How involved is FH in planning?
Be honest!
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How involved is FH in planning?
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only certain things..overall he's not that much involved..he doesn't care about every intricate detail
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There isn't ONE thing that FH hasn't been involved with ....well, except buying the dress but he isn't supposed to be involved with that! He has been so great and comes to all appointments, makes decisions and gives his input on every aspect of the wedding. I think that's why I've been having so much fun planning!
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My FH isn't really into the whole registry shopping, picking out the invites, getting involved in the small details. I wish he would show a little more interest but knowing his heart is in the 'marriage' part of it, is all I can ask for. The one day event will come and go but the bond is lasting and that's how he looks at it.
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Posted by MrsDtoBe
There isn't ONE thing that FH hasn't been involved with ....well, except buying the dress but he isn't supposed to be involved with that! He has been so great and comes to all appointments, makes decisions and gives his input on every aspect of the wedding. I think that's why I've been having so much fun planning!
same for me....i am really happy to say he is completely involved in all aspects...he gives opinions and seems genuinely interested....it makes it fun
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If I ask for something it gets done. Or if I ask his opinion, he gives it. I am doing everything, but I tell him everything that is going on and he appreciates that. No complaints here, I am a take charge kinda gal anyway. But I am happy that when I do need him, he is helpful!
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It really does! We also made decisions together when renovating our bathrooms and kitchen....it really was such a fun experience! We spent TWO whole days last weekend between two furniture stores, choosing our living and bedroom sets. He HATES coming with me clothes shopping, but LOVES doing things for the wedding and the house lol Strange, right?
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Posted by MrsDtoBe
There isn't ONE thing that FH hasn't been involved with ....well, except buying the dress but he isn't supposed to be involved with that! He has been so great and comes to all appointments, makes decisions and gives his input on every aspect of the wedding. I think that's why I've been having so much fun planning!
same for me....i am really happy to say he is completely involved in all aspects...he gives opinions and seems genuinely interested....it makes it fun![]()
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He is involved in some things like when it came time to pick the DJ and limo. He was involved when it came to the flowers and invitations because he was going to pay for it. Other than that whenever I ask for his opinion he just tells me 'whatever you want. Im fine with it' ![]()
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He hasnt had much of an interest at all. In fact, surprisingly, the only things that he really had an opinion on was the registry and the hotel for OOT guests. Other than that he could care less. It bothered me at first ,but in a way its good because I could do whatever I want and not have to ask his opinion!
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FH is actually surprisingly better then I thought he would be. I put with certain things because a lot the things I have done...more minor details I really did without him and showed him lagter like cardboxes and stuff...all of the major things he has been with me every step of the way . Like today for instance he typed up addresses in word to send to the calligrapher...that was a MAJOR help to me
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My FH just gives me the money
He doesnt really care, he didnt even look at the invites, i guess in the begining he was more involved, he picked the STD's but he is so busy with the house and business, he has no free time
He doesnt really care, he didnt even look at the invites, i guess in the begining he was more involved, he picked the STD's but he is so busy with the house and business, he has no free time
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he wasnt really that involved until i told him we were overbudget.. now he's REALLY involved ![]()
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Posted by markdea7699
he wasnt really that involved until i told him we were overbudget.. now he's REALLY involved![]()
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Posted by markdea7699
he wasnt really that involved until i told him we were overbudget.. now he's REALLY involved![]()
Fh is not really involved...he wants to be... oh so he said so... so when we went BM dress shopping he went too.. and BOY OH BOY did he NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED ANYMORE!!!
the girls modoled for him and we showed him teh colors.. and he was SOOO BORED!
welp he got what he asked for....
im tellign him now to start to think about favors and invites and he wont.. but i will still take him with me.
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Not at all unless I ask him to verify w/me but he usually just agrees regardless and that's no help ![]()
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For those of you whose FH's aren't really involved here is what you need to do:
Get yourself a gay bestfriend. I do and he gets dragged everywhere with me. And he loves it.
Get yourself a gay bestfriend. I do and he gets dragged everywhere with me. And he loves it.
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SO helpful...Thank god because I couldn't do it all myself.
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Fh cares about certain things he is doing more of the house work and im working more on the wedding. We both makee decisions but he says the wedding is a girls dream ![]()
sometimes i feel its an easy way out
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Absolutely positively with me every step of the way. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!
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FH said that he only cared about the food and that there was plenty of alcohol lol, but actually he has been very good. Whatever I have asked of him to help with he does. Only thing, besides my dress of course that he wanted nothing to do with were the BM dresses and the flowers.
