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hey ladies i need ur help plz

Original post by jayepyt

xosweetiexo Posted:

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by jayepyt

for aug.its 123pp
for all the other months its like 160 and up



wow thats crazy..what hall is it?




Yea wow Im really suprised too bc the summer weddings were more expensive at my hall. Where are you planning to get married?
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by xosweetiexo


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by jayepyt

for aug.its 123pp
for all the other months its like 160 and up



wow thats crazy..what hall is it?




Yea wow Im really suprised too bc the summer weddings were more expensive at my hall. Where are you planning to get married?

i know i thought i was dreaming when i had them say that but thats not the first place i heard that aug is lower than sept oct etc but the lowest months there of course are jan-march
meli722 Posted:

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i think ive read that you havent booked your date, so if you havent booked anything, you really cant expect someone to move their date for someone that has nothing set in stone.

jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by meli722

i think ive read that you havent booked your date, so if you havent booked anything, you really cant expect someone to move their date for someone that has nothing set in stone.

hers isnt booked either i just know she wants that month and year but i agree with u girls too
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt


Posted by meli722

i think ive read that you havent booked your date, so if you havent booked anything, you really cant expect someone to move their date for someone that has nothing set in stone.

hers isnt booked either i just know she wants that month and year but i agree with u girls too



honestly, id get crackin because if the y give such a great deal in august i am sure you arent the only bride looking to get married there...ya know what i mean?
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by meli722

i think ive read that you havent booked your date, so if you havent booked anything, you really cant expect someone to move their date for someone that has nothing set in stone.

hers isnt booked either i just know she wants that month and year but i agree with u girls too



honestly, id get crackin because if the y give such a great deal in august i am sure you arent the only bride looking to get married there...ya know what i mean?

i know ive been really afraid to book since my cousin got engaged late last year
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by meli722

i think ive read that you havent booked your date, so if you havent booked anything, you really cant expect someone to move their date for someone that has nothing set in stone.

hers isnt booked either i just know she wants that month and year but i agree with u girls too



honestly, id get crackin because if the y give such a great deal in august i am sure you arent the only bride looking to get married there...ya know what i mean?

i know ive been really afraid to book since my cousin got engaged late last year



im not sure i understnad..if your cousin got engaged and you want your date and are afraid he/she will take it, why arent you booking?
jayepyt Posted:

Re: hey ladies i need ur help plz


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by jayepyt


Posted by meli722

i think ive read that you havent booked your date, so if you havent booked anything, you really cant expect someone to move their date for someone that has nothing set in stone.

hers isnt booked either i just know she wants that month and year but i agree with u girls too



honestly, id get crackin because if the y give such a great deal in august i am sure you arent the only bride looking to get married there...ya know what i mean?

i know ive been really afraid to book since my cousin got engaged late last year



im not sure i understnad..if your cousin got engaged and you want your date and are afraid he/she will take it, why arent you booking?

i was gonna book but since i found out wat month she is looking at i didnt want our weddings to crash
Mich2585 Posted:

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when i got engaged and set our date my father called almost everyone we knew haha ... BUT then my 2nd cousin got engaged after me and sent out his save the dates before me ... so it felt like a game almost ... haha (and our weddings are three weeks apart which means that family from out of state are not going to be able to come to both weddings) annnyyywayyyy .... it is what it is ... i mean i am not going to let that bother me! i know that the people who need to be there will be there ... i would just keep the date/month...

jayepyt Posted:

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i come from a family that does have much so for them to come to my wedding and go to hers it gonna be hard

novia26 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt

i come from a family that does have much so for them to come to my wedding and go to hers it gonna be hard




so then book asap....august has more than one weeked in it...try to book the beginning or the end so there is time in between the two weddings. you cant ask her to not book...but you can book yourelf first and then let her know so she can make her own decision as to her date....you being afraid to book because of her may cause you to not be able to afford your hall.
geegee827 Posted:

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I don't think you can say anything to her until you book your hall. You can't ask someone else to put their plans on hold unless you have a firm plan.

jayepyt Posted:

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so if i book this week and i tell her and she books the same month anyways then wat

coldasice217 Posted:

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Then unfortunately nothing you can do but hope for the best...and try to negotiate a low minimum with the RH just in case you do have a lot of nos as a result of not being able to attend 2 weddings.

jayepyt Posted:

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i was afraid of that
beram63 Posted:

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Posted by jayepyt

so if i book this week and i tell her and she books the same month anyways then wat



book something so you have a leg to stand on when/if you make this request that she avoid 8/10. if she still goes ahead those plans, then you would still be within your contract at a lot of RHs to cancel/reschedule and get your depsoit back.
jayepyt Posted:

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Posted by beram63


Posted by jayepyt

so if i book this week and i tell her and she books the same month anyways then wat



book something so you have a leg to stand on when/if you make this request that she avoid 8/10. if she still goes ahead those plans, then you would still be within your contract at a lot of RHs to cancel/reschedule and get your depsoit back.

ok thanks
BarbieGrl10 Posted:

Re: hey ladies i need ur help plz

I dont know what places you're looking at but August is NOT one of the cheapest months.

Set a date b.c you cant say sh!t to her unless you do.

Are you looking for a date in 2010 or 2009??????

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