How long before trying for a little one...

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We are going to start right away. Or try at least

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We plan on trying the night of my sisters wedding, October 11, 2009.

I dont want to be pregnant and take the limelight away from my sis and I want to enjoy the showers and bp and everything that I can for her wedding.

But that night IT IS ON

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we were going to wait until we had bought a house before trying, but after having a really great discussion this weekend, we decided that we are going to start trying NOW

we both have serious baby fever, and DH really wants at least one baby before he's 40 (he'll be 39 in a few months). hopefully we'll be able to find a house before we actually have the baby, but if not, we have enough space for us, kitty, and the baby. it just seemed silly to us to put things on hold only because we didn't have a larger space.

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im starting a new job and we're living at my parents house so i would really like to be at my job a year and atleast have a place of our own... so i think were going to start TTC about a year from now!

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how about never

not sure seems to be a question i want to enjoy married life

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this is a very big topic with us right now! i have baby fever VERY badly but we just got married in may and we are hardly financially ready for a little one! that said, i am almost 32 and DH is almost 40 so we will probably start trying next year. really the thing mostly holding us back is $$$$

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We agreed to start trying next January. We have been together 9 years and have been living together for 7.5 years. Plus, I am 33 and he is 36- we need to get CRACKING!!

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Ugh...such a topic. We are SO undecided. I would love to have a baby with my FH. I am 31, but he is 45. I already have a 6 year old, and he has a 22 and a 19 year old. I feel bad making him start all over again. He says whatever I want to do though.

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2-3 years...

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Posted by davenjess

we've been together 6 years already, living together for 5.5 - so we're already trying & have been for 5 months.

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Lots of baby dust for you and Dave!!!!

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we have to wait. We need to have better income and security before we bring a little one into the world. But if we won the lotto I'd try sooner rather than later!

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hopefully 2-3 years, we need to save, save, save first. i think i am ready emotionally but not financially ... yet

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our plan was originally 3 years from our engagement for a house and then another 2 years after that to start trying in 2012

now i want to go back to school full-time, so that tacks on an additional 2 years

we'll see...

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right a way.we talk about it all the time.

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Posted by emomma17

Ummmmm honeymoon
We really don't want to wait at all...god willing we will be able to start right away.

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This is how we are

We tried on the honeymoon but no dice haha...I hope you have better luck

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We planned to wait a year.....but somehow that became a WEEK! oops!

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I'm hoping to be expecting before the end of the year. I want at least 2 or 3 (I say that now) and don't want to be pushing 40 trying to acheive that.