HUGE dilemna- *little update*

I had the same feeling and then watched all those shows and was thinking 'ohh I like those better' . You just have to be confident and STOP LOOKING AT DRESSES! I think everyone goes through the same thing. i am sure your dress is beautiful!!!!!!

my advice would be, go back and try on the dress again. Pick the one that you love..remember its your day and you need to love your dress.
Hope I helped..

i loved both that is the problem!

still love both!

It could be that both were just so amazing... I say bite the bullet, get the one your mom loved to, she put the deposit down too.... I would also say try it on again if you really need to be sure.. with veil and shoes...

don't try on the other one..

If you never saw the second dress, would you choose the dress you put down a deposit on? If they're very similar, and you can't decide between the two, then it might be best to just stick to one. There's so many dresses out there that of course it's natural to find something else. As someone else said, put it on w/ a veil, shoes, etc., and see how you feel in it. Of course you should be very happy in it so if that means re trying it on, definately do it so you dont have to think about it again.

Did you see La La's Full Court Wedding?

She couldn't stop looking at dresses, and she ended up with 3.

You only need 1 gown!!!

There was a reason that you decided on the one that you put the deposit on. PU THE OTHER DRESS DOWN! STEP AWAY FROM THE DRESS!

Did you really like the other one more? Or did you like them both the same? If they were the same, then you can only wear one and that one will look lovely on you. I was in between 2 dresses, and went with the one that made mom and MOH cry!

pics removed, sorry girls

Both are gorg!!

Which do you think FH will like more???

I went through the same thing. For 4 months, I was torn between two dresses. Both dresses were very similiar in style and there was a $20.00 difference.. The reason I went with the dress I did, was because i didn't feel the need to modify it, while the one i didn't choose, i wanted to modify the strap. Also, I took into account how I thought FH would rate the dresses.

Once I put my deposit down, I had the same feeling as you for like two weeks about wanting to call and cancel my order. But then I told myself, I made that decision and that is what I will stick with. And everytime i see my dress, I am glad i didn't change it.

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Posted by LoveyDovey

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Posted by BlushandBashful

Both are gorg!!

Which do you think FH will like more???

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ohhhhh boy you ready for this one??

I chose THE dress because i thought thats the one fh would like more

fh hates crazy stylish things, so i figured he'd hate the realllly ruffly one

well fh said today send me pic of the dress you didnt choose

i have sent him pics of dresses here and there that were clearly NOs

and you know what he says???

That is by far the best dress i have seen you in




i obviously didnt tell him that im doubting my first choice

but he said. dont worry love im sure the one you choose is even more beautiful

BUT really??!!! i said no to it mostly bc i thought it was too trendy for FH!

and partly bc mom loved the first one

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I think you made the right decision. You dont want FH to have already saw the dress you picked. They are so similar and both gorg!!

The first one is gorgeousss!!! Second one is beautiful as well but the first one fits you perfectly. However, I do see more smiles in the photos w/ the second one

i agree!!! just stop looking at any more dresses and if you loved the one you got AND your mom loved it its probably the right dress for you!! you're going to look stunning!!

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Posted by 0216bahama

I had the same feeling and then watched all those shows and was thinking 'ohh I like those better' . You just have to be confident and STOP LOOKING AT DRESSES! I think everyone goes through the same thing. i am sure your dress is beautiful!!!!!!

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