FSIL DRAMA screaming match

LCnAC Posted: Aug 15, 2008 01:37 AM

FSIL DRAMA screaming match

okay, for those of you that have read my posts about the drama between my FSIL thats supposed to be making my invitations...I lost it tonight. Long story short, invites were supposed to go out tomorrow morning and she still isnt done. Mind you i gave her all the materials in FEBRUARY!!! All she had to do was tie f'ing bows on them, something i should have just done myself but her mom begged me to give her something to do to keep her busy and involved. Well, only half of them were done tonight..So I went to her house with FH and told her to just give me everyhting and I would finish them myself. She flipped the fudge out!!! Crying, screaming, telling me im stressing her out. Stressing HER out? Well the biotch cop in me came out ladies. I told her, 'you know what, keep the f'ing invitations! and do not talk to me about stress..i gave you all this stuff in February. Now, they still arent f'ing done and i told you a month ago i wanted them in the mail by tomorrow....now I have a shower saturday and 2 people from Italy coming Monday that I have to entertain for a week while still going to work at 5 in the morning.' Then i threw the box at her and sat in the car and waited for FH. While I was in the car she tells FH that I am ungrateful, and didnt even appreciate the shower they had for me. Yeah meanwhile the control freak she is took control over the shower causing my MOH and my mom nothing but grief. She even hung up the phone on my mother! Shes crazy and now i have to be related to her. Well FH ended up having an anxiety attack. He took the invites that she finished and I stuffed them tonight and am mailing my half of the invites tomorrow to my family and friends. He is so upset that this happened but you know what everyone gives in to his sister but im sorry shes got the wrong f'ing person for that. She even talked FH into giving her money to put her kid in day care tomorrow so she can get the rest done by the afternoon. I cant deal with drama queens. Sorry I really had to get this off my chest.

jennarose023 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 06:54 AM

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she sux!

Kimbalina Posted: Aug 15, 2008 07:31 AM

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Yikes!!

DiamondPipa Posted: Aug 15, 2008 08:08 AM

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sorry to hear that.....believe me when i tell you that you are not the only one

Lisafer1973 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 08:09 AM

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Ok first off I have to ask you are you getting ready to marry my FH? Because this sounds just like my FSIL! Here is what I did. I asked her to be part of the wedding party she said no, (well she told me yes then a day later told her mom to the my FH that she can't do it because she had to get her kids dressed). So, then we asked her to do a reading she said ok. Now on Sunday (13 days before my wedding) she tells FH she isn't doing the reading. What? Seriously? Are you for real? She walked out of my shower in the middle of it and didn't say good-bye. Anyway so, now I have choosen that she has sent us a very clear message and after this wedding we will no longer remain 'friends' I will be cordial when needed but other than that nothing. So, for you I reccomend the same. Keep her close but very far away.

soon2bmrsconnolly Posted: Aug 15, 2008 08:10 AM

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IMHO- you should have just taken what she had done in the first place and mailed them out today, and tell her if she isn't going to be dont with the rest by the end of the weekend- then to let you know and you would help her/do them yourself. You still have time.

IMO- that would have saved your FH from having an anxiety attack, and conflict with your FSIL. You have no choice but to deal with her for the rest of your life- you should do your best to keep things civil.

RisiLeigh Posted: Aug 15, 2008 08:44 AM

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Oh wow - your FSIL sounds like mine except I don't hate mine the way you seem to hate yours (although I DO hate the crap she pulled in the planning of my shower b/c she also took over and caused my MOH nothing but grief and stress). I am so sorry you are going thru this! My FH actually tells his sister where to go, though, he does not give in to her, so I guess that's a plus LOL. Well, good luck, and I am here if you need to vent anymore!

snwb08 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 09:14 AM

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Posted by soon2bmrsconnolly

IMHO- you should have just taken what she had done in the first place and mailed them out today, and tell her if she isn't going to be dont with the rest by the end of the weekend- then to let you know and you would help her/do them yourself. You still have time.

IMO- that would have saved your FH from having an anxiety attack, and conflict with your FSIL. You have no choice but to deal with her for the rest of your life- you should do your best to keep things civil.

i know what you're saying but she's had issues with her - her FSIL sounds like a real biotch. Personally if it were my sister I would have been just as mad so if she wants to be treated like family and so 'involved' with the planning, she's got to deal with all the consequences.

Kerin2804 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 09:22 AM

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bluekat16 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 09:25 AM

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UGH I'm soo sorry she's putting you through this.

LCnAC Posted: Aug 15, 2008 09:39 AM

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Posted by soon2bmrsconnolly

IMHO- you should have just taken what she had done in the first place and mailed them out today, and tell her if she isn't going to be dont with the rest by the end of the weekend- then to let you know and you would help her/do them yourself. You still have time.

IMO- that would have saved your FH from having an anxiety attack, and conflict with your FSIL. You have no choice but to deal with her for the rest of your life- you should do your best to keep things civil.

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i tried to take them to do them myself and it was like she was holding them hostage!!!!!

soon2bmrsconnolly Posted: Aug 15, 2008 12:15 PM

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Posted by LCnAC

Posted by soon2bmrsconnolly

IMHO- you should have just taken what she had done in the first place and mailed them out today, and tell her if she isn't going to be dont with the rest by the end of the weekend- then to let you know and you would help her/do them yourself. You still have time.

IMO- that would have saved your FH from having an anxiety attack, and conflict with your FSIL. You have no choice but to deal with her for the rest of your life- you should do your best to keep things civil.

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i tried to take them to do them myself and it was like she was holding them hostage!!!!!

she sounds a little nutso

Espo22 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 12:28 PM

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she's stressed out? did she expect sympathy from you, that is crazy. You gave her everything in february, not like you just handed everything to her recently and had no time.

tammi2308 Posted: Aug 15, 2008 12:34 PM

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That IS CRAZY...I'm glad you did't back down and confronted her about it......

Costabeba Posted: Aug 15, 2008 01:10 PM

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Good for you , I mean Im sorry to have to deal with extra stress from someone who is supposed to be helping, but good for you for standing your ground.!!!!