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Height Difference

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

Height Difference

How tall are you? How tall is FH? How high will you wear your heels?

I'm 5' 9'. FH is 5' 11'. I LOVE high heels and wear 4 inch heels everyday. Doesn't bother FH at all and he jokes about being Tom Cruise.

Still, on the big day I want us to be same height or me slightly shorter for all those pictures (and dances). Problem is, I can't find low heels that I like. Also, I usually feel 'squat' lol when I wear flats. And besides, high heels lengthen and I want to look as long and lean as possible.

Anyone stressing about this? Is it worth it to stress about? Also, if you come across pretty 1-2 inch heels, post or FM me please!
Jennifer2184 Posted:

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I'm 5'9 FH is 6'7 so luckily I can wear whatever heals I want. But if I was you I wouldn't stress as long as your fh isn't concerned about the height being the same you should wear what will make you happy. You see taller women with shorter men more often now so being the same height shouldn't be too big of an issue.

halfbaked Posted:

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Well, I definitely don't have this problem. LOL! FH is 6'8 and I'm 5'3. Yeah, he's a giant, I know. There's a picture of us from Christmas and my friend commented 'Hey, you look pretty tall here.' Yeah, I was wearing 4.5' heels.

Anywho, I love heels, too, but what about flats? You'd be SOOOO comfortable all day. I know Aldo makes some beautiful flats! Or maybe a kitten heel? Those are always cute. I think I saw some in the bridal section on endless.com. HTH!
Cacarina Posted:

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I am taller than DH, by like 2 inches. He was not so comfortable with me wearing heels of any kind on our wedding day, so I went with flats. But while doing my search, I came across these and I thought they were so pretty.

http://www.zappos.com/coloriffics-andie-ivory-satin?zlfid=111
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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We're practically the same height. I'm 5'3' and he's 5'4'. He wants me to wear heels for the wedding but I'm probably going to keep it to a pair of 1 1/2' heels that I already own.
Nothing major. I hate wearing heels and would honestly rather be wearing Converse under my gown. Which might happen.


HSsweethearts Posted:

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I'm 5'2, FH is 5/9ish

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Posted by Cacarina

I am taller than DH, by like 2 inches. He was not so comfortable with me wearing heels of any kind on our wedding day, so I went with flats. But while doing my search, I came across these and I thought they were so pretty.

http://www.zappos.com/coloriffics-andie-ivory-satin?zlfid=111



These are cute! I would love them with a higher heel lol. I think I like heels because I have big feet. The can look like paddles without a little help!
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Posted by depoc1011

kate spade!
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omg! I REALLY love these! Thanks! I will have to keep an eye on kate spade!
harts2976 Posted:

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booo i have the opposite problem. I am 5'0 and FH is 6'0 I can wear 7 inch heals and still not be as tall hehe
AngEspo106 Posted:

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I love love love Kate Spade shoes...especially the Evie.
If only they were affordable...
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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These are the shoes I fall in love with in my quest for 2 inch below heels...the are 5 inches!!!
FutureMrsDe Posted:

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Posted by harts2976

booo i have the opposite problem. I am 5'0 and FH is 6'0 I can wear 7 inch heals and still not be as tall hehe



Me too ! i am trying to get comfortable high heals so i am not looking at his nipples while we are dancing
allornil Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

We're practically the same height. I'm 5'3' and he's 5'4'. He wants me to wear heels for the wedding but I'm probably going to keep it to a pair of 1 1/2' heels that I already own.
Nothing major. I hate wearing heels and would honestly rather be wearing Converse under my gown. Which might happen.





OMG do it! I keep saying I'm wearing converse and everyone laughs. laugh away people! lol
MongieToBe Posted:

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I'm a lil over 5'8' & FH is 6'1' or 6'2'.

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i'm 5'4' FH is 6'1', i'm wearing 2 inch heels.. higher than that and i feel uncomfortable

Lsorrent Posted:

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I'm 4'11' and FH is 5'6'. I wear heels all the time, and will definitely be wearing them the day of. My shoes are around 3'.

angelscri Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

These are the shoes I fall in love with in my quest for 2 inch below heels...the are 5 inches!!!




OMG...I LOVE THOSE
leesah85 Posted:

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I'm 5'6' and FH is 5'7' (though he claims to be 5'8' haha)

I'm thinking of wearing just a 1 or 2 inch heel bc I agree w/ you about the feeling 'leaner' in heels. What do you normlly wear around FH? I never wear more than a 3' heel so I'm at most 2' taller than FH and he doesn't seem to mind too much.

And whatever, YOU'RE THE BRIDE! Wear what makes you happy
pipermaru Posted:

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i'm 5'4' and fh is 5'9'' which is lucky for us bc he loves when i wear super spikey heels

eta: i'm wearing 3.5' heels for the wedding

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