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hOW ARE YOU PAYING FOR YOUR WEDDING?

Original post by the future mrs m

How are you paying for your special day?

Are you taking out a loan, using credit cards, saving and paying as you go, are your family members helping you?

Just curious.
JACK808 Posted:

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Posted by empressdani

saving and paying as we go too. No help, no loans, no credit.....its tough but helps us to appreciate the value of our hard work. Before we were never able to save but now it's like 'Where did all this money come from?'



It really is amazing how much you are able to save when you really want something! We've never had this much $$. Of course, we won't have it for very long!!
nferrandi Posted:

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My parents paid for the reception, e-party, invitations, and my dress and everythiing that went along with that. DHs parents gave us $10,000 that we used for photo/video, the band and the rehearsal dinner. We paid for flowers, favors, limos and gifts. Oh yeah, and my parents gave us airmiles for our HM and we used their timeshare, so we just had to cover our spending money.

jeanne08 Posted:

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paying as we go

ksl268 Posted:

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We are paying for most of it on our own. We saved prior to getting engaged, so that helped a lot. My Dad has also given us $$$ to use towards whatever we may want.

joan_db Posted:

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Loan would be a VERY bad idea...you don't want to start with your marriage in debt. We're fortunate to have a very supportive parent and enough savings...thats how we paying for our wedding.

willbMrsTE Posted:

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We also both have good salaries and we (thank god ) each have homes. But still ,we have kids. We have $ saved. We will pay as we go-to offset the big expenses. We will use taxes and budget. Hell,we will eat pbj for a year if we need.

The credit card is the last resort. Oh yeah, his parents are paying for the rehearsal dinner & the flowers girls (2 daughters) dresses.

Just find out what works for you and stick to it. Also, don't get caught up in the hype. If an aspect is not that important to you then go cheaper on that part. Good luck girl!!
FutureMrsGK Posted:

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We're been saving as we go, We put away 2000 a month since November! I cant wait till this day finally comes!

angl2001 Posted:

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paying everything so far with checks. when the money is in the account we send a check. NO CREDIT CARDS!!! lol

gettinghizitched Posted:

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Me and my FH are paying for the whole wedding straight cash. Paying as we go. And might i add we are already spending around 40K. We didn't even sit down with all the people yet. (flowers, dj, etc.) My mom is buying my dress for me so that's one thing that i don't have to buy.

angl2001 Posted:

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Posted by ArmyOfBabies

My Dad is paying the whole thing. We only got engaged in January and I just had a baby so I wasn't working so there is no way we can pay for it ourselves. We're paying for the small things... wedding bands, gifts, rehearsal dinner, etc... but my awesome dad is handling the rest.



lucky biotch!!! can your dad adopt me?
Tori9299 Posted:

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We are saving every month and my parents are hopefully going to be able to give us some $ to put into a CD, and we will use that closer to the big day since it is going to be a big amount. We will have the photo,dj.limos, favors, and flowers paid off by next summer. Parents are buying my dress.

jny4eva Posted:

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We are paying as we go. My mom is giving me $10,000 to use for whatever and she is also buying my dress.

drpepper318 Posted:

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We saved up and paid cash for everything. The hall cost the most of course but luckily that was paid off little by little over the months. Same with the other vendors, they required deposits but most we didn't have to pay off completely until the last few months. That helped a lot. If we had to pay for everything all at once that would have been much harder.

jaiese Posted:

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Posted by nifheim

Did a budget on excell as a spreadsheet. Broke down all the vendors price minus the deposits found a balanace then divded it by the months left to the wedding and that was our goal to save every month.

The only assistance is my mother and father are paying for my wedding dress (the cap was 1k and i met that cap) and the bridla shower. Other then that it is FH and I paying all the way.



I did the same thing! SO relieved that I'm not the only excel-obsessed bride on the site!
tlp123 Posted:

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We are paying for the wedding ourselves. Thankfully, my FH has been saving money for years. I also have some savings.

Although, I am hoping that some family members are going to give some generous gifts. So far, some have been very kind.
dazies1011 Posted:

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We are saving and paying as we go, tax money...anything we can get our hands on. I'm even working through my vacations to save, thinking of getting a part time job as well. We may start a wedding credit card but, I also want to put money into a cd, that'll help will help us with all the final payments.

lonal Posted:

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I am very lucky in that my parents are paying for most of our wedding. For everything else we are paying as we go. We are both trying to get lots of overtime!

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