Have you ever cheated on your FH/FW

Bebalina Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:35 AM

Have you ever cheated on your FH/FW

treilly13 Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:40 AM

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Never and I never will.

Summer Bride Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:41 AM

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Nope, never!

eogara Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:42 AM

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No! And it's sort of disturbing that there are three 'yes''s.

j_dancer_44 Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:42 AM

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Nope I never have and he hasn't on me. If we cheated on each other there would be no point in marrying each other because there would be no trust.

tracyg Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:49 AM

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never
and if i had he would find out because i am the worst liar and the guilt would show.

and i told him if he ever did, it would be over. No second chances!

nov04LIbride Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:50 AM

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Nope, I always had on previous boyfriends, but never him! Guess that's how I knew he was it!

Sweetness Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:51 AM

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Posted by tracyg

never
and if i had he would find out because i am the worst liar and the guilt would show.

and i told him if he ever did, it would be over. No second chances!

I thought the same thing until the situation presented itself. It wasn't cheating, but it put our relationship to the test, and we both were hurt, It is amazing what strong love, devotion and respect can help you come over.

marymoon Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:53 AM

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OKay, I have to qualify my 'cheating' vote. I kissed other guys a couple times when we were on rocky ground. Just kissed. I was in HS at the time. I was reckless. he kissed another girl once too, before we were 'official.' We both know all about it, we trust each other completely and we'd never do it again. Like you never did something stupid when you were young!

wood2be Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:53 AM

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Never and never would!

OctBride05 Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:55 AM

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never, and i never will.

WinterBride2005 Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:58 AM

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Posted by j_dancer_44

Nope I never have and he hasn't on me. If we cheated on each other there would be no point in marrying each other because there would be no trust.

I agree.

eogara Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:59 AM

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Posted by WinterBride2005

Posted by j_dancer_44

Nope I never have and he hasn't on me. If we cheated on each other there would be no point in marrying each other because there would be no trust.

I agree.

Yup! Ane in the words of the oh-so-wise Jessica Simpson, if he ever did 'I'd shoot [his] d**k off.'

xjulietx Posted: Apr 09, 2004 11:59 AM

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Never. It took us so long to start dating (from the friendship stage) why would I want to mess up something so good?

I do tease FH though, and say that he cheats on me with his job by working late.

He says I cheat on him with my weekly horseback riding lesson because I am riding something other than him

Jan05Bride Posted: Apr 09, 2004 12:00 PM

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I cannot imagine being with another person other than FH

Intimacy is just to 'intimate' to treat that lightly and go cheat with some stranger ...

WinterBride2005 Posted: Apr 09, 2004 12:00 PM

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Posted by eogara

Posted by WinterBride2005

Posted by j_dancer_44

Nope I never have and he hasn't on me. If we cheated on each other there would be no point in marrying each other because there would be no trust.

I agree.

Yup! Ane in the words of the oh-so-wise Jessica Simpson, if he ever did 'I'd shoot [his] d**k off.'

hahahah

Bebalina Posted: Apr 09, 2004 12:00 PM

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Posted by marymoon

OKay, I have to qualify my 'cheating' vote. I kissed other guys a couple times when we were on rocky ground. Just kissed. I was in HS at the time. I was reckless. he kissed another girl once too, before we were 'official.' We both know all about it, we trust each other completely and we'd never do it again. Like you never did something stupid when you were young!

Ok i have to admit I did the same...see Fh and I were casually dating for a period of 5 months....but we broke up since I just couldnt see him committing to me...so we were apart for 8 months....and I booked myself to go to Europe that summer for 2 1/2 months ( was 19 still in college, no real job yet- Im 24 now) ....to mainly 4get him and move on with my life...
however a month b4 I left ...fh and i got close again, but he knew I wasnt cancelling my trip...so he told me to go and he'll be waiting for me upon my return...well that summer I hooked up a few times with the same person...(unfortuanetly with a fellow NY'er that came back to haunt me) also to verify by hooked up i mean kissing only....
I never told FH about it, at least not right away...a year later that person came back to haunt me and rekindle things...I couldnt handle the harrassment anymore, and I finally broke down and told FH everything...needless to say he wasnt happy, but forgave me, and helped me with my problem....if anything it made us stronger...

FeliciaDA Posted: Apr 09, 2004 12:04 PM

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Posted by xjulietx

He says I cheat on him with my weekly horseback riding lesson because I am riding something other than him

ROFLMAO ...

And to answer this question, I've never cheated on FH, and vice versa.. there would be no marriage, no 'us' if that ever transpired

Danielle&Scott Posted: Apr 09, 2004 12:09 PM

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I would never cheat on Danielle. I have never cheated on any of my ex girlfriends either. One of my ex girlfriends did cheat on me in the past though....and I will never forget how crappy I felt. I would never want Danielle to feel that way....