Dex was being a jerk and wanted to tell the adoption agency what was going on, he wanted to postone them coming here..he was dangling these children over my head, because he knew I needed him to complete this adoption...what kind of person would do that???? So I hadnt slept, I was sure when I called the agency, they would not allow us to go through with this, so I called our social worker first and she was amazing, but she said she wasnt sure what the agency would say. So I lived in hell for a few days, assuming the worst, that they wouldnt let me go through this adoption alone..I finally worked up the courage to call the agency and the owner was so AWESOME>.she said as long as I dont mind being a single parent, they are better off then where they are and that it is ok, we will still follow through with the qadoption....so I am soooooooooo damn happy..I had been so friggin scared that id lost them, that was a pain ive never felt before, nor do I ever want to feel again!!!! UGH..I just needed to vent, Im so glad to tell the truth, now I dont have to lie to the agency anymore!!!! YEA!!!!!! And the boys will go to court in Ethiopia tomorrow and they will legally be mine!!!
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I'm glad it all worked out in the end... tomorrow they will be yours, that's all that matters!!!!!!!!!!
Jess2
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I'm sorry Dex did that to you but I'm so glad that tomorrow they will be yours! Finally, yay!!!
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Wow. I'm really sorry about Dex. But I'm glad you told the agency - you didn't want to have problems later. And, I'm even gladder that it's a go!!!
Sorry about the scary part but congrats on the wonderful news!
marymoon
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Thank God! I'm so happy. Now yo8u don't have to hide anything from anyone. What a weight lifted!
Marcie
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I am so glad that it worked out for you!!!!!!!
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Alicia,
I am sorry you had to go through that but I am glad it is all worked out & the boys will be yours and Dex can't do anything to jeopardize that!!!
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Wow, good for you!!!
aliciahelene
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Thank you, I do feel so much better, that was the worst feeling of my life, I really thought Id lost them, it killed me. Dex is being quite the as$hole, and if there was evr any chance, even a small one of reconciliation, there is no chance in hell now. To use those boys as a bargaining tool when he didnt want them anywway is just cruel, to supposedly love me and to do that to me just shows im making the right decision. Im disgusted, yet sooooo relieved, because now the boys are MINE and the agency knows and I dont have to hide anything and most importantly, the boys are mine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now I have nothing to fear!!! Except how to have the 'sex talk' with them...heeheee Thanks for all of your support as usual!!! Tomorrow is the big day!!! They'll legally be mine! YIPPPPPPEEEE
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luvsbob4603
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awwww i am so happy to hear that alicia that by tomorrow the boys are going to legally have a angel for a mother! god bless you alicia you are a very special person i love ya ! and i am sorry about the scare you had.
Janice
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Thank God everything worked out.
lvdolphins
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First I want to say, I am sorry he did this. Second...I am soo glad everything is working out for you!!
palebride
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Those boys are so lucky!!!
HearzBellz
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OMG I am sorry Dex was a jerk. But that is a releif that ou can be open about what is going on and have no repercussions.
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So glad everything worked out for you
lilmrs
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WOW! Tomorrow IS THE BIG DAY! I AM So nervous and excited for you!!
mrswask
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I am so sorry you had to go through that crap but so excited that everything is still moving forward!!! I am so happy the boys will soon be with you!!!
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So sorry that you had to got hrough that b.s. but happy that it has worked out in the end. We expect to see pics of you and your boys vey soon!!!!!!!!!!
