'Friend' vent - repost from LIF - UPDATED ON PAGE 3 WITH HER REPLY!

Original post by dbonilla

Jan 02, 2006 05:50 PM

I was online a little while ago and was iming a friend of mine. Instead of going back and forth with the he said/she said.. Ill just post the convo...

me: happy new year!

her: hey hun happy new year

me: how was your christmas?

her: it was ok and yours
me: good

her: THERE IS SOMETHING I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO SAY CAUSE IT WAS REALLY BOTHERING ME

me: what
her: AHH FORGET IT

me: ew, tell me

her: I THOUGHT IT WAS KIND OF MESSED UP YOU GAVE ALISSA A 40 GIFTCARD FOR HER COMMUNION. AND IT REALLY HAS BEEN BOTHERING ME

me: why is that?

her: IM SICK OF PEOPLE TREATING ME LIKE ****. I KNOw YOU HAVE MONEY AND THAT WAS KIND OF MESSED UP. I DONT HAVE A JOB OR MAKE MONEY AND I WOULD DO MORE THEN THAT

me: excuse me?? u KNOW we have money?? umm ok u obviously dont know shyt then

her: WELL I SAID WHAT I HAD TO SAY

me: sorry u feel that way. didnt realize that our friendship was based on money. If we had more to give at the time we would have.

her: GOTTA GO BYE

IS THIS CHICK FOR REAL?? First off, the communion was SEVEN MONTHS AGO.. and she is going to NOW talk about how 'messed' up I was for not giving her daughter more money??? WHO SAYS THINGS LIKE THIS!?!?!?

Please tell me I am not crazy thinking she was totally off base saying this to me. I could see if it were a family member or something.. but this was a friend of mine who's daughter was receiving her communion. I honestly didn't think a $40 gift card was CHEAP! Granted, I would of loved to have been able to give her more, but we were saving for our wedding and other things. Shes lucky I didnt throw in her face that last Christmas I spent over 200 bucks buying her daugther clothes, without a return gift from her. I didnt care about it... because it was a gift.... I still cannot believe she had the nerve to say this to me!

xcalystax Posted: Jan 02, 2006 11:32 PM

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What a wacko... I would refuse to ever speak to her again.

klingklang77 Posted: Jan 02, 2006 11:54 PM

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that is really wierd. $40 for a communion gift is fine.

dbonilla Posted: Jan 03, 2006 07:37 AM

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Still no reply! Maybe today I will get one

BernandRob Posted: Jan 03, 2006 08:38 AM

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That is absurd, b/c she's not working you should do more for her....what the hell is wrong with people. I hope this is the last thing you do for this so called friend who only obviously sees money as a measure of your friendship.

Katie&Chris2006 Posted: Jan 03, 2006 10:00 AM

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What a bi-otch. I'd certainly write her off as my friend. What ever happened to 'it's the thought that counts?'

nygirl77 Posted: Jan 03, 2006 10:22 AM

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Lose that friend! She really does have some nerve to say something like that to you. Totally f'd up.

BKtoLI Posted: Jan 03, 2006 10:46 AM

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Ok if you had no money then why throw a communiion party??

And I would never expect anything from anyone that I knew was saving for a large expense, like a house, wedding, baby, etc.

Obviously this woman doesn't value your friendship if she has been pissy about this for so many months. It's like she kept a running list of who gave what.

I would write her off. She clearly doesn't care about anything other than what you can do for her and her kids!!

nygirl77 Posted: Jan 03, 2006 02:47 PM

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Any word back from your 'friend'?

lisad117 Posted: Jan 03, 2006 02:53 PM

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That is insane. There is nothing wrong with a $40 gift card for a communion. I think it is very generous. I think she is a friend you don't need.

E-n-K Posted: Jan 03, 2006 04:16 PM

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wow! Thats so horrible!! How could anyone ever say anything like that about a gift even if it were $2!!

SomethingBlu Posted: Jan 03, 2006 04:22 PM

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My first reaction when I read the post was 'she probably thought you're loaded because of your wedding'...that's what people assume, speaking from experience. Hence why it was 'bothering her for so long'.

Second...she's a loser for mentioning the amount of the gift that you and your DH gave to her daughter. The fact that she held that in for so long shows that she has very little priorities in life and I pity her.

I can't wait to read her response!

dbonilla Posted: Jan 03, 2006 06:42 PM

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Still no email from her!!

missgwife Posted: Jan 03, 2006 06:52 PM

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Keep us posted

dbonilla Posted: Jan 04, 2006 08:50 PM

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OMG I CANNOT GET OVER HER REPLY!!!!!

'whoa w t f is going on ????? i havent even had a computer in like 2 months or aim for that matter . im at my sisters right now and i just checked my mail .. call me tonight cause i have no idea what this is about. '

Then the 2nd email says..

'i think someone has hacked into my account and is f%*@*in with the people on my buddylist and i very well think its melissa cause im not talking to her anymore. if somone ims u from my name it isnt me !!!!!'

There she goes blaming a 3rd party... Even if this was true (which I am 97% sure this is BS)... It just goes to prove that she mentioned the amount of my gift to this Melissa chick.... So either way, she looks like a moron right now. I just cannot believe that she has the audacity to try to blame someone else for this!!!!

nygirl77 Posted: Jan 04, 2006 08:55 PM

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Are you kidding me!? What person would hack into her AIM and also have that information about the gift card!?

dbonilla Posted: Jan 04, 2006 08:56 PM

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Posted by nygirl77

Are you kidding me!? What person would hack into her AIM and also have that information about the gift card!?

EXACTLY!! Plus.. the 'hacker' typed EXACTLY like my 'friend'.... She NEVER uses her spacebar sothewords are alwayslike this

aliwnec10 Posted: Jan 04, 2006 09:19 PM

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Posted by dbonilla

Posted by nygirl77

Are you kidding me!? What person would hack into her AIM and also have that information about the gift card!?

EXACTLY!! Plus.. the 'hacker' typed EXACTLY like my 'friend'.... She NEVER uses her spacebar sothewords are alwayslike this

How old is your friend? I feel like i'm in elementary school all over again! I'm sorry your friend is being so dumb.

jenheartsrob Posted: Jan 04, 2006 09:19 PM

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and how'd this melissa girl know what your screen name was?? that this screen name was the person who gave $40? lol, that's really comical...i'm sorry this is happening to you, though!

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Jan 04, 2006 09:19 PM

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ok she definitly has issues going on in her life and she can't seem to get past the fact that she's jelous of you. She may have mentioned money but it can be somthing deeper.

Is she happily married? Maybe she's jelous that you are or somthing else that 's not gooing well in her life.

The fact that she can't assume ownership for her actions is really sad & childish,

I'm sorry that you r going through this when you should be enjoying your newlywed status

dbonilla Posted: Jan 04, 2006 09:46 PM

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Posted by jenheartsrob

and how'd this melissa girl know what your screen name was?? that this screen name was the person who gave $40? lol, that's really comical...i'm sorry this is happening to you, though!

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!