getting frustrated

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Posted by futuremrsfab

wow sorry that you have to deal with that- i hope you get them soon & that she gives you a refund on the expedite charge

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yeah expediting them didnt work lol

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Wow Denise.... I would be frustrated too.

I am so sorry.

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thank you hopefully ill hear from her today, seems like friday is the one good day to get in contact with her usually. Hopefully she is so busy finishing my invites that she is too busy to check her email

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Posted by hannahshim

i freaking hate vendors like that! i'm dealing with one of those too.. i am trying to be a calm as i can but i feel like i'm gonna burst and min now

sorry your going through this right before your wedding. i hope everything works out..

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oh no, what happened with you?

Denise, reading this i am getting so anxious for you.
I am soo sorry you are going through this, and maybe they are done, but its the not knowing what the heck the status is that is the most annoying part.

You need hugs.... and a bat. Send Joe to the store with a bat. Tell them to stop holding your invites hostage!

I am sorry that you are waiting so long Denise!

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

Denise, reading this i am getting so anxious for you.
I am soo sorry you are going through this, and maybe they are done, but its the not knowing what the heck the status is that is the most annoying part.

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thank you nicole. Oh god i pray they are done or even almost done and will be ready to ship real soon lol. She was good at answering back right away up until more recently so maybe it is because shes busy working on my invites and im sure others too. But yes, an update would be nice. If it was before the time i wanted to send them out then i wouldnt need updates, im not like that. But since its PAST the time i said i wanted them by then that is different and in this case i do think an update is necessary.

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Posted by Kimbalina



You need hugs.... and a bat. Send Joe to the store with a bat. Tell them to stop holding your invites hostage!

I am sorry that you are waiting so long Denise!

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thank you

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Posted by autumnbride10

Who is doing your invites? Is there anyone else above her you can call to get results?

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no she is the owner of her own studio, she has others who work for her.

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Posted by hannahshim

i freaking hate vendors like that! i'm dealing with one of those too.. i am trying to be a calm as i can but i feel like i'm gonna burst and min now

sorry your going through this right before your wedding. i hope everything works out..

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oh no, what happened with you?

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its kinda long

i ordered a corset in mid december and spent 2 weeks waiting.. i emailed them and they said they were sorry and told me that they upgraded my shipping to overnight. next day while i was waiting for it i receive another email from the company telling me that they sent me a black corset because they ran out of the white ones. i was like WHATTTT and in that moment the corset came i was sooo upset they didnt tell me earlier. so i emailed them complaining. they said they were sorry and told me to return it so i returned it the next day. because wth how am i going to wear a black corset under my wedding gown it gets worse i've been contacting them ever since 1/9(3-4 days after i sent it back) and still havent received my refund!!!!!!!!!!!!! they keep telling me their sorry their working on it and keep telling me that it can take up to 30days for my refund to show. then he was like i'll send you an email with the refund confirmation #(that was like a week ago) but i still havent recevied any email or refund.. all they keep telling me is that their sorry and that the refund is 'on the way'

bastards..... im ready to kick their a$$!!!

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Posted by hannahshim

i freaking hate vendors like that! i'm dealing with one of those too.. i am trying to be a calm as i can but i feel like i'm gonna burst and min now

sorry your going through this right before your wedding. i hope everything works out..

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oh no, what happened with you?

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its kinda long

i ordered a corset in mid december and spent 2 weeks waiting.. i emailed them and they said they were sorry and told me that they upgraded my shipping to overnight. next day while i was waiting for it i receive another email from the company telling me that they sent me a black corset because they ran out of the white ones. i was like WHATTTT and in that moment the corset came i was sooo upset they didnt tell me earlier. so i emailed them complaining. they said they were sorry and told me to return it so i returned it the next day. because wth how am i going to wear a black corset under my wedding gown it gets worse i've been contacting them ever since 1/9(3-4 days after i sent it back) and still havent received my refund!!!!!!!!!!!!! they keep telling me their sorry their working on it and keep telling me that it can take up to 30days for my refund to show. then he was like i'll send you an email with the refund confirmation #(that was like a week ago) but i still havent recevied any email or refund.. all they keep telling me is that their sorry and that the refund is 'on the way'

bastards..... im ready to kick their a$$!!!

