well i had a whole big post i was going to do and then LIW decided to die on me
anyway to make a long story short...i'm doubting my choice for my dress big time...i already have the dress i got it at david's bridal...but now every time i look at it i just feel blah and eh...i originally wanted a dress by the designer Lazaro but i convinced myself that it wasn't worth the price but now i wonder if maybe is it..i mean its my wedding day...this is (hopefully) going to be my first and only marriage..shouldn't i treat myself to the designer i want? i dunno but i'm feeling 'the guilt'..i paid for the dress myself..argh! girls please help me!!
oh and here are pictures of my dress i have now from david's bridal
ntunison
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def try on the other dresses you like... who know you may not like them on. and if you do... then I think you should try to selll the dress you have now.
i think it's important for you to be excited to put your wedding gown on the day of your wedding... you don't want to feel blegh about it!
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Get whatever makes you happy. I think both dresses are beautiful, but it also depends on what type of wedding you are having. If you are having a fancier wedding-go with the vallerina dress. If you are having a more simple wedding, go with the elegant lace.
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The dress from Davids is very pretty, but I say you shouls go for the other if you really want it.. You dont want to have any regrets later that you should have gome for the dress.... Good luck!!
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Kamille dear- why do u always second guess yourself?? You know the dress is beautiful and it looks absolutely breathtaking on you. I saw the dress in real life when we went shopping together and its gorgeous -so elegant!!!
But as always if youre REALLY not happy with your decision then see what you can do- Personally though I would stick with it- its the dress you tried on and fell in love with first hand- I dont know just my opinion
are you sure you arent a gemini?!
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Kamille- remember when I was doubting my dress a few months ago??? Well I started second guessing myself also and was looking around at other dresses but when I tried my gown on when I came in...I felt like it was the 'one' again. Maybe you should go try on your dress again....you'll feel a lot better. If after you try it on you still feel 'blah' about it...then I would say maybe you should keep looking. Good luck!!! You'll look beautiful in whatever dress you wear on your weddng day!
moonlithaze
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The dress is gorgeous!!!!
Mooshyboo
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Wow that is gorgous...I LOVE it.. Do you have a picture of the one you wanted from Lazaro?
FDWedding07
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Kamille, I love your dress! I think it is beautiful. But it is your day and you need to do what you want and what would make you happy. Maybe you want to try it on one more time. This may help you remember how you felt when you first tried it on. Good Luck Sweetie you do what will make you happy!!!
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Posted by lilpie19
Kamille- remember when I was doubting my dress a few months ago??? Well I started second guessing myself also and was looking around at other dresses but when I tried my gown on when I came in...I felt like it was the 'one' again. Maybe you should go try on your dress again....you'll feel a lot better. If after you try it on you still feel 'blah' about it...then I would say maybe you should keep looking. Good luck!!! You'll look beautiful in whatever dress you wear on your weddng day!
well i just tried it on again and i just don't feel the same..i feel ehhhhh...i cried when i went to look at myself in it because i just really didn't like the way it looks on me...my brother looked at me and i looked at him and i just told him i hated it and burst into tears...i never use that word because i think its really a strong powerful word and for me to use it says a lot..i feel horrible
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I think it's time to go get the other gown that you really loved! You only plan on get married once and you deserve to be happy with you're gown!
Lola0703
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The dress you bought is beautiful, but you have to be happy.
I am going through the same thing now. I bought a dress back in April, and at the time I loved it, now I am canceling it because it's just did not WOW me anymore, and I felt like I settled. Now I may be out $1000, and the new dress is more money than the old one.
