I am doing what I always say a bride-to-be shouldn't
Kristina2009
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I am having second thoughts about my dress choice and driving myself nuts. I meant to go simple and went elaborate/satin/beaded! I have no pictures of me in it so I can't even remember how it fits on me. I should be in very late this year. I just want to get these thoughts out of my head asap and rock that dress!!!
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stop doubting...your dress is amazing and i can guess that you look fab in it...
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i was feeling the same way about my dress... but dont worry i'm sure that you made the right decision... just try to remember how u felt in it and how u knew it was the one... second thoughts and doubting is gonna happen a lot especially the closer you get... just learn to ignore it!
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Don't doubt! You look amazing I'm sure! I think it is only natural to doubt yourself because I feel the same way. Maybe you should go back and try it on again and then see how you feel, take some pictures and look at them when you get home.
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I know what you mean. I have been doubting my decision as well, but I have come to realize that at some point or other I have had doubts about everything regarding the wedding. I think it's just in our nature.
All the stress and planning can get hectic at times and this is the biggest day of our lives and want everything to be perfect - so we keep questioning ourselves and instincts.
But just remember, if you bought that dress, there must have been something about it that you LOVED and that's what makes it Special. I am sure its just the pressure and come the day of the wedding you will look Gorgeous in your choice.
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You are going to make a gorgeous bride and I'm sure the dress is perfect. The dress is actually the only thing I haven't second guessed. I went in opposite directions with my dress too but I am sure yours is Beautiful!!
Kristina2009
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Thanks girls. I know it is ordered and done so I just need to forget about it. Hopefully when I can try it on and take pictures I will love it again. I planned on altering it quite a bit also. I guess I strayed from plain and simple and I am just nervous now. Maybe I need to just focus on hair or veil or something to distract myself.
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It is GORGEOUS! We have that gown at the store I work in and everytime i pass it I stop and look at how gorgeous it is! Don't doubt it...you will look amazing!!
Kristina2009
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Bridal Reflections sold their sample so I have to just wait and be patient until it comes in. I am glad to hear I am not the only one who has second thoughts. It is just crazy b.c I am usually so decisive and in love with everything I buy (I am uber picky)- with wedding planning I am a mess - lol!
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omg you are so not alone! i've been doubting everything wedding related. it's driving me crazy!
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Posted by Kristina2009
Bridal Reflections sold their sample so I have to just wait and be patient until it comes in. I am glad to hear I am not the only one who has second thoughts. It is just crazy b.c I am usually so decisive and in love with everything I buy (I am uber picky)- with wedding planning I am a mess - lol!
You could always find another store that has it and go try it on again if you think it will help.
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I am sure once you put it on, you will remember exactly why you bought it in the first place!!! I just bought my gown, so I am still in the 'honeymoon' stage with it, but I am TERRIFIED that I will have second thoughts about my dress. Just try not to look at any other gowns in the meantime!! It will drive you crazy.
Kristina2009
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Posted by Cacarina
I am sure once you put it on, you will remember exactly why you bought it in the first place!!! I just bought my gown, so I am still in the 'honeymoon' stage with it, but I am TERRIFIED that I will have second thoughts about my dress. Just try not to look at any other gowns in the meantime!! It will drive you crazy.
I saw the dress you posted - it is stunning on you. You rock it better than the model!
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I think we all get the DRESS DOUBT at one point or another. especially since the 09 brides are so good at getting things done in advance If u loved it when you first tried it on, i'm more than sure u will love it again when u put it on.
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Don't doubt...you made your first choice for a reason!! Just worry about looking amazing in it.!!
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dont doubt it... u made the decision for a reason... u are going to look beautifullllllllllllllll
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I just looked at your album- is it the Lazaro dress? If so- you are going to look STUNNING! I am sure there is something about that dress that made you love it. Sometimes if it has been too long since you ordered it or tried it on makes you second guess it. Maybe you can go back and try it on again to be sure?
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This happened to me too Try not to obsess over it, yo chose it for a reason!
Kristina2009
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Posted by flairforfashion
I just looked at your album- is it the Lazaro dress? If so- you are going to look STUNNING! I am sure there is something about that dress that made you love it. Sometimes if it has been too long since you ordered it or tried it on makes you second guess it. Maybe you can go back and try it on again to be sure?
Yes the lazaro. I think you may be right. It has been a while. Maybe I will make working on the body so I wear the dress well the prioirty and stop stressing. Easier said I am sure but i will try!
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I am feeling the same way about my dress...I did the opposite, I wanted a little more elaborate and I went very plain and now im stressing about it...but like everyone says there is a reason I ordered it in the first place. I need to go back to bridal reflections and try it on
