i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

you all might remember i had broke my toe a couple of weeks ago due to my bad ankle that gave way! well guess what! i had a doc. appointment with the comp doctor today he took my ankle and pulled it left then right i nearly hit the ceiling then proceeded(sp) to grab my broken toe!
i left there screaming and cursing then i would say with in 10 mins at the most after leaving the pain oh god the pain i started to cry! i had to take off my sneaker due to it began to swell ! i made my sister stop at my mom's job to get ice for it right away! still crying at this point! but now because it not only hut so bad but my wedding is in 15 days!
while at my mom's job i called my regular doc and he told me to come in right away! he took one look at my foot and places it back in a brace board and said off of it for 2 weeks ummm 2 weeks the tears again started to roll! he said the friday before the wedding he is going to re eval and give me a strong enough brace that should fit in my ballerina shoes and help me to get through the day! i hope it works but they way it has been going it looks like most of my pic are going to be me sitting down and dance mostly just the must to do dances! i just need to get through the day and get to my honeymoon! sorry this is so long but i am sooo upset and i can't sleep! thanks for listening!

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oh I am so sorry. It sounds like you have just enough time to let your foot rest and feel good enough on your wedding day. I knew a girl who sprained her shoulder in a car accident the week of the wedding and she was so preoccupied the day of that she forgot about it and basically didn't feel any pain at all. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. I'm sure that within the next two weeks you'll be feeling a lot better. I'm sorry this happened to you...

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I am so sorry to hear that!!!!!

Re: i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

Re: i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

omg.... get some good rest to help heal it..

mr hostility is right.. the day is what you make of it.. remember to keep smiling through the day.. im sure the photographer could probably work around it if needed..

hope it gets better soon

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Oh I am so sorry to hear that. REST. I know those comp dr are the worst. My dad had his foot run over by an 18 wheel tractor trailer truck. He had to go to the stupid comp dr. and they tried to tell him his foot was ok. They made him stand on his toes. Um he had 5 broken toes and all the bones in the top of his toes where broken, Dont strees to much!

Re: i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

Re: i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

I'm so sorry Janet...I hope you're feeling better soon!!!

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OHHHH I am SOOOO SORRY to hear that

Re: i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

I am so sorry that you are going through this. My mom is going through a very similar situation. She has been doing everything, using a foot massager with REALLY hot water, icing it, taking medication the doc gave her, tapes her two toes together everyday. She has also been wearing sneakers and doubling on her socks. It gives her foot more support and less room for her toe and ankle to move around in. This occured the night before my shower. That was January 10.
I also bought her platform flip flops. They have a 2 1/2' heel and last night she put them on and was pretty comfortable. I would def. try taping your toe with the ajacent toe to give it support. This seems to have worked alot for my mom.
Don't worry it will get better. If there is anything you can give people to do that helps you stay off your feet I think you should do so.

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Sooo sorry!!! Listen, take the doc's advice and try to stay off of it as much as possible!! Baby yourself and especially your foot for next two weeks and you'll feel the difference on your wedding day. Also get plenty of rest and try not to stress over things you cannot control! It's amazing what rest and relaxation can for healing!!!

You are going to have a wonderful and memorable wedding day no matter what!

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Stay off your foot every chance you get!!! Hang in there, your day will be wonderful no matter what.

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I am so sorry, I would be crying too. But listen to the doc and rest. If you have a dress where you cant see your feet, you can pose in pictures with one foot up like a flamingo. Ok I am just trying to get you to smile. You will still look beautiful and have a great time.

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Hi, I am acutally going through something really similiar to you. I had ankle surgery the first of Dec and am Still sitting home on disability.
I actually was in the same sititution for my sisters wedding. I was going to a physical therepist and as weird as this sounds she helped me a lot. She actually taped the bottom of my foot from my Heel to the base of your toes with tape that they tape atheletes with. You would never think it worked but oh boy what a difference I was actually able to wear shoes for 3/4 of the wedding without pain and then put my sneakers later. You can shower with the tape and everything. Ask your Dr about it he may be able to do it for you.

In the meantime just stay off it as much as you can. Try to do whatever final arrangements you can VIA phone/ FAX. And if you need to run around get your family and FH to help. DON'T DO IT ALL YOURSELF.
Most of all relax it will get better.

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Good thing you arent wearing a mini-skirt! lol
No one will even see your foot with the brace, which is a definite plus...and as for dancing, use your NEW HUBBY for support...he can hold you up! And as for walking around...why not play QUEEN FOR A DAY and make the guests come to YOU! They'll all be lined up by your chair waiting to wish you the best! You'll have everyone waiting on you hand and...err...foot!

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I am sorry you are going through this!! You do not need the extra aggravation before the wedding. My advice: TAKE IT EASY!!!! Stay off those feet as much as possible!! I am sure you will feel 100 times better by the big day!! I will be thinking happy thoughts for you on a swift recovery!!

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So very sorry to read your story!!!

As a few other girls have said here, take the doc's advice and try to stay off your feet (easier said than done, I know .. but TRY!)

Get plenty of rest and try to feel better. Your wedding and HM are going to be fantastic no matter what, try to keep that in mind when you are getting down!

Good Luck and Feel Better Soon!!

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OMG... I'm really sorry that you have to go through this. I wish you the very best!! Stay off your foot and feel better.

Re: i have cried all day today! with 15 days to go i am sooo depressed .. i know again and a little long!

sorry to hear that what i'm sure everything will work out!!

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Wow - what a bummer. But I agree that your day is what you make of it, and so much can change in 2 weeks' time. Keep your spirits up, and allow your body to rest and heal. Your wedding is going to be amazing no matter what because it is the day that you commit to your husband, and that you and he begin your life together. It will always be special to you -- and even if you are hobbling through it, you will be able to laugh about it years from now. I promise.