Dex was being a jerk and wanted to tell the adoption agency what was going on, he wanted to postone them coming here..he was dangling these children over my head, because he knew I needed him to complete this adoption...what kind of person would do that???? So I hadnt slept, I was sure when I called the agency, they would not allow us to go through with this, so I called our social worker first and she was amazing, but she said she wasnt sure what the agency would say. So I lived in hell for a few days, assuming the worst, that they wouldnt let me go through this adoption alone..I finally worked up the courage to call the agency and the owner was so AWESOME>.she said as long as I dont mind being a single parent, they are better off then where they are and that it is ok, we will still follow through with the qadoption....so I am soooooooooo damn happy..I had been so friggin scared that id lost them, that was a pain ive never felt before, nor do I ever want to feel again!!!! UGH..I just needed to vent, Im so glad to tell the truth, now I dont have to lie to the agency anymore!!!! YEA!!!!!! And the boys will go to court in Ethiopia tomorrow and they will legally be mine!!!
jantany26
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I'm glad to hear Alicia, thank god.
kdelace
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im so g;ad everything worked out alicia... i still dont understand why dex is doing this to you.. you are doing the right thing and the boys will have a great life with a mother like you. Im sorry you are going through what you are with dex but we are all here to support you through the ups and downs!!!!
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aliciahelene
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Thanks!!!! I have been walking around on cloud 9, knowing that now absolutley NOTHING can stop me from bringing these boys home! I may have to have them escorted because money is tight and I need to get things settled here before they come, so now I am looking at August, possibly July. If traveled, which I desparetly wanted to do, id be going end of May, it kills me to know I could have them so soon, but in the long run, its more important that I find a nice place to live, work for a few months , get money saved and be able to take off two or three weeks when they come home. So now, I just have to wait a little longer, but they are mine and nothing can keep us apart now!!! Now if I can only find a full time job!!! Thanks for your support everyone!!
1017Bride
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Sorry about that. I am happy you are another step closer to getting your boys.
LauderLady
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I'm sorry to hear how awful he was being to you!!!! But I'm am glad to hear everything is working out!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
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Jenn524
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I am so sorry that you're having problems. You are an incredible person for adopting these boys.
soon2bMrs
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I am sorry that your soon to be ex is being such a jerk but happy to hear everything is still moving forward with the adoption and that your boys will be in your arms soon.
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Well, I guess what they say is true - that everything happens for a reason - Dex was a jerk, which in turn made you come clean and tell the agency the truth! Now, you have absolutely NOTHING holding you back from these boys. I am so happy for you, just keep looking toward your future, your rainbow is just about at the end!
