FH and I got into a fight and haven't really spoken in 2 days. We have the same arguement every so often but we don't break up or anything. It just stinks.
How often do you fight w/ FH? Big ones, little ones...whatever...
I know normal is different for everyone but I'm curious anyway.
beachbum05
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Everyone fights - don't be down on yourself....but try not to compare yourself to other couples and their situations. Some couples that don't fight might have communication problems and keep their emotions pent up - ya know? I think that's even more unhealthy, personally.
If you feel like it's starting to be unhealthy for you guys, I would totally think about talking to a professional. Sometimes it's difficult for you guys to be objective when you're so deeply involved.
Jacquelyn
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We really don't fight that often anymore! Mybe, b/c we are both always busy doing something but, if you do fight it's about house work and how he doesn't do any of it..... I need to train him a little better
SeaMaiden
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we bicker occasionally over stupid stuff, usually because we are overtired and cranky. we havent had many blow-ups in the last 7 years...maybe once a year, lol, but never did the silent treatment thing. sometimes i try to not speak to him for a few hours only because i need time to myself and dont want to say things i regret but FH always insists we speak.
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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
once every two weeks.
mostly little fights but he thinks every fight is horrible so it ends up being a big one sometimes. I hate when that happens. It's like 'guy, we're just arguing, let it go. i'm not apologizing, you're not, let's just agree to disagree and be friends again.'
so annoying.
exactly!! lol
me and fh always fight and i swear though..he's more of a drama queen than i am! He makes things bigger than they need to be sometimes. Not that i'm not guilty of that too..but he's bad with it... it stinks but it happens!
KarinAmanda
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to be honest, we almost never get into HUGE fights but we do bicker a lot! it is our nature, we are both very strong willed and over opinionated!
you just have to remember that this is all part of 'marriage' you are marrying each other, the good points and the not so good points as well. marriage is about constantly growing with and learning from each other. ugh, there are MANY times when I have to remind myself of that too
TrueLoveIn2008
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We don't get into big fights very often .. I do get annoyed at him a lot, for working too much, drinking too much, and sleeping on the couch instead of with me ... :) but mostly we disagree about money. Doesn't really cause fights but may sooner or later .. like when it's time to buy a house and he wants to 'flip' it and I am too scared to do that ... :)
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Posted by Cutiecarman
One good recommendation I got was that never go to bed angry, always try to resolve the problem before going to sleep.
question (to anyone..)... why is this? people alllll ways say don't go to bed angry... now i thought for years it had something to do with one of u may die in u'r sleep and then u'll nevr get the chance to make up... but it's prob no that ... (so morbid isn't it..)
but personally, i don't mind going to sleep angry.. chances are i'm B*tching cause i'm tired so a good night's sleep (which means don't touch me..) will make me feel better, and when i wake up whateever it is.. i'm over it..
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Posted by beachbum05
Everyone fights - don't be down on yourself....but try not to compare yourself to other couples and their situations. Some couples that don't fight might have communication problems and keep their emotions pent up - ya know? I think that's even more unhealthy, personally.
If you feel like it's starting to be unhealthy for you guys, I would totally think about talking to a professional. Sometimes it's difficult for you guys to be objective when you're so deeply involved.
No, I'm not. I'm just curious to know what other people's relationships are like - misery loves company.
lyndanoelle
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Im sorry to hear that
We have the same fight ever 5-6 months, it lasts a few days then we are back to normal. thats the only time we fight though
hope it gets resolved
Lucky0510
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FH and I hardly ever fight... maybe twice a year. Last night we got into an argument though about ice cream (he wanted ice cream... I wanted to stick to my new diet. long story short he finally convinces me to get ice cream and then he changed his mind when we got to baskin robbins.... I swear I was gonna call of the wedding i was acting completely irrational cause I was starving
stlmn2u
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I just had one with FH because he feels that because I am on vacation, I should be looking for apartments by myself....Ummmm no...I don't think so....
Teamhurldon
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id say we have a really big one semi annually and medium ones quarterly....
