Hey girls.......I won't be on LIW for a while

Original post by billandme

Dec 13, 2006 03:08 PM

Ok, so here it is..........

This has been the toughest thing I think I've ever dealt with

My FH and I are going through something right now that is questioning my desire to be with him for the rest of my life. There is a lot to this but to make it short......it is a contolling issue on his part.

Due to some of the things that are going on, I have found myself letting go of parts of who I am just to please him and it's destroying me.

So I am taking time for myself right now. I need to be away from this relationship to find myself again and see if this is something that can be fixed.

This is so hard for me.....as I do love him with ALL of my being, but I can't give up who I am as a person. I know this probably isn't making too much sense..........

I will be back as soon as I figure out what it is I'm going to do......good or bad.

Just wanted to let you all know ......... I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and I hope to be back on in the New Year!!

DNicholes Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:32 PM

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I'm so sorry.....You'll be in my thoughts...I hope it all works out.

lilred13 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:36 PM

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I am sooo sorry. I hope everything works out and you find the answer you are looking no matter the outcome. Have a merry christmas and happy new year

kahlua716 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:37 PM

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Best of luck to you! Keep us updated!!! Have a great holiday! You're doing the right thing!

milana Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:38 PM

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im sorry youre going through this I really do hope everything works out and youll be back

natseven Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:39 PM

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OMG! I'm so sorry to hear about this. Hope everything works out for you guys.

MnM52607 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:40 PM

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I am so sorry. I hope things work out the way you want them.

Trishthedish Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:53 PM

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I am so sorry that you are going through this now. It sounds like it is best that you take time away like planned and think things over. It is always good to take some time and find yourself again. I was in a relationship for many years and totally lost myself and was molded into what he wanted. If you need to talk please don't hesitate to FM me.

Good luck in whatever you decide and I will keep you in my prayers. I hope things work out for you.

melbalalala Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:55 PM

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You are one smart cookie for not getting so wrapped up in wedding planning that you miss a couple of flaws in your relationship.

SMART SMART SMART!!

SAMORY Posted: Dec 13, 2006 03:57 PM

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God bless you and I hope that everything works out for the best. You all will be in my prayers. Keep you head up it will work out.

nycgirl79 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 04:03 PM

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I'm so sorry that you are going through this...I hope everything works out - just remember that your happiness is THE most important thing.
Good luck with everything, and let us know how you're doing!

Future Mrs. Posted: Dec 13, 2006 04:10 PM

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We will be thinking of you....no matter what your decision, we will support you!

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Dec 13, 2006 04:11 PM

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I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a tough time. But maybe this time away will help you and you FH sort it all out. Good luck to you. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!

faithandkevin Posted: Dec 13, 2006 04:14 PM

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Oh I'm so sorry to hear this!! I hope everything turns out okay and that you will make the desicion that is truly best for the life that you want to live!!

HelenZ Posted: Dec 13, 2006 04:17 PM

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you'll be missed!!! I hope everything works out!

KandR419 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 04:19 PM

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I hope you can sort everything out!

bonniejd Posted: Dec 13, 2006 05:02 PM

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Sorry to hear you are going through this!!! I hope everything works out for the best, whatever that may be. It takes such a strong person to evaluate and decide there is something not right in a relationship that means a lot to them, no matter how hard that may be. Good luck in finding what it is you want!

eunicsd006 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 05:11 PM

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ur making the right descion better to do this now and regret it later....hope u can sort this out...ur a strong girl for realizing this now instead of putting it to the side..good luck ...

sunflower13 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 05:13 PM

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I applaude you for taking time to explore these feelings now rather than after the wedding. It must be a very difficult time for you. Stay strong and I truly hope things work out for you.

JMM7876 Posted: Dec 13, 2006 05:14 PM

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aww...good luck!!

khofmann Posted: Dec 13, 2006 05:16 PM

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Best of Luck. Make sure you do what is best for you. Things will be hard in the beginning but you will get through it. I know what you are going through I have been there, if you need anything don't hesitate to FM me. You will be in my thoughts, have a great holiday and I hope to hear from you soon. It will all work out for the best.