'Friend' vent - repost from LIF - UPDATED ON PAGE 3 WITH HER REPLY!
Original post by dbonilla
I was online a little while ago and was iming a friend of mine. Instead of going back and forth with the he said/she said.. Ill just post the convo...
me: happy new year!
her: hey hun happy new year
me: how was your christmas?
her: it was ok and yours me: good
her: THERE IS SOMETHING I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO SAY CAUSE IT WAS REALLY BOTHERING ME
me: what her: AHH FORGET IT
me: ew, tell me
her: I THOUGHT IT WAS KIND OF MESSED UP YOU GAVE ALISSA A 40 GIFTCARD FOR HER COMMUNION. AND IT REALLY HAS BEEN BOTHERING ME
me: why is that?
her: IM SICK OF PEOPLE TREATING ME LIKE ****. I KNOw YOU HAVE MONEY AND THAT WAS KIND OF MESSED UP. I DONT HAVE A JOB OR MAKE MONEY AND I WOULD DO MORE THEN THAT
me: excuse me?? u KNOW we have money?? umm ok u obviously dont know shyt then
her: WELL I SAID WHAT I HAD TO SAY
me: sorry u feel that way. didnt realize that our friendship was based on money. If we had more to give at the time we would have.
her: GOTTA GO BYE
IS THIS CHICK FOR REAL?? First off, the communion was SEVEN MONTHS AGO.. and she is going to NOW talk about how 'messed' up I was for not giving her daughter more money??? WHO SAYS THINGS LIKE THIS!?!?!?
Please tell me I am not crazy thinking she was totally off base saying this to me. I could see if it were a family member or something.. but this was a friend of mine who's daughter was receiving her communion. I honestly didn't think a $40 gift card was CHEAP! Granted, I would of loved to have been able to give her more, but we were saving for our wedding and other things. Shes lucky I didnt throw in her face that last Christmas I spent over 200 bucks buying her daugther clothes, without a return gift from her. I didnt care about it... because it was a gift.... I still cannot believe she had the nerve to say this to me!
DanaMZ
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Wow...maybe she has some sort of split personality disorder? W t f?
ssdbk
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Question--do you have kids of your own?
i ask b/c i was single and for a long time and i never understood why people expected me to give HUGE gifts for every freakin' occassion, yet never felt the need to give me a thing.
i think that a $40 gift is quite generous and when i have kids, send us your money instead of sending it to your ungrateful friend!!!!
cmc
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That is ridiculous! People can be so stupid sometimes when it comes to money. It drives me crazy when people expect more because they assume you have it to spend. grrrr!
dbonilla
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Posted by ssdbk
Question--do you have kids of your own?
i ask b/c i was single and for a long time and i never understood why people expected me to give HUGE gifts for every freakin' occassion, yet never felt the need to give me a thing.
i think that a $40 gift is quite generous and when i have kids, send us your money instead of sending it to your ungrateful friend!!!!
No kids for us yet! Ill keep you in mind next time!
Goldi1021
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Posted by ssdbk
Question--do you have kids of your own?
i ask b/c i was single and for a long time and i never understood why people expected me to give HUGE gifts for every freakin' occassion, yet never felt the need to give me a thing.
i think that a $40 gift is quite generous and when i have kids, send us your money instead of sending it to your ungrateful friend!!!!
I'm thinking Kerie regsitered for Manolo's to pi$$ people off in her SINGLE days!!!
ssdbk
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Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by ssdbk
Question--do you have kids of your own?
i ask b/c i was single and for a long time and i never understood why people expected me to give HUGE gifts for every freakin' occassion, yet never felt the need to give me a thing.
i think that a $40 gift is quite generous and when i have kids, send us your money instead of sending it to your ungrateful friend!!!!
I'm thinking Kerie regsitered for Manolo's to pi$$ people off in her SINGLE days!!!
Yes, that episode was written for me, I just know it!!!!
Seriously, how many people did I give shower gifts, e-gifts, wedding gifts, housewarming, then babies and on and on, and I didn't even notice it at the time but many of them barely acknowledged my law school graduation!!? But I guess that's okay because now I've been a lawyer for longer than their marriages lasted! I have to say that people gave me loads of stuff for my shower but I still wish I'd registered for Manolos!!!
tray831
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Posted by nygirl77
Are you kidding me!? What person would hack into her AIM and also have that information about the gift card!?
EXACTLY!! Plus.. the 'hacker' typed EXACTLY like my 'friend'.... She NEVER uses her spacebar sothewords are alwayslike this
LMFAO! ROTFL! This just got extremely hysterical........sorry.......but Wow!!!
KimberlyBride
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wow she is unreal!!!
dbonilla
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Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by ssdbk
Question--do you have kids of your own?
i ask b/c i was single and for a long time and i never understood why people expected me to give HUGE gifts for every freakin' occassion, yet never felt the need to give me a thing.
i think that a $40 gift is quite generous and when i have kids, send us your money instead of sending it to your ungrateful friend!!!!
I'm thinking Kerie regsitered for Manolo's to pi$$ people off in her SINGLE days!!!
Yes, that episode was written for me, I just know it!!!!
Seriously, how many people did I give shower gifts, e-gifts, wedding gifts, housewarming, then babies and on and on, and I didn't even notice it at the time but many of them barely acknowledged my law school graduation!!? But I guess that's okay because now I've been a lawyer for longer than their marriages lasted! I have to say that people gave me loads of stuff for my shower but I still wish I'd registered for Manolos!!!
akaMrsT
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%^&*$
I cannot believe her - and the lame excuse too She needs to just own up to it - so you can tell her off properly
People really need to stop trying to count other people's money. Just because she thinks you had more than $40 to give (to a child no less) does not mean you had more or that you were inclined to give more even if you did have the cash. Your finances are NONE OF HER BUSINESS and definitely not something that should be the topic of conversation with her 'hacker' friend.
