HUGE dilemna- *little update*

i love the dress you picked its beautiful

was the bridal suite in centereach you were at?

thanks!

the pic of the dress i chose was from bridal suite of centereach

but i bought it at village bridal

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Posted by LoveyDovey

thanks!

the pic of the dress i chose was from bridal suite of centereach

but i bought it at village bridal

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oh ok...i got my dress from the bridal suite

Ok this probably not gonna help cause I like both of them One is more SEXY and the other one is more FUN both of them are awesome !!!! & I'm on the same boat as you I'm torn between two dresses and have been going crazy for three weeks and I need to make up my mind by NOV 1st or they wont be ready for my wedding


Lots of luck their both gorgeous

thanks...it helps to know im not alone

dont do what i did lol

go try them on ALONE, with no one there!

i had to step away from my mom and aunt to look in the mirror alone without pressure

maybe that will help you!

I loove the one you bought and id tell you truthfully if i loved the other one.

I did the same thing and wound up picking the other dress. I couldn't stop thinking about it so I went back with just my mom and sister and tried on the one I had bought and the one I kept thinking about...I switched, and I am so happy I did.
If in your gut you think you made the wrong decision then go back on a new day and try them on again. You have to be happy with your decision.
HTH!

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Posted by kfizz

I did the same thing and wound up picking the other dress. I couldn't stop thinking about it so I went back with just my mom and sister and tried on the one I had bought and the one I kept thinking about...I switched, and I am so happy I did.
If in your gut you think you made the wrong decision then go back on a new day and try them on again. You have to be happy with your decision.
HTH!

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thanks!

i have a deposit on mine already...so what do i do about that??

i wont be able to go back and try it on until next week

part of me says, just stick to my decision, i made it for a reason

other part of me says, you're having doubts so rethink it

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Posted by FutureMrsGee

I love those of them they are very similar.. are they both the same maker?

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no first is a maggie

second is san patrick

Ok.....after seeing that you sent the pic to your FH, I called my FH over and (without ANY back story on why) he chose #1, hands down. HTH!!

P.S. I am LOVING the first one also!!

I think the one you chose looks great on you. Since you said you walked away and looked at it by yourself you picked it for a reason.

Also, I have to agree with the others do you really want FH to have seen you in the dress before your wedding day

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Posted by Soon2BMrsErichsen

Ok.....after seeing that you sent the pic to your FH, I called my FH over and (without ANY back story on why) he chose #1, hands down. HTH!!

P.S. I am LOVING the first one also!!

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awww thanks! lol that is so cute

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think the one you chose looks great on you. Since you said you walked away and looked at it by yourself you picked it for a reason.

Also, I have to agree with the others do you really want FH to have seen you in the dress before your wedding day

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i see what you guys are saying

but FH will NEVER know i changed my choice...and he will never remember that dress lol

So question...did you tell your FH that you had a hard time picking between 2 dresses, but did? And then did you show him the runner up?

The reason why I'm asking, if my FH was put in that position, he would have told me the runner up was his favorite so far as well....BECAUSE that was your 2nd choice next to THE ONE. Maybe he thought saying that was the best one so far would make you feel confident that one that beat that one was even more spectacular. You know what I mean? LOL Hard to type out.

i think you look GORGEOUSSSS in both!!!!!

To rest your mind, I think you should prob go back and try on both to see how you feel...you don't want to be regretting your choice and worrying about it til your dress comes in. You still have time to order, so even if you can't go back in 2mo, it should be fine.

as far as ur FH loving the 2nd dress, I think he'll LOVE the first one too bc they really are very similar....on the wedding day (if you go with gown #1) he'll prob think that's the gown you showed him

good luck!!!! I'm sure this is an insanely hard decision, I put off dress shopping for a while bc it was getting too overwhelming. Its a very difficult decision so I completely understand you stressing your decision. I'd just go back, try them on once again to ease your mind good luck!

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Posted by LoveyDovey

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Posted by kfizz

I did the same thing and wound up picking the other dress. I couldn't stop thinking about it so I went back with just my mom and sister and tried on the one I had bought and the one I kept thinking about...I switched, and I am so happy I did.
If in your gut you think you made the wrong decision then go back on a new day and try them on again. You have to be happy with your decision.
HTH!

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thanks!

i have a deposit on mine already...so what do i do about that??

i wont be able to go back and try it on until next week

part of me says, just stick to my decision, i made it for a reason

other part of me says, you're having doubts so rethink it

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I called and changed my mind about a month after I purchased the first one. As long as the dress does not go into production it should not be a problem to cancel that order and order the other one. Most dresses do not go into production right away after you order it. So you may have time. But I would call them tomorrow, just to ease your mind