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OMG that is messed up, i dont know how some people do business. SO sorry, its frustrating when they say one thing but don't do it. Hope you get it soon

i actually just found out i have a problem with swarovski. I bought a gift for somebody and the wrong thing was rung up, so they had to do an exchange to charge me the right price and credit it back into my account. At the store i asked the girl if the money just goes RIGHT back into my account since it was a debit card and she said yes. UHMMMM its been 6 days and the money still hasnt been refunded back into my account and they had originally charged me DOUBLE the price of what i was getting so not like its a small amount

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Posted by emomma17

Rightfully so you are annoyed that would make me crazy as well! After all you have paid her for a service and she should provide, promptly as well!

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exactly, whenever i got an invoice for the sample and invoice for 50% deposit i paid it as soon as i received it through paypal

wow. i'd be freaking out. You are handling it well. People are on my case to get my invites out, and I'm like I have until the end of March for sure (like a week). So you have every reason to be more than frustrated... i think i would keep calling until I got through.

Are you concerned at all that they aren't ready or there might be some issue holding them up? My first thought was backup plan.

totally stinks, i'm so sorry.

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Posted by snwb08

wow. i'd be freaking out. You are handling it well. People are on my case to get my invites out, and I'm like I have until the end of March for sure (like a week). So you have every reason to be more than frustrated... i think i would keep calling until I got through.

Are you concerned at all that they aren't ready or there might be some issue holding them up? My first thought was backup plan.

totally stinks, i'm so sorry.

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i am thinking back up plan hahaha, its insane if i have to go to a back up plan lol.

Oh i am really annoyed, i am thinking about it constantly right now. I keep trying her store but no answer.

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Posted by emomma17

Rightfully so you are annoyed that would make me crazy as well! After all you have paid her for a service and she should provide, promptly as well!

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exactly, whenever i got an invoice for the sample and invoice for 50% deposit i paid it as soon as i received it through paypal

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Right because you want to do the right thing, some people don't understand that and think we are being neurotic or pushy at times with the wedding planning, but if you speak to us and make us feel comfortable that things are being done (because we've given you our money expecting that! ) than we wouldn't go F#($*# crazy. I kind of am going through that with my invite vendor, and she doesn't speak to you on the phone, ONLY email so if she doesn't respond I am a$$ out!

She might be out for the holy holiday!

Sorry Denise

Maybe she has caller ID? Could you use *67 and try calling her??

Maybe then she'll pick up.

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Posted by beachbum05

Sorry Denise

Maybe she has caller ID? Could you use *67 and try calling her??

Maybe then she'll pick up.

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i was thinking the same but didn't want to say it hoping she's not that shady! ugh, it's crazy how we have to rely on vendors even though we pay them all this money, yet they can string us along.

thats crazyy ppl can be so rude and unprofessional....i would definitely be annoyed too! but try not to stress and keep stalking lol, hopefully they will come soon!
but like some1 else said, the less time to respond maybe the quicker ppl will send it back! always try to think of the bright side! hope it all works out real soon

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Posted by emomma17

Rightfully so you are annoyed that would make me crazy as well! After all you have paid her for a service and she should provide, promptly as well!

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exactly, whenever i got an invoice for the sample and invoice for 50% deposit i paid it as soon as i received it through paypal

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Right because you want to do the right thing, some people don't understand that and think we are being neurotic or pushy at times with the wedding planning, but if you speak to us and make us feel comfortable that things are being done (because we've given you our money expecting that! ) than we wouldn't go F#($*# crazy. I kind of am going through that with my invite vendor, and she doesn't speak to you on the phone, ONLY email so if she doesn't respond I am a$$ out!

She might be out for the holy holiday!

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I was thinking maybe bc its good friday, weird bc i also just called swarovski since they owe me money and nobody picks up at the store at Roosevelt field either W** is going on hahaha.

That S*CKS, i mean they want our money and they expect these things quick from us. Also, you are paying them and giving them business and cant even talk to you on the phone , email is fine with me and its easy and dont have a problem with it but if ppl require just an email then at least answer it right away