLOW UP! I hate when he says that cause he has no idea how it feels!

We really don't FIGHT fight that often, but we bicker all the time... it's natural... we've been together for almost 5 years, we've lived together for almost 3... what can ya do.

Hope it blows over soon.

I think in the 5 years we've been together we've fought big time maybe 4 times(usually about how he gets when a sports team he loves is doing poorly).

We really don't argue all that much... We do have our moments when I want to bring bodily harm down upon him....but we always have the agreement never to go to bed angry... I think we've done that twice and it STINKS!!!!

If you don't want to call him/see him - text him or something with a little i love you...nothing major - just let him know even though you are fighting - you still love him!

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do you live together?

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We do...for a few years now.

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Posted by jgl

I'm sorry that you got in a fight

FH and I don't really fihgt - don't get me wrong i get annoyed with him and say why cant you just - or something... but we talk it out. We don't let it get that far and we both always end up saying we are sorry to the other no matter who's fault it was.

I think its really important to communicate and talk it out. But it also helps that FH and I dont mind talking about our feelings - FH is also a psychologist, so that def makes it harder to actually get into an argument with him (and believe me sometimes I try )

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I think you have an advantage with your FH being a psychologist...he's been professionally trained to understand why people go crazy sometimes

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by iwannabmrsD

girl.. we ain't talking over here either.. :lol.. it happens.. i love him to death but he has his ways.. and last night his ways got to me.... BIG TIME....


oh and how often do we argue? hmm.. well we get in one good one at least once a month.. usually tuned to my time of the month.. he got my ovulation cycle down in his pda but won't schedule in my 'don't bother her she's a b*tch' days...

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At least your FH has it down! Mine thinks I use PMS as an excuse to abuse him. He says women make it up to be mean and thats when I BLOW UP! I hate when he says that cause he has no idea how it feels!

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You're preaching to the choir sister.

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Posted by Madorie

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do you live together?

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We do...for a few years now.

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We live together for a little over 2 years and boy do we get on each others cases some times. It is totally normal, but you guys should talk. Don't ignore it or each other. I have to say that we have gotten in so HUGE fights and well we took some time too cool off but we never stop talking to each other.
Are you guys really just ignoring each other or are you doing like the small talk thing? I am sure you will be happier then ever before you know it and it will all blow over. Hang in there

we bicker maybe 1 time every 2 weeks..

sometimes we have a lovely argument like we did last nite...

but most of the time its bickering thats over in like 10 mins

i never had a fight where i havent spoken to him tho...

only once liek when we were a year into the relationship and i found out he lied...but that was for like a night

what did u fight about that you arent talkin for a few days

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If you don't want to call him/see him - text him or something with a little i love you...nothing major - just let him know even though you are fighting - you still love him!

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I wish!! We're both too stubborn.

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Posted by Madorie

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do you live together?

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We do...for a few years now.

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Some people fight and then don't talk - give the silent treatment and whatnot...

It's just stubbornness. Even if it's not your fault, apologize... You have to pick and choose your battles. If it's something stupid, I apologize even if I think I'm right. It's not worth it.

Sorry you guys are fighting. I hate fighting with my FH...

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Are you guys really just ignoring each other or are you doing like the small talk thing? I am sure you will be happier then ever before you know it and it will all blow over. Hang in there

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It's pretty much just small talk. I know things will go back to normal eventually....at least I hope so!!! I've already tried to be ease the tension but he hasn't really reciprocated.