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lizmike8 Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:09 PM+

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Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:09 PM

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is it rude to invite someone to your engagement party and then not to the wedding? there are a few people that were at my engagement party from work and i need to cut my list. what do you guys think?

jennyg Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:20 PM+

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Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:20 PM

Re: guest list

I understand your need to keep your wedding guest list under control (having the same concerns), however, normally those people you invited to your engagement party should DEFINITELY receive an invite to the wedding. Perhaps you should consider sending the invitations 8 weeks before the wedding and put those work people at the top of the 'B' list. Good luck!

Stacey1403 Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:20 PM+

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Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:20 PM

Re: guest list

IMHO, everyone invited to the e-party should be invited to the wedding. Usually their are less people at your e-party.

jennbaby Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:25 PM+

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Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:25 PM

Re: guest list

I'd invite the ones you invited to your E party to your wedding, unless by the time the wedding rolls around, you no longer have the relationship, you once did with these people.

Buttafli1277 Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:38 PM+

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Posted: Dec 08, 2002 05:38 PM

Re: guest list

I would invite the people you invited to your E-Party. I think since they were invited to the E-Party, they kinda expect to be invited to the wedding too. Believe me, I know how hard it is to cut back on the guests.

lulu Posted: Dec 08, 2002 06:21 PM+

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Posted: Dec 08, 2002 06:21 PM

Re: guest list

I agree that you should do your best to invite these people to the wedding. If I went to an Engagement Party, I would definitley expect to be invited to the wedding.

lizmike8 Posted: Dec 09, 2002 10:29 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2002 10:29 PM

Re: guest list

thanks everyone!!!

lilmrs Posted: Dec 09, 2002 10:40 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2002 10:40 PM

Re: guest list

I just want to say that I was JUST working on my guest list and I feel your pain as to wanting to cut!

Sassy Posted: Dec 09, 2002 10:42 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2002 10:42 PM

Re: guest list

I'm also cutting my list, so I definitely understand, however I think you DO need to invite them to the wedding now. It would be very rude not too. JMO

Marcela1654 Posted: Dec 10, 2002 12:45 AM+

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Posted: Dec 10, 2002 12:45 AM

Re: guest list

We're going to invite everyone who was at our e-party to our wedding. Good Luck!

lizmike8 Posted: Dec 11, 2002 08:46 PM+

lizmike8 MEMBER SINCE: 5/02 TOTAL POSTS : 144 WEDDING DATE: Jun 08, 2003 WEDDING LOCATION: Long Island, NY

Posted: Dec 11, 2002 08:46 PM

Re: guest list

there are a couple of people from work that i don;t talk to anymore and were at my eparty. we are in different departments now but i see them occasionally. would it be rude if i didn;t invite them?