HUGE dilemna- little update

Original post by LoveyDovey

Oct 25, 2010 08:35 PM

madamsireeda213 Posted: Oct 25, 2010 11:13 PM

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I say, go with ur heart and ur gut! The first dress won out for a reason, maybe u truly truly love the first one and u keep thinking of the second one because u are nervous about buying ur dress and the idea that that part is done! I mean, I have tried on at least 20 dresses and haven't picked one yet, mainly because i 'm scared to say yes and then that's it, no more dress shopping :(. I missed the dress pictures but I know they are prolly beautiful and u made the right choice

DCgirl82 Posted: Oct 26, 2010 12:18 AM

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I did this too!! I actually went back and tried on a bunch more dresses and yet none gave me that feeling like mine did. I know its hard cause you say they are both similar but you must have chose the one you put the deposit down for a reason right? Once you get your dress they say to stop looking otherwise you will make yourself crazy always wondering if another one would have been better.

Can u post a pic of either dress? maybe we can give u our opinions on which one we like better to help you??

kfizz Posted: Oct 26, 2010 11:21 PM

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SOOOO WHAT WAS THE END DECISION??? DID YOU MAKE ONE?? DID YOU GO BACK AND TRY THE OTHER ONE ON AGAIN!?!

I was searching for your post to find out if there was any new news!!

DCgirl82 Posted: Oct 27, 2010 12:07 AM

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I missed the pics let me know if you have them up again and I will give you my honest opinion

Taunita Posted: Oct 27, 2010 12:09 AM

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn
I think you made the right decision. You dont want FH to have already saw the dress you picked. They are so similar and both gorg!!

ITA! Everything happens for a reason and I'm sure at the time of you picking the dress - other than your moms input there must have been that special something that made you make the final decision... and its easy to stray from that feeling because your not physically present with the dress. I had a choice between two dresses, one was more expensive and I had been inlove with it for months, and i ended up choosing the other dress which came into the picture about a month before the final decision; I sometimes go to the website and doubt my decsion but ultimatley I place myself where I was standing in front of the mirror and recognizing what made me go with the dress on that day and the feeling was unquestionable... so I try my best to remember that. Plus no matter what - on your wedding day you will be the most gorgoeus female in the room no matter what and FH will see nothing but your beauty and will be without a doubt amazed - the dress is only the best accessory

JLWSJC Posted: Oct 27, 2010 01:07 AM

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Posted by LoveyDovey

i loved both that is the problem!

still love both!

If you really love both, you're going to think about the one you didn't pick no matter which one you DO pick. So since you love both, and mom loves one more, let her be the thing that tips the scale. Why not? You're hot so you're going to look gorgrous either way and if the dresses were so similar, then it's not such a big deal. Not like you're flip flopping between two different silhouettes. I'd leave it alone and decide to be done making this decision and move on :)