I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

JessicaM. Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:50 PM

I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

My fh's bachelor party is the same Saturday night as mine. I found out the what and the where (we have a friend that owns a nice italian rest. in Park Slope...they are closing it down at 10:30 for a 'private party)

anyway, while I would NEVER tell fh anything about the party....I am freaking out just THINKING about some chick touching him all over...

it's so weird b/c for his 30th bday, I didn't care...but I just feel this is going to get RAUNCHIER....

I don't even think he'll do anything...I just HATE my overactive imagination!

I need something to poke out my mind's eye!

esb980 Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:52 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Yeah, it's not fun to think about some hussy rubbing her self on your FH.... It's good that your party is the same time.... that way you won't be all pre occupied with 'Whats he doing?'

spring06bride Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:53 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by JessicaM.

My fh's bachelor party is the same Saturday night as mine. I found out the what and the where (we have a friend that owns a nice italian rest. in Park Slope...they are closing it down at 10:30 for a 'private party)

anyway, while I would NEVER tell fh anything about the party....I am freaking out just THINKING about some chick touching him all over...

it's so weird b/c for his 30th bday, I didn't care...but I just feel this is going to get RAUNCHIER....

I don't even think he'll do anything...I just HATE my overactive imagination!

I need something to poke out my mind's eye!

i know exactly what you mean! i was really paranoid about FH's bachelor party and it all turned out for the best. You just have to trust FH!

Mrs. Powell Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:56 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Try not to give it too much thought. Think about the fun you will be having at yours. Bear in mind that your FH chose you to be the special lady to be in his life forever so these girls does not mean anything to him. The girls are just there to entertain the men but after the party your FH will only be thinking about you.

CynthiaandJeff Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:56 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Thank god fh hates strippers. (he thinks they're sleazy) I think I'd have a heart attack....

jilmadison Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:57 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

I did not have a problem with DH and his bachelor party, untill my brothers came home with belt marks and bite marks from the stripper. DH had very little marks, but I was furious. Biting??? That is disgusting and unsanitary.

Dancing Boobies is one thing, but keep your mouth off my guy!!

esb980 Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:58 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by jilmadison

I did not have a problem with DH and his bachelor party, untill my brothers came home with belt marks and bite marks from the stripper. DH had very little marks, but I was furious. Biting??? That is disgusting and unsanitary.

Dancing Boobies is one thing, but keep your mouth off my guy!!

EWWWW!!

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:58 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Girl please-its only natural to feel this way...my blood boils everytime I think about it...meanwhile he gives me $hit everytime my bachelorette party in South Beach is mentioned...

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:59 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by jilmadison

I did not have a problem with DH and his bachelor party, untill my brothers came home with belt marks and bite marks from the stripper. DH had very little marks, but I was furious. Biting??? That is disgusting and unsanitary.

Dancing Boobies is one thing, but keep your mouth off my guy!!

WHAT?!

OMG Im having a herat attack here!!!!!!!!

vinnysgrl Posted: Mar 14, 2006 02:59 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

i told my FH my rule is you can watch but she cannot touch ...i think its gross its one thing to watch but to have someone you dont know rub themself on you is gross

JessicaM. Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:02 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by Mrs. Powell

Try not to give it too much thought. Think about the fun you will be having at yours. Bear in mind that your FH chose you to be the special lady to be in his life forever so these girls does not mean anything to him. The girls are just there to entertain the men but after the party your FH will only be thinking about you.

oh no, believe me, I don't feel like I am being 'replaced' or anything like that...I don't think he loves me any less because of this...

I am talking about the PHYSICAL stuff...just the IDEA all the dancign and touching...I don't really go THAT deep....LOL I am talking pure skin.

Mrs. Powell Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:04 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by JessicaM.

Posted by Mrs. Powell

Try not to give it too much thought. Think about the fun you will be having at yours. Bear in mind that your FH chose you to be the special lady to be in his life forever so these girls does not mean anything to him. The girls are just there to entertain the men but after the party your FH will only be thinking about you.

oh no, believe me, I don't feel like I am being 'replaced' or anything like that...I don't think he loves me any less because of this...

I am talking about the PHYSICAL stuff...just the IDEA all the dancign and touching...I don't really go THAT deep....LOL I am talking pure skin.

Do not think about it just try to think about other things. Believe me if you think about it too much you are going to drive yourself nuts. I did not bother myself about DH's party I was too busy thinking about mine.

cindyandkevin Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:07 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

It's perfecly natural for you to fee that way, Jess. You're certainly not a freak!!

In fact, I think it's healthy of you to feel somewhat possessive of him, afterall he's your man and no one else's. It's things like this that make you realize how much you love him. Sharing this with FH might not be a bad thing, it'll show him that he's someone worth getting crazy over!!

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:12 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

It's okay. My FH's bachelor party is going to be sooner than I expected--in a few weekends. They are going to Canada because FBIL is only 19 and he's the best man. I totally trust my FH. But I don't want to be alone in MD while he's living it up with strippers. I think I'm gonna stay with my MOH for the weekend and be girly. It will take my mind off of it.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:14 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by CynthiaandJeff

Thank god fh hates strippers. (he thinks they're sleazy) I think I'd have a heart attack....

yeah, same here. neither one of us wants strippers. I think its nasty, I don't understand the attraction.

ChrissynRicky Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:17 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by JessicaM.

Posted by Mrs. Powell

Try not to give it too much thought. Think about the fun you will be having at yours. Bear in mind that your FH chose you to be the special lady to be in his life forever so these girls does not mean anything to him. The girls are just there to entertain the men but after the party your FH will only be thinking about you.

oh no, believe me, I don't feel like I am being 'replaced' or anything like that...I don't think he loves me any less because of this...

I am talking about the PHYSICAL stuff...just the IDEA all the dancign and touching...I don't really go THAT deep....LOL I am talking pure skin.

Honestly Jess, these woman are being paid to do it...there's not gratification from either end of it. Yes, Bachelor Parties can get pretty out of hand, but in the end, Leo has a conscious and you to contend with.

itslaurie. Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:21 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by CynthiaandJeff

Thank god fh hates strippers. (he thinks they're sleazy)

I was a pretty classy stripper.

ChrissynRicky Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:22 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Posted by itslaurie.

Posted by CynthiaandJeff

Thank god fh hates strippers. (he thinks they're sleazy)

I was a pretty classy stripper.

iffer042373 Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:34 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

My FH said he is not into the strippers and doesn't really care what they do I told him to let his brother plan it and go to the stip joint and have a good time hey I know I am going to have strippers so why not him

johnsae Posted: Mar 14, 2006 03:41 PM

Re: I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

don't worry Jess, I am definitely a jealous possessive freak as well - FH is going to Montreal for his bachelor party and I am freaking out!!!!! They get DIRTY there.