SO FH NEICE IS ONE OF MY JR BRIDESMAIDS SHE IS 7 My fmil paid for her dress and I have to buy her shoes plus my own 2 daughters shoes I bought 2 different styles to see which I like better with the dress so that is 6 pairs of shoes I paid for! they need to be ivory so its hard to find them so I ask her mom if I could take her to get shoes and she says she is a 1 1/2 but the shoes ran big so I bought a 1 and a 1 1/2. So I stop over to have her try them on....they are way too big so she needs them for the fitting in 6 days so I ask her again if I can take her daughter with me to try on shoes.... she had the nerve to say buy a 12 1/2 and 13 and 13 1/2 and then come back and we will see what size fits
are you f'ing kidding me seriously like I have nothing better to do. I am so PISSED
Jamie&MarkSept.'05
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That is extremely inconsiderate and you definitely have a right to be PO'ed....
I would have snapped!
MamanDaddyof2
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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05
That is extremely inconsiderate and you definitely have a right to be PO'ed....
I would have snapped!
and I bend over backwards for them...they asked me last week to get up at 6am to watch her and drive her to school an I have my own kids to take to school but I said ok she never showed up and finally called at 7:15 to say she wasnt coming They asked me to watch her at 6am 3x next week and I said yes too...I am a glutten for punishment
Jamie&MarkSept.'05
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You are too nice! Unfortunately I am the same way....
It drives me crazy the way some people are raised....just so rude and inconsiderate!!!
Try not to let her bug you...someday she will need help and no one will be there (which is what she deserves!!!)
May05Bride
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Unbeliveable!
What is her problem? Why won't she just let the girl go to try the shoes on?
MamanDaddyof2
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Unbeliveable!
What is her problem? Why won't she just let the girl go to try the shoes on?
SHE IS A WACKO ....SERIOUSLY SHE HAS A SCREW LOOSE she just cant get off her lazy a s s
chris605
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I too would have lost it....
Marisa M
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Maybe if you remind her she's getting a FREE babysitter for an hour she'll change her tune........
chachou22
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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05
That is extremely inconsiderate and you definitely have a right to be PO'ed....
I would have snapped!
Ditto big time
MamanDaddyof2
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they act like they are doing me a favor by letting her be in our wedding so annoying
Thanks girls I am actually feeling better already Just being able to vent is nice I cant bother fh with this since he has 2 jobs and I see him 15 minutes a day
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God, that's crazy. It's not like you're not gonna give her back. It's pretty inconsiderate of her in my opinion! Doesn't she think you have anything better to do than run back to the store again???? What if they don't fit right again??? Geez...some people!
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Tell her you have no time, with planning the wedding and all and you can't get to it b/c you have your own _______ to be concerned with. She is asking way too much.
cmastro25
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Wow, that is very inconsiderate. What does she think you are going to kidnap her child or something. Very rude!!! Sorry you have to deal with that.
salsbride06
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i would have snapped. that is rediculous. that is so inconsiderate also.
Marcie
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I am sorry you have to go through this - I think if it was me I would call her when you are ready to go back to the store and say that you are picking up her daughter to go try shoes on. I would be honest and say you have 10,000 other things to do with the wedding planning and going back and forth to the shoe store is not part of it. If she doesn't like that - then have her do it. This is not your responsibility. Most adults know that when you ask their children to be in a wedding party that there are some things that they need to do - even some running around!!!!
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That's ridiculous.
Seriously, if the shoes are just a bit bigger in the toe can you stuff them with something so they fit her?
Your post reminded me. My mom always bought dress shoes a bit big and stuffed them figuring my foot would grow again before the next time I would wear them. She didn't have to buy a new pair of dress shoes every time I needed them.
I'm sorry for how your family acts towards you. They are taking advantage... you imght have to start saying no for your own sanity.
