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hey ladies i need ur help plz

jayepyt Posted:

hey ladies i need ur help plz

GlamourBride Posted:

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well how close is their date to yours?

jayepyt Posted:

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the same month she might just pick my day

xosweetiexo Posted:

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So, they set the date for August 2010 already?? I wouldnt push your wedding back a year b/c of them. I would first talk to them about it.... but you cant really say anything bc you didnt even book the hall yet. I didnt think August was a discount month.... I thought like Feb- April was? Can you try another month possibly?

xosweetiexo Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt

the same month she might just pick my day




Wait so shes doing it just to piss you off?? If she wants to play- then she can set her date and you can have your wedding 2 weeks before hers lol
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by xosweetiexo

So, they set the date for August 2010 already?? I wouldnt push your wedding back a year b/c of them. I would first talk to them about it.... but you cant really say anything bc you didnt even book the hall yet. I didnt think August was a discount month.... I thought like Feb- April was? Can you try another month possibly?

she didnt book anything yet either but the only other months are the winter months and i wanted an outside ceremony
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by xosweetiexo

So, they set the date for August 2010 already?? I wouldnt push your wedding back a year b/c of them. I would first talk to them about it.... but you cant really say anything bc you didnt even book the hall yet. I didnt think August was a discount month.... I thought like Feb- April was? Can you try another month possibly?



Yeah agreed...since your date is not booked yet it might be hard to say something to them, though I understand your feelings. I also didnt think august was a discount month at all..i believe may-october are peak times...i could be wrong though
Kristina2009 Posted:

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This is rough. If you have not booked it, I would not ask her to postpone. Do you have a lot of overlapping guests?

Also, I think the best prices are actually jan and feb.
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by xosweetiexo


Posted by jayepyt

the same month she might just pick my day




Wait so shes doing it just to piss you off?? If she wants to play- then she can set her date and you can have your wedding 2 weeks before hers lol

idk if she is dont think she is doing this to piss me off but iam pretty sure she knows my month and year
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by xosweetiexo

So, they set the date for August 2010 already?? I wouldnt push your wedding back a year b/c of them. I would first talk to them about it.... but you cant really say anything bc you didnt even book the hall yet. I didnt think August was a discount month.... I thought like Feb- April was? Can you try another month possibly?



Yeah agreed...since your date is not booked yet it might be hard to say something to them, though I understand your feelings. I also didnt think august was a discount month at all..i believe may-october are peak times...i could be wrong though

the place iam looking at is discounted in aug bc they dont get that many clients for that month
JamDancer Posted:

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Well, that's tough since you haven't booked yet... but August isn't a discount month, it's the 2nd top most popular month! May-Oct is peak.

1. June
2. Aug
3. July
4. Oct
5. Sept
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt


Posted by xosweetiexo


Posted by jayepyt

the same month she might just pick my day




Wait so shes doing it just to piss you off?? If she wants to play- then she can set her date and you can have your wedding 2 weeks before hers lol

idk if she is dont think she is doing this to piss me off but iam pretty sure she knows my month and year



its tough because as much as it ***** we don't own the months or years...i have a friend who got engaged after me and is getting married 4 days before us. Nothing I can do about it. I had my date booked but i still couldnt do anything about it...like the other girls said since its not 'your date' yet it might be difficult ot make her understand your feelings

beram63 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt

the same month she might just pick my day




Wait so shes doing it just to piss you off?? If she wants to play- then she can set her date and you can have your wedding 2 weeks before hers lol



that was my first reaction.
LiBride23 Posted:

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This is your wedding.. You waited and planned this for a long time. you could sit and talk to her to let her know houw u feel. also speack to ur cousin. I would not push back my wedding date... That is your day ur dream. She should understand where u are coming from. and if she picks the same month it is still about u.... just ask her to do it opposite from u... if u are doing it in the begining the ask her to do it at the end

xosweetiexo Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt


Posted by xosweetiexo


Posted by jayepyt

the same month she might just pick my day




Wait so shes doing it just to piss you off?? If she wants to play- then she can set her date and you can have your wedding 2 weeks before hers lol

idk if she is dont think she is doing this to piss me off but iam pretty sure she knows my month and year




Ahhhh I gottcha.... well I just wouldnt have her wedding revolve around yours- if you want your outdoor wedding and the specific date, then I would suggest you go ahead and book it because I know as much as it stinks, you cant really say anything bc nothing is booked yet. But, I wouldnt just book it bc of her. I would do it if you and your FH are both ready
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by JamDancer

Well, that's tough since you haven't booked yet... but August isn't a discount month, it's the 2nd top most popular month! May-Oct is peak.

1. June
2. Aug
3. July
4. Oct
5. Sept

its a discount month bc they dont get that much clients in that month
FutureMrsG Posted:

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Personally I think it is inappropriate to ask them to change their date if you have not booked anything yet. As for August being a month that is discounted it is not as far a I know...the lowest quotes I received were for March.

jayepyt Posted:

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for aug.its 123pp
for all the other months its like 160 and up
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt

for aug.its 123pp
for all the other months its like 160 and up



wow thats crazy..what hall is it?
JamDancer Posted:

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that's very strange..

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