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Grr FH is annoying me

Original post by bride2b57

OK tell me if I am being unrealistic here...My FH and I were just talking about our rings. I am pretty excited for this. Anyway, he says I don't think I am going to really wear it that much! What the hell is that? He says that a lot of the men at his job don't wear rings and that its not that he wants to appear single but rather its the fact that its uncomfortable and irritating. Is anyone having this issue? I am almost embaressed to admit that this is what is going on here lol. GRRR why???

grkbarbie Posted:

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mine wont be wearing his either at work. he cant. he works with electricity. no bueno lol

kat2010 Posted:

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same here. when we talked about wedding bands he said that he just wants a plain one cuz he doesn't wanna wear it on his finger. he said he'd have it on his chain. and that's the only jewelry he wears. he doesn't even like watches so i understand... whatever, just as long as he puts it on for some occasions fine with me.

Maria5117 Posted:

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FH is a firefighter and doesnt want to wear his ring to work because he doesn't want it to get ruined.... plus, he's sweating and dirty and stuff at work so he doesn't want it to feel consticting on his finger. i was annoyed at first, but I guess I have to understand that... He WILL be wearing it every second that he's not at work though!!!

CloudNine Posted:

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FH claims that he is excited to wear his ring. he said he will be fine since he used to wear rings years ago but its been a while since he's worn them so i think it will feel funny at first. we'll see

scatteredx12 Posted:

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FH hasn't said anything to me about not wearing his ring, so I'm assuming that he'll be wearing it. He's a graphic designer so he's on the computer all day, so there's no reason for him to not wear it. I'd probably be bothered if he didn't wear it though because then why did we even buy it and engrave it...lol.

SoonToBMrsC Posted:

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FH Better wear his damn ring!! LoL. We've spoke about this and he wants to wear it, he never said that he had any issues about wearing one. The only thing is the job because he also works in construction but we already said that we will buy him 2 rings, he'll have the really nice one that he wears out and stuff and then just a plain band that he could wear to work and whatever.

drivwal Posted:

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nope my FH is happy to wear his ring as of right now haha it could change but i don't think it will. he picked it out and its tungsten and that's what he has wanted so hopefully he will wear it. i would be annoyed if he told me he didn't want to wear it. if not at work, then he should wear it all other times! jmo

MrsMartiniToBe Posted:

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Posted by bride2b57

OK tell me if I am being unrealistic here...My FH and I were just talking about our rings. I am pretty excited for this. Anyway, he says I don't think I am going to really wear it that much! What the hell is that? He says that a lot of the men at his job don't wear rings and that its not that he wants to appear single but rather its the fact that its uncomfortable and irritating. Is anyone having this issue? I am almost embaressed to admit that this is what is going on here lol. GRRR why???



Tell him to get used to the uncomfortable part because he'll be wearing it for a long time, lol, jk.

I definitely understand the work situation because some jobs just aren't made for jewelry. I'm a nurse and I told FH that when we get married, I'm probably only going to wear the band.

Maybe you could suggest doing the whole tattoo thing?
M_Berk-Glenn Posted:

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This maybe a shock but I have to be reminded to wear my e ring....
I take it off for bed and to cook and sometimes it stays off for weeks....

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