Hey girls.......I won't be on LIW for a while

Ok, so here it is..........

This has been the toughest thing I think I've ever dealt with

My FH and I are going through something right now that is questioning my desire to be with him for the rest of my life. There is a lot to this but to make it short......it is a contolling issue on his part.

Due to some of the things that are going on, I have found myself letting go of parts of who I am just to please him and it's destroying me.

So I am taking time for myself right now. I need to be away from this relationship to find myself again and see if this is something that can be fixed.


This is so hard for me.....as I do love him with ALL of my being, but I can't give up who I am as a person. I know this probably isn't making too much sense..........

I will be back as soon as I figure out what it is I'm going to do......good or bad.

Just wanted to let you all know ......... I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and I hope to be back on in the New Year!!

Im so sorry to hear this and I pray for you both... Things will work out the way they are meant to be. If you need anything please feel free to FM me

OMG!!!! I'm so sorry! I'm going to miss you while you're gone and hope that everything turns out ok. If you need to talk, feel free to FM me anytime. From your posts, I can see that you're a great woman and sincerely hope that everything turns out in your favor. Again, I'm incredibly sorry. Lots of hugs and kisses.

Im so sorry your going through this but it is good for you to take time to yoursel and come to a decision I wish you the best and we are here if you want to pop in and talk about anything just want to add that it is important not to change who you are for anyone

Kristy..where did this come from?? Well you dont have to explain, but I hope everything turns out for the best...I will pray for u

sorry to hear that.....hopefully it works out for you, either way.

Good Luck with what ever you deciede and remeber its your choice and things are always hard at the beginning. HappY Holidays and I wish you the best and you can still post,we will miss you.

Aw Sweetie take your time this may even make you closer you never know, you are being very smart. Hold your head up!

So sorry that you're going through. Wishing that everything gets resolved in the best possible manner for you.

I will miss your posts.

I hope everything works out for you both!

Good luck, I hope it all works out for you. Please keep us posted. You'll be in my prayers!

Good luck and I hope everything works out!!

You will be missed! Hope it all works out...sometimes You need a little break to figure things out..Good Luck!!

OH NO! I will miss seeing you here!

I truly hope you can work out your differences! Good luck to you!

I am so sorry I hope everything works out for the better

We are hear for you

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Aw Sweetie take your time this may even make you closer you never know, you are being very smart. Hold your head up!

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sooooo true! all the luck in the world!!!!!!!!!

One way or another, you'll sort out your issues. I'm not going to lie, and say it's easy, but your commitment and effort is whats needed now, as is his. Best of luck to you.

Good luck to you and I hope that you are able to find the answers to all the questions. It is always so hard to do initiate a change, but you know when something doesn't feel right. I applaud you for taking the time and space that you need. Please keep us posted...
I am praying for you and sending some hugs!